After breaking up and getting back together, why is there no longer the sweetness that it once had?

After two people break up, no matter what the reason for the breakup is, in fact, the other party will cause a certain amount of psychological damage or shadow to the other party, so if the two people are still very cherished after reconsideration, and want to save this relationship, then the two people choose to get back together, butCompoundingAfter that, it doesn't mean that the relationship will go back to the past, because the previous estrangement already exists at this time, so at this time, you need to do some actions to make the previous estrangement slowly disappear, and then make the relationship better and better, what do you need to do? Let's take a look.

Because two people have actually experienced a period of time since they broke up, and both of them actually don't know much about what happened to each other. The reason why they broke up before may be because they didn't trust each other enough. But later, both of them wanted to save the relationship, so they chose to get back together, but to each otherTrust, it's not as good as it used to be, so it's hard for two people to return to their previous sweetness.

At this time, you must regain trust in the other party, and let the other party trust you again through some small details. This is very important, only trust will make both parties go further, in order to make the relationship between both parties sweeter.

Because after two people break up, in fact, the other party has undergone some changes during this time, these changes come from work, life, or other people or things, these changes are not clear to you, nor do you understand, and you can't empathize. That's when the two of you should re-establish communicationBridgesIt is very important to understand each other's happenings bit by bit, slowly enter her life, and become an indispensable part of her life, so that the relationship between the two of you will be closer, and the relationship will be sweeter and sweeter.

Getting back together means starting over, so it's very important that we put our whole heart and soul into the relationship. Only to giveSincerely, only with sincerity, can the other party feel it, then this relationship can last for a long time.

Because of the estrangement between the hearts of two people, they have a grudge against each other, so they can't get the sweetness they once had.

Because the problems of the two of you have not been resolved, there is a gap between the two of you, so it is not as sweet as before.

No matter what the breakup was, it caused harm to the other party, and there was an estrangement after getting back together.

After breaking up for a while and getting back together, it feels the same as before the breakup, that is because the relationship between you has not become weaker and weaker because of the short breakup, and the relationship between you has not become more and more estranged, so after getting back together, you will feel the same as before!

After a breakup, I got back together for a while, and it felt the same as before the breakup. It shows that the problems between the two sides have not been resolved, but because of compounding, the contradictions are hidden and not revealed, and they do not touch each other, but the problems still exist.

Or maybe it's because you haven't been exposed to new things and new people for a while after your breakup, so it doesn't feel like much has changed.

After breaking up for a while, the feeling of getting back together is the same as before the breakup, which actually shows that the relationship between the two of you is relatively deep, so you can go back to the feeling before, but in real life, there are many people who get back together after breaking up, and they may not be able to find the previous feeling, so you should cherish it.

In fact, this is already a rift, and this will be brought up the next time you quarrel, so after you get back together, this relationship must suddenly heat up, so it will feel like not breaking up, so you should cherish this relationship and try to make it complete, and sometimes, you can create some romance for both parties, or create some freshness, which will make the other party like you more.

This is because you are used to each other and really like each other and love each other. This sense of dependence has developed on him. When you break up, you will feel very unaccustomed without him.

But when you get back together, you feel like you're back to your normal life. So at this time, the psychological mood will be a little better. I feel that this kind of life is normal.

This kind of relationship is also very good and can last for a long time.

Because the two of you must be truly in love with each other, the breakup is because the two of you have a conflict, so you choose to break up when you are angry, but after the breakup, you feel very sad, and you both feel that you have lost your beloved, so after getting back together, you feel the same as at the beginning.

After a period of breakup, you get back together, and it feels the same as before the breakup, the main reason is that after getting back together, the relationship between you has returned to the same as before, and you have increased tolerance and tolerance for each other.

After a period of time after a breakup, you get back together, and it feels the same as before you broke up, which proves that there are still real feelings between the two of you, and some people don't have the same feelings as before after they get back together, so the two of you are still relatively happy!

This is because the relationship between the two of you has been very good in the early stage, and the separation may also be because there are some small reasons, not essential problems, so when you get back together, you will ignore those small problems, and you will naturally feel that you have never separated.

After a period of breakup, they get back together, and it feels the same as before the breakup, which means that the two people are seamlessly connected and inseparable from each other, so this situation will occur. But frequent breakups will have an impact on each other's feelings, so you have to learn to manage.

This has not changed, or two people who are familiar with each other, or love each other the same, may know how to cherish it more than before, after all, they have broken up once, but there is no feeling of being too in love, after all, they have already experienced what they should have experienced.

Because you have always loved each other, and you have not lowered your love for each other because of the so-called breakup, so after getting back together, it is still the same as before, and sometimes even more affectionate.

Hello, after a period of breakup, you get back together, and it feels the same as before you broke up, which means that you both still love each other and haven't let go.

This shows that you are both truly in love with each other, the breakup you said before was angry, you don't really want to break up, and your relationship foundation is very strong, so after getting back together, it's like not breaking up.

After breaking up for a while and getting back together, it feels the same as before the breakup, which means that the relationship between the two of you is still there. This time we broke up, but the two sides calmed down, and it didn't mean that there was much of a problem.

If you get back together after a breakup for a while, it feels the same as before the breakup, which means that the relationship between you is deep enough.

Also, the reason for your breakup doesn't have much impact on you.

After breaking up for a period of time, it feels the same as before the breakup, because the two of you have resolved the previous conflict through a period of digestion, and the two of you have an emotional foundation, so after getting back together, it feels no different from the previous relationship.

It's just that you don't really want to be together, and there is an element of vindictiveness in breaking up, so getting back together is the same as before, because your breakup is like a big fight.

Breaking up, and getting back together after a while, it feels like you're the same as before you broke up, because your relationship is now at a bottleneck. There's no more to each other, there's no freshness, there's no more attention, so it feels the same as before.

Because they are too familiar with each other, a breakup may be like a quarrel between two people, and when this run-in period is over, the relationship between two people will be more harmonious and tacit, and it will really be like a person.

After breaking up for a while, and then getting back together, you must be thinking about each other for a while, so after getting back together, you are back to the previous state together, then of course it feels the same as before the breakup, which shows that you are still very familiar with each other, your hearts are connected, and they are also harmonious, this is a good phenomenon, bless you!

It shows that the last breakup was just because of the willfulness, and the two people still liked each other in their hearts, and soon found the feeling of being in love before after re-meeting, and returned to the beginning, hoping to be good all the time.

This is the reason for the deep affection. The deeper the relationship, the better the degree of healing, we see that in daily life, the little couple is noisy, and the next day it is like nothing happened, and they continue to love as before, which is the reason for the deep love.

Isn't this a very good thing, it shows that two people can really love each other, two people's hearts can still come together, although two people have experienced some things, and some things that may be experienced will make two people cherish a feeling between two people more, this is a good thing, just get along well.

Boyfriend and girlfriend break up for some reason, after the breakup, I feel that the other party is the best, I still can't let go of each other, still care about each other, and then the two parties get back together, and after the reunion, I feel the same as before, there is no difference, which shows that you are very tacit with each other, and you like each other very much, and you know each other very well, and you love each other very much, which is determined by the character and feelings of the two of you.

After a period of breakup, they get back together, and the feeling is the same as before they broke up, mainly because the relationship between the two people is particularly deep, and they have identified each other, but they are separated because of impulse or some objective reasons, in fact, both people are reluctant, so if they are together like this, they will naturally have special love and the same as the original relationship!

That's because you're used to the feeling of being two people together, and you're very tolerant of each other, and breaking up makes you cherish each other more.

It shows that your relationship is very stable, and you just broke up because of a temporary quarrel, but after being together, you will forget all the unhappy things before, and you still miss each other's good.

Getting back together after a breakup feels the same as before, which means that your previous breakup may have been separated due to some misunderstanding, and it did not affect the relationship between you. It may be a good thing for you to get back together again, and you will cherish each other more.

1.Frequent or repeated breakups with intimate partners, and the two keep breaking up, hurting each other's feelings. This repeated intimacy can make both parties feel insecure and extremely distrustful of this intimacy, which can lead to indifference to this intimacy.

After all, you're separated. Even if you are together again, you have had unpleasant experiences, and your hearts will be distant, so you will not feel as sweet as before.

2.If this is a real breakup, then the conflict that led to the breakup must have consumed a lot of love between each other, at least one of the parties will feel that the love between the two may not be as good as the days of being single, which is why it ends up leading to a breakup.

3.And the way to truly rematch after a breakup is not easy, and it is rarely natural. In general, it is an effort put in by a more reluctant person that may eventually lead to a compound result.

At the same time, the redeemed party will feel that, despite having reconciled, in the face of a failed relationship, he will fear that it will fail again and hurt himself again. As a result, it's easy to lower expectations of the relationship, or to give the relationship a period of observation.

4.Similar to testing, the other party might think: Do you really love me when you're trying to save yourself?

After being with you again, will you treat me the way you did when you saved me? If you're treating me so well for the sake of being with me, and you're not treating me well after you're together, I don't need to treat you. Even if the relationship becomes fragile, it does not mean that the Wuqiao relationship between two people cannot be as good as before.

5.The affection between two cavity fierce men can go from good to bad or from bad to good, which is an ever-changing process. Feelings need to be controlled.

Getting back together is just the beginning of being together again. After such a start, I still need to manage the relationship so that I can make the relationship better and better and finally achieve my expectations.

6.Due to the capriciousness of one party in the intimate relationship, it leads to a change in the mentality of the other party, so that in the future intimate relationship, whether it is emotional, physical, financial, etc., there is a reserved contribution. That is, we often call the principle of timely stop loss, do not want to let yourself lose a lot, or fall deeper and deeper, some people are ready to withdraw at any time.

7.Because of embarrassment. This situation usually occurs when the two parties in a relationship break up, quarrel very fiercely, or release a lot of negative emotions to each other, so after reconciling, whether it is from their own behavior or language, it will be slightly embarrassing.

In fact, it is more because the problem that arose at the beginning was not very clear, and there was no clear solution to it. At the same time, the feeling between the two Qiaozao people is definitely not as close as before, and there must be a certain estrangement.