Why are the good guys always not understood, and the bad guys always succeed?

In social interactions, it is inevitable that people will suffer, be misunderstood, and be wronged. In the face of these, the wisest choice is to learn to be tolerant. Tolerance is a good psychological quality.

It not only contains understanding and forgiveness, but also shows bearing and open-mindedness, strength and strength. A person who is not tolerant and only knows how to be demanding of others is often in a state of psychological tension, which leads to nerve excitement, vasoconstriction, and increased blood pressure, making the psychology and physiology enter a vicious circle. If you learn to be tolerant, you will be strict with yourself and lenient with others, which is equivalent to installing a regulating valve on your own psychology.

Optimism is the elixir of psychological health Optimism is a positive character and state of mind. It can stimulate people's vitality and potential, solve contradictions, and overcome difficulties; Pessimism, on the other hand, is a negative and decadent personality and state of mind, which makes people sad, troubled, and painful, and is helpless in the face of difficulties, affecting physical and mental health.

Indifferent, that is, tranquil and lacking desires, not pursuing fame and fortune. At the end of the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Zhidong's health name said: "No seeking is a peace of mind"; Bingxin, a famous contemporary writer, also believes that "people are self-exalted when they have nothing to seek".

This shows that indifference is a lofty realm and mentality, and it is the positioning of the pursuit of life at a deep level. With an indifferent mentality, you will not follow the crowd in the world and chase fame and fortune; There will be no great joy in what is gained and great sorrow for what is lost; will not complain about the world and be jealous. The indifferent state of mind keeps people in a peaceful state, maintains a normal heart, and all factors that are detrimental to physical and mental health will be repulsed.

Look at this fickle world, and then look at your own life, and suddenly feel how short life is, why not be happy? This is probably the best reason to comfort yourself. Life has both bitterness and joy, and it is best to laugh often; There are ups and downs in the career, and it is best to be calm and calm; Love is sweet and sour, it is best to be open-minded; There are long and short blessings, and it is best to be happy and happy!

Bless friends: always treat life with a smile, enjoy life, and cherish life! ­

Because good people have no heart, and bad people have many hearts and eyes, and there are many tricks, which makes people unguardable.

That's the reality! But we have to believe that good people will always be rewarded! The bad guy can succeed because he is good at taking advantage of the people around him!

Look at D-ra, Lao You, I'll support you!

Hello, sometimes we often find that why is it so difficult to be a good person? Presumably everyone has personally experienced being a good person being blamed, or even hated, and I used to think that being a good person in the hall sedan car may be misunderstood, just like seeing a big lady crossing the road with a lot of things, out of kindness to go over to help, people think you are robbing things, at least they say you a sentence or two, and at worst they say that you rob in public. As I get older, I find that being a good person and doing good deeds is directly defined as a bad person or meddling, and sometimes even more and more black.

I can't help but sigh, why? Let's talk about my views through the following levels.

1. The expectations given are too high. In life or work, it is inevitable to encounter the need for others to help, such as at work, there is a bridge with you need your help, it is easy for yourself, he pins all his hopes on you, but because of his own work around, there is no time to take care of others, no timely help, no expectations from him, and finally may be labeled as a bad person. I don't know why.

2. Get used to your goodness. No matter who it is, don't get used to being nice to others, after a long time, you feel that this is what you should do, and over time you will form a dependence on him. I once saw a **, a person suddenly saw a homeless man, felt pitiful, and gave him 5 yuan, and the next day gave 5 yuan, day after day, suddenly due to his own poor life, did not give the homeless, and then the homeless man chased and scolded him, why not give, just because the homeless man is used to the help of others, has become accustomed to it, and suddenly changes and can't adapt.

3. Out of sympathy. I have a high school classmate who has been keeping in touch, he is the kind of afraid and respectful one in the eyes of our classmates, last month in the high school WeChat group, suddenly saw him scolding all his classmates in the group, at that time it was very net, this is recruiting who provoked whom, and later found out that it was his sister who was using Huixin, it turned out that his brother played some gambling games on the Internet, lost a lot of money, and now people are playing missing, saying that our classmate lent money to his brother is harming his brother, and what is the reason why her brother is like this is because we bring it bad, Later, I couldn't stand being scolded, so I kicked him out of the group directly, and through everyone in the group, we all talked about it because of the friendship of classmates for many years, and he borrowed some money to get through the difficulties because of his current living constraints. In life, no matter who you pretend to be, you must first lower the expectations of others, and don't habitually be good to others, it is a thankless obligation to be a good person in society, and at the same time, you must always be strict with yourself, and constantly strive to improve your own character.

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Hello, I'm Teacher Yiran. When the teacher sees your question, he can feel your confusion and trouble. You don't understand why good people are easy to be misunderstood or even misunderstood or even regarded as bad people when they do good things.

In fact, people have many sides, but if a person always shows the good side, then it means that the person has suppressed the "bad" part of his heart. Probably this person has been taught to be a good child since he was a child. In addition, people's hearts will have a sinister side, so when a person is always good, it is easy to leave such an impression on others, that is, this person is easy to bully, no matter what you do to him, he will not refuse, so when something happens, people will always let the person who usually looks good take the blame.

Dear, are you facing such distress now? You can talk to the teacher and let the teacher help you solve it together!