If you break up, you can t be friends or enemies, what should you do?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-10
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Dear landlord.

    We'll be happy to answer for you.

    I've had your problem before.

    Here's my own.

    Hope it can help the landlord.

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may also be friends after the breakup

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

    If my own.

    Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

    Looking forward to your !

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not an absolute thing that one person can say for sure, but only that there is this hope for each other;You are deeply in love with him at this time, and maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand;I'm glad to have it;If you miss it, I will die;Calmly pass and accept it;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... You can really have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and you can accommodate a smile covered with dust and wind and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more;The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best!All the best!Career success!Happy and happy!

    I hope mine will satisfy you!Thank you !!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    After a breakup, you can't be friends because you've hurt yourself, you can't be enemies because you love each other deeply, you can't be enemies because you love each other deeply. July 29, 2021 09:40 on the left side of the corner of the fourth floor.

    The two broke up and couldn't be friends, because no matter what they broke up for, we became the most familiar foreigners. When you give me an invitation when you get married, happy, sad, you are willing to give up on each other, have the heart to hurt each other, or never really love each other after a breakup, we can't be friends.

    Because we hurt each other. But you can't be an enemy because of anger, friends, because they hurt each other, not be enemies, because they love each other, but because they didn't hurt each other. I think it still makes sense to be friends because she reminds you of the one you once loved, "You can really burn her to ashes and then burn both the people who love you and the people you love."

    To the enemy, no, as long as everyone wants to be open, what's the problem.

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you hurt the other person, you can't be an enemy because you love each other, so the more angry you are, the happier the enemy becomes. Because I don't know if I will be a teacher of love in my next life, I can be a lovely person like you, just like your question, it's really simple, because the person who loves each other has taken a path that two people never thought of? Can I still meet?

    So, if I can be a friend, I can't be an enemy because I've hurt myself because I love myself deeply.

    So I can only be the stranger I know the most. Does love swallow or spit back? Sometimes I want to swallow you and never be separated, but sometimes I can be friends because I hurt each other.

    You can't be enemies and friends just because you hurt each other! So after a breakup, you can only be the strangers you know the most, and everyone says that Shakespeare said that he will not be enemies after they break up because they love each other. Guys.

    Because they love each other deeply, you can't keep what you should give up, but you can't give up what you should love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's because after the breakup, the two people are like strangers, and if they become friends again, they will hurt both of them, and they can only be strangers.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because two people have loved each other before, it must be very awkward to be friends after breaking up, and being a stranger is the best, because two people have loved, and it is a bit too much to be enemies.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because two people used to have feelings, they felt that it was unnecessary to be friends or enemies, and if they were friends, they would be embarrassed to meet, and if they were enemies, they would also feel that their feelings were very defeated.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Because the two of them had particularly good memories before, there was no way to be friends calmly, and there was no need to be strangers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is the best state, which can reflect your character, and it can also show that both people are very rational and good for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other.

    You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other.

    So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......

    After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

    If it's a friend, it needs care, and if that's the case, then why choose to break up?

    A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends?

    If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances There is no floodgate in feelings, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a pull

    It is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......

    There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......

    Different characters, different landscapes.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back?

    It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......

    Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    If you don't love him or her, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness.

    Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......

    Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the most familiar stranger.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If two people are serious, they are really in love

    It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

    If both of them are just having fun

    You may still be friends after you break up, you can't be friends because you have hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you have loved each other!

    It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

    Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

    If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

    If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

    And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

    What if two people become friends?

    Look at the people you once loved

    And now you don't love each other anymore

    Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

    It only hurts more

    It's better to be a stranger

    Let time fade everything that once was

    Just let it be a rainbow in memory

    I wish you happiness

    The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe it's because the deeper the love, the deeper the hate, and in the end, the two people who love each other become the most familiar strangers. It doesn't matter whether two people are friends or not after they break up, you say yes! And it's even more unnecessary to be enemies, after all, the two of them have also loved each other and have good memories.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, you can't be enemies because you've loved each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be friends: Hurt each other: Get to know each other.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    From two strangers to the familiar one.

    The person, and then from the familiar person to the strange familiar him. Some choose to forget him, others choose to stay in their hearts, not to say hello even when they meet, or just nodding their heads. It's easy to be a stranger, but it's hard to be a friend.

    After all, the two of them have managed their relationship with their hearts, and they can't be said to be unforgettable, but they have also experienced it together, undertaken, and tolerated it. Even if we can't walk together, if we meet, it will definitely be even more uncomfortable. So not being friends is the choice of most people.

    If you are friends, it is a respect for both parties, choose this approach, let go of everything before, and then magnify each other's points, this is the choice of some people, and it is also something that some people can't understand.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To be friends is to respect each other.

    It is because of the high level of cultivation within oneself, because everyone has advantages and disadvantages.

    I only think about the merits, the advantages, and do not forget.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are only two possibilities for being friends after a breakup: 1 Two people have never loved each other 2 There is one person who is silently giving.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

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  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Whether they can continue to be friends depends on the attitude of the two people. If you can be friends again, that's the best, if not, then it's better not to force it, just be one"Hold it, put it down"will feel better!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because some people can see it, and some people can't.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other. You can't be the enemy. Because they loved each other deeply, they could only become the most familiar strangers.

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