Two people are married for the second time, and then they have more debts to each other, can they go

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    A second marriage doesn't mean it can't go on successfully, but debt problems can have an impact on the marriage. If two people can understand, support, and cooperate with each other to face and solve debt problems together, then it is possible for them to build a stable and happy marital relationship.

    However, if two people disagree on debt issues or are unable to work them out together, then this can cause a lot of stress and conflict in their marriage. Therefore, if two people want to have a stable and happy marital relationship, they need to communicate openly, work together on a workable repayment plan, and support each other to work together.

    In addition, two people also need to have a correct understanding and acceptance of each other's past and present, not to dwell too much on each other's past experiences and emotional issues, but to focus on how to build a healthy and stable future together. Only when two people truly understand, support and trust each other can it be possible to overcome all kinds of difficulties together and build a happy and stable marriage relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Two people are married for the second time, and then both parties owe more debts, so it is not easy to go on, because after marriage, you have to repay the debts, which will cause a lot of economic problems, a lot of quarrels, if the two parties are more generous, it is better, if it is some economic problems, especially the second regret and then quarrel, it is estimated that it is not good to go on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    There are many conflicts and difficulties between couples in the second marriage, and it is difficult to coordinate the relationship between husband and wife. Now that the two of them have a lot of foreign debts outside, the relationship between husband and wife is even more difficult to get along, and it is really difficult for the relationship between husband and wife to go down for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If you want to think about why you were together in the first place, what happened after you were together that made the two of you so distrustful, in a marriage without trust, it will not last long, you have to choose to communicate with your other half, see if you can go on together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There is no trust in each other, is it necessary to go on, let's disperse early.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, if you don't trust the two of you to talk together and talk about the contradictions, I wish you happiness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In the summer, it will be bright at 5 or 6 o'clock, and it will be dark at the o'clock, so let it come when it should come, and you can't let it be dark during the day and day when it is dark.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There's nothing to do.,It's up to you to find it.,The money is also given by yourself.,Marriage is also divorced by yourself.。。。 Why didn't I see it clearly when I was looking for it.,I have to find a man who gambles.。。。 That's enough.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When two people deal with each other together, there is no obligation relationship between them, so the man does not have to pay off the foreign debt to the girl, if the woman really asks the man, then, the man can consider breaking up with the woman.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you want to be with him, his request is that you help him pay off the debt of 100,000 yuan, and if you don't help him pay it back, he won't want to marry you.

    If you can meet this requirement, the woman will marry you, and this is his condition.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Helping or loving, pitiful, not helping or duty, there is nothing wrong with it.

    People have to be self-reliant, don't expect others.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no obligation to pay it back, but you can help pay it back out of favor.

    If you think you can go on for a long time, and the amount is within the scope of the commitment, you can help pay it back, but you don't know if you can go to the end, and you want to help pay it back, it is recommended to leave evidence, or a note or something, in case it is broken in the future, the money will not be wasted.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Is it necessary for a woman to repay a man's debts when she gets married for the second time? Does a man's daughter-in-law have an obligation to honor her in-laws? On the contrary, what about the proportion of sons-in-law who are filial to their father-in-law and mother-in-law and wives who are filial to their in-laws?

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Originally, it is generally persuasion and not persuasion, but I must tell you the truth, if you can have the ability to support yourself, it is best to leave.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can communicate this situation with him, not to mention his children, but other people's children should be educated by their parents themselves, trying to make it better for them to take care of themselves.

    This opinion is correct. Children should be raised on their own. Your husband will understand, too.

  16. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Life is a matter of two people, it is advisable to talk to him about your grievances.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How old are you? Why marry such a person?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    We're the same, except we got married and had a daughter. His daughter lives with us. My daughter is at her mother's house.

    He is also willing to spend money on her daughter. Anyway, the tuition fee is also in charge. I regret it too.

    I knew it was like this. You shouldn't remarry and take your daughter with you. At least my daughter is happy.

    There is company. Now that I have remarried, my daughter is at her parents' house, and I only go back to see her twice a year. I feel guilty.

    But his daughter took her with her to study. The mind is very unbalanced. Bring together and be afraid of a lot of contradictions.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Bless you, you're just like me. I took my daughter to marry my current husband, who was the first married and an only child. I love me very much, and I love my daughter very much.

    My mother-in-law and father-in-law are very nice, and our family is very happy. Now that I have been married for several years, my daughters are in the second grade of primary school, and their grades are very good. We are also planning to have a second child.

    I don't say that others don't know that her father is a stepfather, because I spoil her too much, my husband is really kind and handsome haha. I still married far away, and I married in Nanyang, Henan Province to Hanzhong City, Shaanxi. To be honest, I am much happier now than I was in my first marriage.

    In fact, happiness has nothing to do with the second marriage and the first marriage, it depends on the person.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Treat the children of both parties fairly!

    Think about why you want to remarry, just to have a partner to live with, you can share the chores of the family, and the children in the family are taken care of!

    People marry you, give you money, give you living expenses, and let you spend it yourself? Give your child flowers? You feel distressed when your children buy a pair of shoes, so what's the use of you.

    Since it is a second marriage, it has to be sacrificed, if it is not your child, you have to hurt, this man goes out to make money for the whole family, not for the two of you, but for the whole family, so please don't be too selfish, even if it is not your own child, you must be good to him, so as to ensure that your second marriage is happy and satisfying!

    2. Discuss in case of trouble, don't make your own decisions!

    Second marriage is also marriage, it is also two people, you are no longer alone, no matter what happens, the first thing that comes to mind is your husband or your wife, whether it is good or bad, you have to say that two people bear it together is marriage!

    Otherwise, the other party will think that you are not serious about this marriage, have two hearts, and treat your other half the same way you treat outsiders, so what is your other half? Let me say that it is an "outsider", can this marriage be good? Sooner or later, we have to disperse!

    3. You can't mention the past, the new life has nothing to do with the past!

    It's the same as falling in love, you've had a few girlfriends before, you say you want to hear the truth, or lie, and you get angry when you say you haven't befriended, isn't this obviously a lie? It's not good to say that you've made three, which three, what do they look like, why did you break up, you look better than you, you are angry, and the reason for breaking up is not sufficient!

    This question is too difficult, whether it is love, or a second marriage, you can't mention it, as long as it's related to your ex, that's good, explain it, you can't explain it for a lifetime, you said that your other half also asked you so, what should you do? Then draw a line, this matter should be in the cordon, don't ask each other, and enjoy the new life!

    Fourth, suspicion is a taboo in marriage, and second-married families are even more taboo!

    This month's salary is less, is it because I have saved private money, is it to send money to his ex-wife, I am working overtime tonight, is it really overtime, or is it going out to play, is there someone outside!

    Not to mention the second marriage, I can't live with such suspicion in the first marriage, in my mother's words, I lack you to eat, I lack you to drink, what do you want to do so much!

    If the salary is less, ask, the reason is passable, just go and see if you don't worry about overtime, buy some coffee and milk tea for their colleagues, and the problem will be solved!

    It's not tiring to think about it at home, not to mention the relationship between husband and wife, it can mainly boil out mental illness for yourself!

    If you meet someone who loves you, loves you, and accommodates you in everything, then you will be happy, but don't go too far, husband and wife must respect each other, in order to be sincere in exchange for sincerity, in order to last forever, love to the end!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are no perfect people, and there will be all kinds of problems between husband and wife after a long time! No matter what problems you encounter, it is not a big deal if two people understand each other and are humble to each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not necessarily bad, depending on the conditions, my husband and I are married for the second time, his daughter is brought by his parents, we have been together for 4 years before getting married and having children, gave birth to a daughter and a son, opened a factory by himself, and have been together for 12 years, I haven't worked at home with children in the past two years, and it's pretty good, of course, his parents and the daughter in front of him sometimes come to live, and they are all single-minded in life, there is nothing bad.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Embrace all of this with tolerance and joy. Detectives are all accepted. Instead of being picky, picky or resistant. So mindset is everything. Good mentality. Everyone gets along more harmoniously.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The happiness of the second marriage depends on the situation, the second marriage of men and women without children will be happy, if there is love, they will be happy, the second marriage must not find a man with a son, otherwise it will be thankless The money will be left to their son, and the second marriage of the combination of the couple after 35 is not emotional, and there are children at this age There will be no happy time at all The contradictions are all in the children People who are over 40 years old will leave money to their children The other half is not willing to spend money Naturally it will not be good.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I won't find a second-married man with a child. Because the stepmother can't be a stepmother at all, no matter how good she is to other people's children, the children don't remember my good. is indifferent to the child, and it rises to the height of the stepmother who doesn't care about the child.

    Besides, I don't want to raise a child for someone else!! My own children, I am willing to smash the pot and sell iron, and other people's children, spend too much money on me, I feel sorry for my money. It's better to be single than find a second-married man.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It feels okay, I'm the first marriage, my husband is the second marriage, I have a daughter, my mother-in-law brings, anyway, my husband earns most of the money to me, of course, I will steal to my mother-in-law to point I can't see, I don't have to care about his daughter, I live my own, and his daughter has also had trouble, I am not used to his daughter, because I am the first marriage is much younger than my husband, so it's okay.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now the second marriage is generally both men and women are divorced and then recombined, there is no grandeur and splendor of the first marriage, but more responsibility and estrangement, the hearts of the two people are not really fused together, and the second marriage family is both male and female age is relatively large, since you can't get along with the original match, he (she) will be with you to grow old.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Second-married couples who have experienced an unhappy marriage often have one more heart than others, watching what the other party has done for themselves, and then deciding what they should do. Therefore, it is a bit difficult for second-married couples to find the feeling of the original couple. But it does not mean that the second marriage will definitely not be happy, as long as two people sincerely pay for each other, understand each other and tolerate each other, the second marriage can also be as happy as the first marriage, or happier than the first marriage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The ex-husband or ex-wife is a fact and will always exist, although the last marriage failed, but one day husband and wife are a hundred days. After divorce, there is an ex-husband or ex-wife, although there is no affection and they are not together, but after all, they have been together for so long that it is impossible to completely erase them from their hearts. There must still be a shadow of an ex-wife or ex-husband in my heart, or I have developed some habits under the influence of my ex-wife or ex-husband.

    Second-married couples, middle ex-wives or ex-husbands are always present.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The mother of a classmate in elementary school, who remarried a small cadre when she was nearly 60 years old, is now 80 years old, quarreled with the son of a small cadre to earn real estate, got the house book, and asked the young cadre to make a will and notarize it. The classmate said that when her mother was old, she earned a house for her, and she was also worried that her mother would go ahead of the old man, and she was afraid that the old man would be fooled into making a new will. Haha, money, money is the last word, any feelings are fart.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Those second marriages around me have problems of one kind or another. I have a primary school classmate who is also married for the second time, and one day he said to me, "Second marriage is not good, it is always two hearts" Needless to say, buy a car for your own children willingly, spend a penny on the other half of the children to think about it!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Why is it said that second-married marriages are often vulnerable, because many second-married marriages are because of interests, not because of feelings, so in second-married marriages, it can basically be said that as long as there is a little thing, it may be broken.

    For example, what is the situation of having a second marriage in reality, generally speaking, maybe both parties are not wrong in the original marriage, but they are divorced, and they may have children after the divorce, and then they get marriedWhat two people want is not feelings, but what the other party can bring to me, if only debt is brought to myself, then in the end it may be separated.

    In the second marriage, many times, the family wealth has been tossed almost by the first marriage, how to say it later, if two people come together, then the two people in the marriage may have a more painful life, plus to raise a child, may need to have another child, then the pressure of life will be great, life pressure is great, only one of them can not live.

    It's like this in this era, everyone wants to make their lives easier, and when they get married, many people want to find a partner to reduce the burden, but when it comes to the second marriage,If you can't reduce the burden of reburdening, it will increase the pressure on your personal life, so what will you do, you will naturally feel that marriage is not what you want.

    Later, I will feel that life is very hard, there is no original taste, and in the end, I liked it a little bit, but it also became bored, because the marriage of this pro was not strong, and in the end it could only end in divorce.

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