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There should be a lot of sentences that describe not being able to see your own shortcomings and always blaming others. As the old saying goes, when a crow falls on a pig, you can't see yourself black just by seeing others black, and that's the truth. Nowadays we often say that there is no self-knowledge, and this is also true.
Some people also said that they were half paralyzed and treated others. It is to not see your own shortcomings and blame others. Real people are very annoying.
Therefore, people should sit quietly, think about themselves, and gossip about others. When you have nothing to do, you should think about your own affairs, consider your own shortcomings, and don't blindly blame and be irresponsible.
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Self-esteem, nitpicking, good teacher, self-righteous, and criticism of others as a self-satisfying pleasure.
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The pot calling the kettle black. It is a metaphor for having the same shortcomings or mistakes as others, but laughing at others
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First of all, it is very likely that because "I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain", I am blind to my shortcomings。People who turn a blind eye to their own shortcomings are not all deliberate, these people may really not find their own shortcomings, but they may be because they are more picky, and they can't stand the shortcomings of others, or they are simply too low in emotional intelligence to be a person, and they can't help but blame when they see the shortcomings of others, and they don't want to think that no one is perfect, and they may also have some shortcomings. These people may really just not see their shortcomings, and you can point out their shortcomings.
Secondly, it may also be because of ".Double standardAsking others is not the same standard as asking oneself。However, some people are deliberate, they don't know that they have shortcomings, they clearly know their shortcomings, but they require themselves to have different standards from others, they are "strict with others, lenient with themselves", which is often called "double standard". They feel that their shortcomings are not a big deal, but if others have a little shortcomings, they seem to be unforgiving, they will desperately blame others, and then find reasons and excuses for themselves, which is nothing more than double standards.
Moreover, there is also a possibility that they actually know their own shortcomings, but they do not admit them, and there are many people who know their mistakes but do not admit them。Of course, there are also some people who are neither blind to their own shortcomings, nor double standards, they may just be unable to hang their faces, unwilling to admit their shortcomings, in fact, their own shortcomings in their hearts.
Clear. In fact, there are still many such people, they don't understand that no one is perfect, and they always feel that if they admit their mistakes, others will grasp them, and they will deny their whole person because of these shortcomings, so they are not willing to openly admit that they also have shortcomings in front of others.
Finally, I personally feel that you should not take this kind of person too seriously, if you really have shortcomings, then improve, and ignore them if you don't have them。However, there is no necessary connection between whether others have shortcomings and whether others want to point out your shortcomings, not that only perfect people are qualified to say others' shortcomings, so who is also qualified to say others' shortcomings. However, only when people know their own shortcomings and face up to their own shortcomings can they improve their shortcomings or develop their strengths and avoid their weaknesses.
So if you really meet such a person, it's okay to be neither humble nor arrogant, if they say that you really have shortcomings, then improve them, if they say that you don't have shortcomings, just ignore them, of course, their way of expression is too much, you can also go back.
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Because they are all fans of the authorities, and bystanders are clear. It's not that they turn a blind eye, but they really don't know that these traits in themselves will be shortcomings in the eyes of others.
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Because these people can only see the shortcomings of others. Perhaps they also have these shortcomings, and it is precisely because of their lack that they will blame others.
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I think this is a common problem for many people, who subconsciously think that it is someone else's fault rather than their own, which should also be more selfish.
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It's because everyone thinks they're right, and they're all fans of the authorities and bystanders.
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Narcissism, blind self-confidence, lack of self-knowledge, self-isolation.
It can be described in the following words:
1.Narcissism: Narcissistic people often think they are perfect and are unable to realize their shortcomings and inadequacies.
2.Blind self-confidence: Blindly confident people often overestimate their abilities and strengths, ignore their shortcomings and deficiencies, and lack objective self-reflection and evaluation.
3.Lack of self-knowledge: People who lack self-knowledge are often unaware of their limitations and shortcomings, and are overly optimistic about their abilities and performance.
4.Self-isolation: Self-enclosed people are usually reluctant to accept feedback and criticism from the outside world, and lack objective understanding and reflection on their own shortcomings and shortcomings.
Not being able to see one's own shortcomings can be a sign that a person has a certain level of blind spot and is unable to realize their shortcomings.
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Looking at the side of the ridge into a peak, the distance and the near are high
Low varies. I don't know the true face of Lushan, and I only want to be in this mountain.
This poem is from Su Shi's ".
Rong Title: Xilin Wall.
The interpretation is: from the front, Lushan is a winding mountain, from the side is a steep peak; Looking at the past from far and near, the scenery of Lushan Mountain is varied, different; I can't see the true face of Lushan clearly, just because I am in Lushan, I can only see a part of Lushan when I look at it.
This is a poem with a picture of the scene, and it is also a philosophical poem, and the philosophy is contained in the description of the scenery of Lushan Mountain. The first two sentences describe the different morphological changes of Lushan. Lushan Mountain stretches horizontally, and the lofty mountains are lush and endless; Looking sideways, the peaks are undulating, and the strange peaks protrude into the clouds.
Looking at Lushan from different directions from a distance and a near place, the mountain color and momentum seen are different. The last two sentences write the author's perception after deep thought: the reason why you will have different impressions when you look at Lushan from different directions is because"In the middle of the mountains"。
That is to say, only by staying away from Lushan and jumping out of the shelter of Lushan can we fully grasp the true demeanor of Lushan. The whole poem is tightly linked to the mountain to talk about his own unique feelings, with the help of the image of Lushan, with the help of the image of Lushan, in simple language to express the philosophy, so it is cordial and natural, intriguing.
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There are the following sentences:
1. Fifty steps and a hundred steps of laughter.
1) He only knows how to criticize others, I think it's fifty steps and a hundred steps of laughter!
2) Don't laugh at 50 steps and laugh at 100 steps, you only get 50 points, not better than me!
3) One of them fights, the other skips class, both are bad, why bother with fifty steps and a hundred steps?
2. Blind eyelashes.
1) People often make the mistake of not being able to see the eyelashes, because it is easy to observe others, but it is more difficult to examine themselves.
2) I also did something wrong in this matter, and I can't turn a blind eye!
3. The crow falls on the black pig.
On his back, he only sees others black, but he can't see his own black.
1) If something goes wrong, blame others, isn't this like a crow falling on the back of a black pig, only to see others dislike the black, but not to see yourself black!
2) He himself made mistakes, and he laughed at others for being the head, it was really a crow that fell on the back of a black pig, and he only saw others black, but he couldn't see himself black.
4. Flashlight - only shine on others, not on yourself.
1) When there is a problem, we can't be a flashlight, only shine on others, not ourselves, but also learn to find the cause in ourselves.
When there is light, there is shadow, and when you face the light, that is, when you can't see your own shadow.
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