Why don t women divorce when men hurt themselves?

Know what divorce means to a woman?

Now many people will feel that if a man treats a woman badly and hurts a woman, a woman should break up with a man and divorce, but a woman consumes more than half of her time and half of her youth for you, and she is somewhat reluctant and unwilling, so many women who do not want to divorce are probably unwilling, and then they are criticized by others for their own divorce, and they are psychologically uncomfortable, and it may be difficult for divorced women to find a better one.

The woman wants to divorce, but the man doesn't want to leave, which means that your relationship is not completely broken, and there is a possibility of reconciliation.

It is normal for two people who can't fight each other to become husband and wife, have children, reproduce offspring, and have contradictions, and it is the most unwise thing to deal with family disputes with divorce at every turn, which can only make this marriage end, and new contradictions will open again after remarriage. We can't spend our whole lives getting married-divorced-remarried to deal with family chores.

My colleague's daughter had three marriages at the age of 36, from the age of 23 to the dissolution of her third marriage at the age of 35, and for 12 years she had nothing but two half-children for herself. Not to mention the waste of ten years of youth, he also made a mess of his life. Parents are in a hurry to get angry, and the children are not close to anyone.

Take marriage like this, do you think you can be happy?

I don't approve of the woman often talking about divorce, which not only hurts feelings, but also makes the other party suspicious and increases mutual distrust.

When a smart woman is dissatisfied with her husband, she can knock on the side to hint and remind, or she can discuss and communicate with clear responsibilities, and a divorce is easy to escape, ruining not only the marriage, but also the happiness of a lifetime.

What to do? When the woman files for divorce and the man drags it out, the woman should not press step by step, give herself a period of time, and give the other party a chance to correct her mistakes, maybe there will be a good turnaround.

Believe in yourself, believe in your original choice, no one is perfect, marriage is not perfect, and husband and wife are not as good as Qinse. There is noise in every house, and everyone is unsatisfactory. Otherwise, what else is there to say about "quarreling at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed"?

First determine whether you really want a divorce, and whether you will regret it once you divorce.

has already determined in his heart that he must divorce, no matter what the result is, he must leave, then he can make a step in the division of property and child support to achieve his own goals.

If the negotiation fails, you can also file a lawsuit with the court to request a divorce.

The goal is clear, and if you keep working towards the goal, there will definitely be results.

According to the laws of our country on court mediation, if one of the men and women requests a divorce, but the other party does not agree, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court at the place where the defendant's household registration or habitual residence is located. When a people's court in our country hears a case where one party does not agree to divorce, it shall first conduct mediation.

If one party wants a divorce and the other party is unwilling to divorce, he or she can ask the relevant departments to mediate (women's federations, both parties' units, relatives), or they can directly file a divorce lawsuit with the court and ask the court to grant divorce.

Women want to divorce, their hearts are dead, and they are completely desperate for men to have this kind of thought. If the man does not leave, he directly chooses to separate, and then chooses to divorce by agreement, but if it doesn't work, he goes to the court and the court will ruling.

I would like to ask what the reason for divorce is, if it is the fault of the man, you can reserve the evidence and apply for help, for example, if there is domestic violence, you can force the divorce. If it is your fault, then consider that the two parties negotiate to settle it, and the general civil affairs are resolved by themselves.

There are three reasons why men are reluctant to divorce, one is that they can't let go of this relationship, after all, they have lived together for so long, and they have feelings. The second is that I am afraid that it will be difficult to find a suitable marriage when I am older, and I would rather settle for the future, and the third is that the divorce property does not meet my expectations. Deliberately dragged and consumed.

If there is no possibility of continuing this relationship, either divorce by agreement and give a step. Either the court proceeds for divorce. However, according to the provisions of the new Civil Code, there is a one-month cooling-off period for divorce, and under normal circumstances, the court will not support the first lawsuit, and the second lawsuit for divorce can be filed after half a year, and the court will decide the divorce at this time.

It's not easy to manage a relationship, think twice.

If the woman files for divorce and the man does not leave, she may file a lawsuit for divorce with the court and request the court to make a judgment. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Now China's marriage law clearly stipulates that if it is a marriage that exists in name only, you can protect your rights and interests through legal prosecution, you can sue for divorce, and he has a certain amount of time to give the court a judgment! Emotional marriage is also in name only, and it is not good for both parties, if it really comes to this point, there is nothing to leave for others!

If one party does not agree, then you can separate, as long as you have been separated for more than half a year, you can go to the court to apply for divorce, and the court can directly rule that the divorce agreement will take effect, and then you will not leave.

In fact, we should believe that in the vast sea of people, the world. Being able to meet is actually a kind of fate. Meeting is fate, knowing each other is fate, and companionship is fate.

Some losses are doomed, and some fates are destined to never come to fruition. Sometimes believing in fate and believing in fate is not a kind of confusion and relief for us to our own destiny?

If the man does not agree to the divorce, the woman can sue the court for divorce. The party who wants to divorce can bring the marriage certificate, ID card, household registration booklet, complaint and a copy to the court where the defendant is domiciled to file a divorce lawsuit.

If you don't leave in this case, try not to divorce, because divorce hurts the feelings of two people very much, let's see if we can be together.

Hello, if you want to divorce, one party does not agree, you can go to court to sue, three months**, if one party is absent, it will be automatically divorced, now the marriage law is so stipulated, I asked the lawyer a while ago.

If the relationship between the husband and wife is broken, and one party wants to leave, but the other party insists on not leaving, if the coordination fails, they can file for divorce with the court, and the court will make a judgment.

First of all, you still need to be calm and calm, the divorce is not the end of the two as soon as they go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the certificate. And it's better not to leave until you really can't get by.

If you really want to leave, you can't stop it.

But they've all changed their minds, and they're still living together, and they don't have feelings.

What is the reason for divorce, the most efficient reason can be used to determine the divorce through the law.

Men are not separated, they still love you, you should be tolerant to maintain the family as well, cherish your fate.

If the divorce negotiation fails, you can only sue in the court, collude as much as possible, life is not easy, so let's get together and disperse.

No matter what the reason is, you must consider your own choices and decisions, and sometimes there is no turning back

You can go through the legal process and appeal for divorce, so that you can get a divorce, and if the man does not agree, he will also leave.

This question: What if a woman wants to divorce, but the man does not leave? It is enough for a man and a wife to live separately for more than one year, and the court will automatically grant a divorce.

Be persistent, prosecute the law, and the man will inevitably let go after he dies.

What should a woman do if she wants a divorce from a man's assistant? Go to court and apply for it. I've been waiting for two years.

1.The heart is not strong enough, resulting in the victim not being able to do without the other party.

For people with strong hearts, divorce is not a big deal, but for people with weak hearts, divorce means failure in life, and they can't afford it.

1) Can't afford the pressure of the economy.

Life after divorce can be stressful, especially for those with children, and financial pressure will prompt them to discourage the idea of divorce because they do not believe that they can live well, and they are not confident that they can give their children a good future.

2) Can't bear the evaluation of the outside world.

Those who regard divorce as a failure in life will be particularly good at judging themselves in the unexpected world. They are worried that the outside world will deny them, and they are more concerned about the negative impact of their divorce on their children and families, so they will choose to endure and make do. Just like those parents who threaten their daughters or sons with the words "if you divorce, you will disgrace us", they are putting pressure on their children.

3) Can't afford the intimidation of the other party.

There are also some victims who choose to stay because of the intimidation of the other party, such as the other party's threat that "if you want to call the police or divorce, I will not let your whole family go", which will make many people afraid and dare not leave.

It can be seen that people who are not strong enough in their hearts lack the courage and courage to leave, so they have to continue to maintain the marriage of Socks Kai in name only.

2.Believe that love is still there, and choose to forgive and understand.

In addition to the above reasons, there is another reason why those victims of domestic violence choose to stay, that is, they think that love is still there and they want to reform each other.

is like Mei Xiangnan in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers", when she began to face An Jiahe, who hurt herself, she still had love in her heart, she wanted to use her love to influence the other party, in order to eliminate misunderstandings and live well, but the reality was cruel, An Jiahe was controlled by her own suspicions and embarked on the road of no return.

In addition, some girls with the heart of the Virgin Mary are hurt and still refuse to leave, they also don't believe that the other party doesn't love them, and at the same time they want to use their own love to change the other party, but the result of this is often futile, because it is difficult for a person's character flaws to be truly perfected.

It can be seen that people who believe that love is still there are, to a certain extent, giving the other party the opportunity to hurt themselves.

A woman after the divorce found that the man's behavior is the most hurtful, first of all, in the marriage of the liquid always intentionally or unintentionally said that you are dependent on him for support, and then in front of you to say that you are not as good as so-and-so, and then you are not virtuous enough.

After the divorce, the woman found out that the man's behavior was the most hurtful, including beating and scolding you, not understanding you, and falling into the well when you were the most sad.

Ignoring one's own health. He was so disgusted that he shouted to abandon himself. Zhicong often doesn't reply to Fushino. He is very enthusiastic about others. Hooking up with other bad women. He is very cold and ruthless to himself. Don't do things for yourself.

Recently, the news that a woman wants to maintain her marriage after being subjected to jiabao has attracted a lot of attention and caused related discussions. ......There are many reasons why many women do not choose to divorce after experiencing jiabao. Specifically, there are three reasons why divorce can make a woman's life unsupported, a woman who cannot live independently after divorce, and a single life after divorce is more difficult for women.

1. Divorce will make women's lives helpless, so they will not divorce even if they go through jiabao.

When we get married, we will have our own family, and we will feel comfortable and happy living in such a family. ......But once divorced, the family will not exist, and you will live a single life, which will have a greater impact on women, and they will feel that their lives have become helpless from now on. ...Therefore, many women are reluctant to divorce even if they go through jiabao, in order to maintain their families.

2. Women cannot live independently after divorce, so they are reluctant to divorce.

For those who are married, the husband and wife working together to manage their own lives will make both husband and wife feel happy and satisfied. ......But after the divorce, both parties will live alone and need to face everything on their own. This situation will be even more difficult for women, many women will not be able to live independently because of this, so they will not want to divorce.

3. Single life after divorce is more difficult for women. Therefore, they are reluctant to divorce.

Although the state of single life has become the choice of many model singers, this situation will be more difficult for divorced women. ......Specifically, it will be more difficult for them to remarry, and they will encounter various difficulties and problems in their daily lives, so it will be more difficult. ......Because of this, there are many women who are reluctant to divorce even if they go through jiabao, but want to maintain their families.