What is the psychology of sometimes wanting others to know what to do or say?

What do you do and what do you say? Sometimes I want others to know that such a person is showing off himself, or he wants others to look at him, because what if he does something? If you want others to know, then you want others to notice you, and doing this thing by yourself must be meaningful to others, or beneficial to yourself, then, if you speak, you must want to communicate with others, let others talk to yourself, so such a person is to let others pay attention to yourself.

This kind of psychology is also very normal, sometimes when you want to do this kind of thing, you don't want to do it because of this thing, but because you want others to know that you have done it, so you want to do it, I think it's normal, people have this kind of show-off mentality, hoping to show off their good side to others. <>

Sometimes letting others know what to do or say is a slight social barrier, the problem is not big, and it is not a bad thing for people to be afraid, just don't go too far, balance is still necessary. If there are too many things that you are "afraid of", you have to cultivate your own bravery, or you may deliberately let others know <>

Sometimes it is a very bad behavior to want others to know what to do or say, this is a kind of psychology that wants to expose yourself to others, probably because these people are insecure, so they especially want others to care about him, so they want to put their own things in front of others.

It is a desire that cannot be satisfied in the heart. For example, I've been unhappy lately. Falling out of love, or having an unhappy relationship with a friend.

I want to express my feelings through the circle of friends and say what I really think in my heart. Get a thumbs up or a nice reassurance. It will make my heart very satisfied and secure.

If it's in love. I want to know. My every move in front of him, does he realize anything?

It must be a trait that is in a hurry to perform, probably the kind of person who is more active, more extroverted, or wants to show off something. In this way, you can get praise and attention from others. I recommend focusing more on your own life and not caring about what others think.

After all, life is your own, not someone else's.

Often first impressions are more important. Then you can see how you are mentally going from your words and actions. If your words and deeds are in a bad mood, and you live day by day, then your psychology is indifferent and you are a person who has no hope for your life.

If your words and deeds are gentle and polite, then you are a person with excellent cultivation, emotional intelligence and quality. Of course, some people can see his psychology at a glance.

Expressing oneself bravely is also a way for others to live, and I think this way of living is also good. It's a ritual to let others know what they're doing, and in doing so, you'll make your life better. It's a good attitude to let others see the excellence you have thought about.

So sometimes they post on Moments, and I think it's very good.

If you want others to know, you will say it, and if you only want to think about it, you will think in your heart!

The subconscious mind is like this.

Speaking in the heart, it is generally your own guess. No matter what it is, it's better to think in a good direction. Otherwise, wouldn't you be afraid of yourself?

It can be said to be the "careful thinking" in the heart, the calculation in the heart, and the plan. (Actually, you can go to the encyclopedia to check it, where the explanation is more comprehensive.) ）

It is recommended to communicate with your parents first, talk to them first, ask them to give you advice and help, or find the best classmates and friends to confide in, often put your thoughts in your mind, and bear it silently for a long time, it will affect your normal emotions, and it may also produce a withdrawn and self-contained personality, first of all, tell your parents about the psychological words, I believe this is the first step you should take.

It's not what you have to say, it's your habits, you're just used to what you do. It was formed unconsciously. Purely inadvertent. It's like a knee jerk reaction.

I don't know. When I was in my hometown, I used my hometown dialect, and when I was in other places, I used Mandarin. I think it depends on the external locale.

Sound is generated by vibrations, and speaking from the heart can only be counted as your thoughts, or it can be counted as the voice of your heart, which only you can hear.

Earthlings will do it!

Think about something with your heart, and sometimes you can't hear what others are talking to, as if you are cut off from the outside world.

I always wanted to be a clean boy who exuded the smell of books all over his body, but he didn't expect to become a reckless man who floated in the rivers and lakes. I hope that in this world, the flowers and willows can be opened, and the wind and rain can stand still. Occasional friends who fall in love cherish them with your heart. Can you hear me?

The scars that bloomed at that time have become beautiful memories today! It's much better to experience and lose than to experience nothing. At that time, you said, if I hadn't met you, I wouldn't have thought of you when I sneezed. Have you ever said this to someone for many years?

A person's life is so long, how can it be a smooth life, without any misses and no regrets?

Someone once said, "If a thousand people pass by me, I can hear your footsteps, because other people's feet are on the ground, but your footsteps are on my heart." The words spoken with heart and affection are always so moving.

As I spoke, the thick autumn came, and among the four seasons, only autumn made me happy with just the right amount of coolness. It will also make me think of you in the fresh air and the right atmosphere.

October is approaching the halfway point, do you know that there is a trick to encountering, thousands of miles away, not sooner or later. I hope that one day, on a windy evening, I will meet you on the street corner, recognize each other, smoke a cigarette, and then step on the bus and slowly drive around every corner of the city.

If we can spend some time together, then go out for a walk on a clear weekend, or sit in the study and listen to a song on a rainy weekend. I occasionally run over to look at you, and it doesn't matter, just to see if you're reading or not, look at your side face that you're serious about reading, and you'll ask me if there's anything wrong with me, and I'll reply that you're fine. Again, boring.

I'll go back, you're bored. So I would run back to my own place and listen to the music in peace. Thinking that the quiet person is not far away, the heart is at peace, and the window is like a lotus time...

Standing at Weiming Lake that day, I turned to look at Boyata and remembered the words that I had said in Yan Yuan back then. Finally believe that the world is just a thin encounter, what has not disappeared is memory, it permeates the album of time, and is repeated and missed, dear are you in **? I used to have moles in the corners of my eyebrows.

Tanya said, if you meet her, greet her for me...

I'm a person who is afraid of losing, so I control myself to have too many good things, and the days are long, and I don't fight for the day, day by day.

But today, the wind outside the window is long, and colleagues are smiling; Their steps are gentle, their hearts are light, and the sun is warm on their desks. That long alley, you can't see the end at a glance, thinking about the person who lives in your heart, it's so beautiful!

Concentrate on one point, concentrate all your mind, and when your attention is highly concentrated, others will not be able to speak.