Mom and Dad always quarrel, why do Mom and Dad always quarrel?

First of all, you should prevent your parents from divorcing, and secondly, as the son of your parents, you should think clearly about your position in their hearts, they love you, you have to do their work separately, in order for us to have a complete home, I hope that your parents will be accommodating and tolerant of each other. There is no flame mountain that can't be crossed, and besides, what are your parents going out to work hard for, it won't be easy for them to find it again after they get divorced, because you can't get together with another person for a while, your parents should be able to understand each other after stumbling for decades, and besides, there is no matter of principle between them. Again, you have to help the family do more things and be considerate of the hard work of your parents.

Well, I don't know if that can help you.

You dislike him, and of course he thinks you don't love him. Whatever he did wrong, how could you tell him to accommodate his mother, just like he was wrong. Who wants others to deny themselves?

Their conflict is their problem with each other, and whatever their decision is, it is their choice. Everyone has their own problems, and your topic is to accompany them through all this, don't criticize anyone, you just think that mom is wronged, but you don't see dad's difficulties and grievances, therefore, any character is unfair to both. The conflict between them is not something you can help solve, so it is a rope that pulls them together and only they can untie it step by step.

A lot of age, still learning from Ma Yili?

Let each other go, mom complains less, dad softens, life is like this, it's all old husbands and wives. It's so childish.

Question: They divorced nine years ago, five years old, the first time I saw them quarrel, from that day on, they would quarrel over trivial things, when I was young, I couldn't do anything, I just cried, I don't know what's wrong with it now, I remember it again, how to get rid of bad mood?

The past is gone, and you look forward.

If your mom and dad are constantly arguing, then I don't think it has anything to do with you, because it's their own relationship problems. I don't think you have a good way to stop them, you just have to watch things unfold.

But if you really want to get involved in this matter, please, I advise you to first find out why your parents are arguing. I think it's important to see if it's because of relationship problems, family problems, or work problems, and then you feel impatient and quarrel, you have to understand why they are fighting. In fact, quarrels between husband and wife are very common.

The first small frame does not need to be persuaded. Friction in life is inevitable, sometimes quarrels are a kind of venting for them, in this case you just stay in the house and study, if the quarrel is loud, you say you have to learn and ask them not to disturb you.

The second big frame is rational persuasion. If the argument is very intense, for example, if you have already started slapping the table and throwing things, then you should hurry up. Persuade to stay sensible, don't be brought in by the atmosphere, speak in a calm and powerful tone, don't speak too fast, and maintain a neutral position.

You should understand that everyone is responsible for their own marriage, and your parents are responsible for the way they get along, and you can suggest, blame, but don't take this as your obligation. What's more, it's too hard to change a person, don't fall into it. They have their own patterns and solutions.

Just do your best and don't blame yourself too much.

Or because of emotional problems, persuade it.

Hello, I would like to answer this question for you First, your parents may have different views on family life and family affairs. Second, both parents are stubborn and do not tolerate each other's stomach and posture, third, the parents lack communication, fourth, there are also very different personalities of both parents, it is recommended that you do a good job of "bridge" for your parents in the future, try your best to resolve their conflicts, and often do a good job of "communication" between parents to mediate, only in this way can you avoid and reduce unnecessary disputes between parents, so that the family is harmonious and happy.