Why do parents always fail to see the efforts behind their students?

Parents, only look at the child's final grades, they only hope that their children will be better than themselves in the future, they will be very satisfied, don't complain too much, as long as your grades are good, parents will not say anything.

Because all the parents are blind. I worked hard to improve from 20 to 86 points, my parents also asked me why I didn't work hard to get 90, and when I worked hard to get 90, they scolded me why I didn't get a full score, no matter how hard I tried, they couldn't see it, they only cared if I was the first or not!

Maybe parents can see it. Sometimes we need to understand them. We're always trying, but your parents are worried about you, and they're always reminding you not to relax and not to be careless.

In fact, parents have long seen their children's efforts, but they don't say it, and they are worried that their children will regress due to pride.

I will only look at the results and always feel that you are not working hard enough, that you can be a superman.

From the beginning of learning to write, slow writing was nagged. If you write quickly, the strokes are irregular, and you say that your writing is bad.

When you do the questions at night, you are tired and lie down when you are lazy. When you can't sleep, you will be secretly playing with your phone.

When you grow up and go to college, your hair starts to turn gray and your hairline recedes, you will be told not to stay up late playing games.

Now I am less than thirty years old, and my gray hair and hairline are about the same as those in my forties and fifties. I work hard every day and am still nagged every day.

Classmates and colleagues can't chat together, because there are fewer games to play, there is less time to go out to play, and the post bar forum can only complain.

In this life, what is the picture??

Because they only care about the quality of their grades, my parents are afraid that I will take the first place in the exam, they will compare me with other schools, they also ban mobile phones, computers, TV and even don't let me play with my Tang brother and Tang Mei.

You have to understand the parents, you will understand when you grow up, I hope that the son will become a dragon, each parent's education method is different, and you have to run in.

Because they don't understand us at all.

Summary. Kiss, parents can't see your efforts may be the following reasons: 1. The pace of effort is too small, parents can't see it, and many things are not that you feel that you have worked hard will change2. Parents are not concerned about what you are working on3. Parents have too high expectations, and your efforts are too small compared to expectations.

Dear, parents can't see your efforts, it may be the following reasons: 1. The pace of effort is too small, parents can't see it, and many things don't guess that you feel that there will be changes if you work hard, 2. Parents know that the focus is not on the aspect of your efforts3.

You can talk to your parents and reassure them that you're already working on it, or you can give them a little encouragement.