How to make yourself proactive and energetic

There are several ways to make yourself proactive and energetic:

1. Knowledge is power.

Learning can make a person's mind rich, not disturbed by negative energy, think calmly, do the right thing, develop the habit of learning, don't know how to change after making mistakes, many things we can do without detours, learn from other people's experience to enrich themselves, make themselves more vibrant, more attractive.

Second, everyone has shortcomings, to ignore the shortcomings of others, look at the advantages of others, more encouragement, but do not exaggerate, of course, but also pay attention to the occasion, we usually know in the pertinent opinions, are difficult to accept, if many times like this, but not good, we ourselves also like to be with people who like us, and do not like others to remind us of our shortcomings.

3. Complain less, take things by kind, people by groups, if you are a complaining person, change from now on, don't complain, what is unsatisfactory to change what, complaining all day long is a negative person, a negative person, is not recognized by others, do things will also be discounted, often backfired, this is not what we want to see, why is it still so, try to change, not good? At the same time, you will also broaden your horizons, push your life and career to new heights, and live a happier life.

Fourth, get rid of the sloppy habit, go out every day to look in the mirror, look at yourself objectively, whether you are satisfied, sloppy people, leaders, friends will not like it, but also let yourself miss a lot of opportunities, a neat, clean person, easy to make people feel that this is a very capable, very capable person, can take on heavy responsibilities, very atmosphere, so that we encounter things, easier to deal with.

Fifth, say more honorifics, this ancients did better than us, don't casually regardless of the occasion straight friends nickname, very impolite, in a good relationship is not good, meet friends in the big party to say hello, do not avoid, to know that many things are caused by themselves, do not add unnecessary trouble to others, a person who respects others, it is easy to be respected by others, do not do what you want, do not do to others, we all understand, and can put into action, more commendable, so that you can also win interpersonal relationships.

It's good for everyone, isn't it?

Sixth, in case of trouble, do not run away when encountering difficulties, to actively solve them, friends encounter difficulties, can help, try to help as much as possible, do wrong things, to have the courage to admit that escape is often the worst result, and take the initiative to solve it, things can be truncated, not worsened, and even turn to a good direction, is it better! Isn't it easier and easier to deal with such people!

To be more proactive, you can set a life goal for yourself, make a detailed plan, and constantly encourage yourself.

Then you can read more, study more, and try to fill yourself with positive energy.

To be motivated, you have to be pressured, and that's the foundation of motivation.

The relationship is pressure + ability = motivation.

Why is there pressure? The goal exceeds the ability (certainly, not exceeding the goal), and the ability to dismantle the rock is not yet able to reach the goal, so we must work hard and enhance the ability, so as to produce a dynamic and cautious ruler force! The goal plays a major decisive role, the self-set goal is too high, the probability of achieving it is slim, that is, the ability is too weak, then the motivation will be determined by the subjective consciousness, some people work harder to enhance their ability, and some people will lose motivation if they lack it!

I estimate that more than half of the people lose motivation, so when it comes to setting your own goals, it's still up to your means!

I wish you all the best in achieving your goals soon!

Stress is the driving force because everything in the world has two sides, and the two sides determine whether your understanding of things and your actions are logical and common-sense. For example, if you make a mistake, then you will be punished, and if you are punished, you will remember not to make that mistake again. If you look at the problem from this point of view, you will understand that it is not terrible for you to make mistakes, but it is terrible that you make the same mistakes.

You've improved because of this mistake. That's the benefit of being two-sided. If you understand this, you will understand the dialectical relationship between the pressure and the motivation of things.

You'll be able to turn stress into motivation.

In fact, everyone has pressure, how to convert pressure into motivation In fact, the most important thing is to divide pressure into phased goals, solve it a little bit, you will find self-confidence, and pressure will naturally become motivation! One of the stories I often tell my students is that if you come to a 30-story building and you're about to go upstairs, but the elevator breaks down, and you have to go up to the 30th floor. It's so stressful!

At this time, you will have two ways to do it, first, stand in front of the building and jump, complain, and as a result, the pressure will increase. The second is to find the stairs, one step at a time, and start going up, and you will find that you are getting closer and closer to your goal. Before you know it, you've gone up to 30 floors.

It's a little tired, but you've accomplished your goal, and that sense of joy has drowned out the tiredness.