Among the mate selection criteria of older leftover men, why do they like to find younger girls?

Because young girls are very energetic and beautiful, and they are very optimistic about things, with youthful vitality, with such a person, I feel that I will be young.

Because young girls are young and cheerful, and young girls don't have so much scheming experience and are easy to get along with, so older leftover men like to find younger girls in the mate selection criteria.

Because older leftover men feel that younger girls are more attractive, more attractive, and they are more lively.

Because this kind of girl will give older leftover men a sense of security, and there will also be a feeling of wanting to protect each other.

1.Older leftover women of the same age are not considered.

It is well known that the best childbearing age for girls is 25-30 years old, the older mothers are those over 35 years old, and most of the remaining elderly women are around 35 years old, which is already past the optimal childbearing age. All physiological functions are declining, and pregnancy may be more difficult. In view of this problem, many older leftover men do not want to find older leftover women.

2.Assets don't match.

Today, many older leftover women are financially independent, with houses, cars, savings, and even financial freedom. These factors can cause certain psychological and financial stress for men. Many men want to save face and don't want to be seen by others.

Unequal economic power, not valuing the right to speak at home, and feeling weak. A lot of older people still want to find a woman who can control themselves.

3.I like young and beautiful women.

Men like beautiful young women, and so do women. They like beautiful men. Men in their 40s, 60s or 80s like beautiful girls in their 20s.

Therefore, most older men want to fall in love with a beautiful young woman and not a woman as big as them.

4.Rather lack than excess.

Some people are rather lacking than abundant, and they have not met the people they love. Even when they are old, they are willing to be alone. I have such people around me.

They are 35 or 36 years old and don't have a girlfriend. They are also in good financial condition, but they don't meet the people they love, so they are always lonely.

We must cherish the people around us and not always think about career success before getting married. Because the length of the career is uncertain. I don't know when I'm going to make it.

But a girl can't bet her youth on you. If both parties are willing, all difficulties must be overcome, work together, start a business together, and only when the family is stable, can you be more comfortable in your career. Sometimes, it's not age that gets us into trouble, it's that too many conditions in our hearts make us become older leftover women or older leftover men.

We should put all the external conditions aside, and when we meet someone we love, we should truly love, get married, feel love, and the joy that marriage brings!

Because they feel that they are good alone, without any pressure, and women who are worse than them are not looked down upon.

I think it's mainly because they're used to this kind of single life, so they're worried that finding a girlfriend will break the balance of their existing lives.

Because these people don't want to get married yet, these people have a sense of fear of getting married, and they feel that after they get married, their money will be spent on others.

In fact, I think it is precisely because these people are good enough that it is difficult to meet an excellent other half, and not many girls have a common language with these boys.

Prices will eventually return to their original **, and older young men are gradually reluctant to pay for the premium.

1.The entry threshold is high, there is no car and no house, don't even think about it.

2.After meeting the basic threshold, there are high requirements for personal ability, personal image, and emotional satisfaction.

Under the double high, it is like crossing a single-plank bridge in the college entrance examination, and those who can meet the conditions are human spirits, and in the contemporary era of perfect social protection, that is, the Daoqing clan has a high exit cost and limited options (monogamy), it is natural to pick and choose.

Older young women do not recognize their own value, are unwilling to give up high standards, and abandon the old tradition of being the right person. Relative to men, they always like to be young and beautiful at the age of 18, women always like the winner, the king, and the first place among the lions, and the loser has no right to mate. Perhaps allowing polygamy to coexist with monogamy can be solved.

Profound and rapid changes in society, it is obvious that human society has not evolved a set of good solutions, and the inheritance of genes needs to be changed from generation to generation, obviously the time inheritance of a generation is too slow compared to social changes (20 30 years), and human instincts cannot adapt to today's society.