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True kindness is to have good thoughts and gratitude no matter what happens. Kindness does not mean weakness, kindness represents an attitude towards everything in the world.
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Be compassionate, empathetic. Know how to empathize with others and express kindness. Learn to empathize and understand others.
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I think that kindness should be a little sharp, not to make people feel that kindness is cheap, and kindness must be principled.
Some people are very kind in their hearts, and when they encounter some people in difficulty, they will reach out and help them in time, but there are often some people who are helped, maybe they will not be grateful, and always feel that others should help them, which makes people feel that kindness seems to be very cheap, but in fact, sometimes when kind people are helping others, they are also working very hard to live or, it is not easy for themselves. Therefore, there should be principles and distinctions for kindness, and only when encountering some unexpected situations or when others take the initiative to ask for help, they can give a helping hand, and at the same time make people feel it.
And for those who have helped once or twice and often have to ask for help, at this time more should be given a way, that is, as we often say, it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. It's more about telling others that it's not easy for everyone, and you need to find a way to survive and survive on your own. In addition, for some people who are endlessly asking for help, it is also necessary to give appropriate refusal, some people may have nothing to do all day, and when they encounter difficulties, they open their hands and ask to find the princess, for such people, I think there should still be some edge, and they must be rejected once or twice, so that they feel that kindness is not endless.
So I still agree that kindness should be a little sharp and principled.
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Kind people can live a higher quality of life for themselves and others. Kind people should be loyal to their own hearts, not easy to change because of changes in the outside world, kind people should have a sober and calm mind.
I feel that we must always be a kind person, a warm-hearted person, and the people around us are the happiest people.
It's not easy to live, and I'm eager to meet kind people and warm-hearted people.
At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;
In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group that doesn't care about everything, doesn't laugh or talk, and never quarrels with you, how good;
Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good.
If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to. However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home?
I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest? Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it.
There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them.
So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people. Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset
In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that?
Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day? Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others?
If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always bring your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be yin, one will be this is not good, one will be simple and empty and that is not good, in front of colleagues to say that it is wrong, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, leaders do not trust you, can such a day be called a good day!
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Kindness refers to the heart of a good person, innocent and gentle, without malice, kind, and good-hearted. Give people warmth and support without desire.
Hypocrisy] false kindness, non-kindness. It refers to paralyzing and deceiving others with the illusion of care, love, and sincerity, but secretly doing bad things that harm others.
At the beginning of a human being, he is a blank slate, and there is no specific tendency towards good and evil. If the environment in which they grow up is fair and harmonious, then the truth, goodness and beauty personality traits precipitated in their human nature will prevail; If they are born in an untrustworthy and tyrannical environment, the false and ugly elements of their temperament will prevail.
Man is a product of his environment, and there are no inherently good or bad people. Those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black, which is what we are talking about. If you want to cultivate a good person, you must first create a good environment, and this is just the case with Meng's mother's three moves.
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Kindness is altruism. For example, if you benefit one party, for him, your behavior is kindness. But sometimes, altruism hurts the interests of other people, and for these people, this kind of altruism is evil.
For example, the mother wolf caught a rabbit to feed her child, which is a good act for the wolf cubs, but the rabbit still has a bunch of children waiting to be fed, which is a great evil for these rabbit cubs. Therefore, the so-called kindness actually has a position, not absolute.
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Kind people] from: The tree is a thousand feet high.
What is kindness?
Kindness is a person's virtue, kindness is a person's conduct, kindness is not a trick, do not play with the heart, kindness is simple and sincere, duty.
Be a kind person who has no bad intentions towards others and no ill will towards friends.
Get along with others, be sincere, walk with friends, and do not deceive or deceive.
Be a kind person, have a clear conscience, and treat others sincerely.
The grace of dripping water must be reciprocated by springs, and the favor of others must be remembered.
No matter what you have encountered or experienced, you can maintain a kind and grateful heart.
Be a kind person, help someone in trouble, and help someone who falls.
Maybe your kindness will be taken advantage of, but God will definitely give you justice when he sees it.
Kind people, not stupid, just used to putting conduct first.
Kind people are not stupid, and in their hearts they value friendship as deeper than money.
Kind people, not bad, they always want to be a good person.
No matter how cruel this world is, no matter how realistic this society is, we should not wear out our kind hearts.
As a person, kindness is conscience, life, forbearance is renting and dissipating temperament, exchanging kindness for peace of mind, exchanging forbearance for peace, is a really smart choice.
Only with kindness can people get closer to others, can they get closer to their hearts, can they resolve unnecessary troubles, can they stay away from disputes, and can they reduce malice.
Kind people stand in the crowd, the most ordinary, the simplest!
Kind people live in heaven and earth, the most down-to-earth, the most disadvantaged chain of peace of mind!
Being sincere is a person's nature;
It is a person's nature to be kind.
Lifelong character: To be a kind person is the best character;
Having a kind heart is the most expensive**!
There are gods in the three feet of the head, and the heavens can see clearly whether they are evil or good.
Don't be afraid of being wronged by kindness, don't be afraid of being bullied by others.
If you continue to be kind, there will always be unexpected good luck, and there will be blessings that everyone envies!
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I think people's kindness should be a little sharp, don't be submissive in everything, so it is easy for others to misunderstand and bully, so you can be kind, but you have to let others know, you will also fight back, and you will also give appropriate responses to those who do not respect you.
People's kindness must have a ruler, and people's tolerance must be measured.
It is good to be kind to others, to be humble and courteous. But without the softness of the boundary, it will only allow the claimant to gain an inch; Unprincipled concessions will only allow the bully to do whatever he wants.
Your kindness must be a little sharp. If you are accustomed to silence, accustomed to wronging yourself, and accustomed to rejecting everyone, you will forget that you can have an attitude, a bottom line, and a life that is not disturbed.
The poorer a person is, the more he has inexplicable courage and an inexplicable sense of pride. Because, the poorer the knowledge, the more absolute the belief belief, and it is difficult to absorb and accommodate the views that are opposed to oneself.
The significance of our encouragement to "read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles" is precisely to enrich our understanding of others and the world, to see more "differences", to understand the "complex diversity" behind the superficial surface, and not to make partial generalizations because of narrow-mindedness.
Always remember that I am still young and inexperienced, and I am cautious in my words and deeds because of the teachings of life: nothing is as simple as imagining Sun Stupid.
Accepting regret does not mean that we are not doing well enough, but it is a manifestation of intellectual maturity, that is, realizing that regret is also a part of life, it makes our growth more complete, it makes motivation lurk in our hearts at all times, and helps us recognize reality, regroup, and complete better in the "next time".
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I think it's better to be true to yourself, not to cater to other people's ideas or concepts, and to change your own principles of life; Don't work hard to tie up others, don't put yourself in an embarrassing dilemma; Don't hypocritically let yourself live in an illusory interpersonal relationship; If you don't live your life truly, but do things or live against your personality or conscience, then you will live a little longer, and your heart will be too tired and painful. With such a result, why bother yourself?
An easy-going person is just that his way of getting along with people is more comfortable, which makes people feel very easy-going, but it does not mean that he does not have his own characteristics in other aspects.
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Don't blindly follow and blindly follow any opinion of others. We must learn to analyze and understand problems by ourselves, and not look at things unilaterally.