What should I do if I am calculated by all the people?

If you are simple-minded and don't like to calculate and calculate, then start over, stay away from the people who make you unhappy, go to reconnect with others, and most importantly, learn a lesson and not trust anyone easily.

Don't be impulsive when you realize you're being counted, and be sure to calm down as soon as possible. Only by calming down can we analyze and find out the root cause of the "villain" and the problem contradictions, if you make mistakes because of the heat of the head, it may lead to more unexpected mistakes, messing up what has already been achieved, and it is not in the hands of others.

The gap between the rich and the poor and the gap between social status is an inevitable contradiction between people, the rich look down on the poor, and the poor hate the rich because of discrimination, which is a very common thing, and they are also unclear, for fear of exacerbating and intensifying the contradictions. Playing tricks on a person who has no scheming will only get sympathy and ridicule, and you should treat her as an equal whether she is scheming with you again.

As the saying goes, a slap doesn't make a sound, you should find the reason from yourself first, if it is indeed her intention to target you, it must be that you have inadvertently violated her bottom line.

It is recommended that you first understand the situation from others, slowly eliminate the estrangement through others, do not panic when you encounter problems, and learn to empathize.

Treat it as if you don't care, or as if you already know. Make it impossible for them to feel. Or feel like you don't care, and then find an opportunity to talk and knock it out.

You are a selfish and self-reliant person, always feel that everything others do is aimed at you, feel that others are bad people, and have no ghosts for you, in fact, maybe you don't regard your surroundings as friends at all, isolate yourself, but get farther and farther away from others, always afraid that others will hurt you, I think you think too much, people have a good side, as long as you really enjoy friends with him, no one refuses, maybe there is really a problem with your thoughts, you must find a psychiatrist to treat, otherwise the consequences will be serious.

If it's really everyone who calculates, then there must be something wrong with you, or they are not the same kind of person as you, and you shouldn't have any more dealings with them.

Live a good life and choose your own today.

It's that you're mentally unhealthy. It's impossible for everyone to calculate you, so be sunny!

When I just graduated, I didn't understand the truth of being a low-key person.

As a management trainee, I went to the counter for an internship, and the basic salary was 3,000 more than that of a teller. Later, when asked me what I do as a management trainee, I said that I would learn counter management and then manage several stores. I think I'm just describing it, but others hear it as showing off.

So he was squeezed out by the counter teller. And I naively thought that one of the tellers was a good friend of mine and told her a lot about what I thought about other people. And she turned her head and passed the word on to the others.

At that time, what a fool! I don't know how to be humble, and I don't know the taboos in the workplace. These tellers wrote down every mistake I made and every brain-dead word I ever said and reported it to my manager of You Jian.

They are veteran employees, who have a strong relationship with each other and are familiar with the manager.

At first, I didn't know about the hidden dangers of this god's pants, and I went to work every day. Later, I quarreled with the teller because of the giveaway, and the manager came to mediate, and during the mediation process, she said that she had heard all kinds of things wrong with the waiter. I cried and pleaded with me, but it attracted more accusations.

Later, I had a mental breakdown and left this so-called famous company. Depression broke out and stayed at home for half a year.

After so many years, this is still a psychological shadow.

In fact, it can't be calculated, although the things they accuse are also true. I was a brain-dead at that time! It's just that I didn't think that my every move and stupidity was the talk of them and the manager.

I always thought I was the pride of the sky at school, but in fact, I was stupid and sweet, who knew the sinister hearts of the people in society.

So, first, be a low-key person and do things in a down-to-earth manner. Second, don't just dig your heart out to people, everything you say will be deliberately used.

Summary. Kind people will always meet kind people, so there is no need to change them. And like those who deliberately count a few years to hurt you, he will also meet the person who will harm him.

Why am I always hurt and sometimes calculated?

Hello, dear, judging from your description, you must be a very kind person at heart. It also gives the impression of a particularly nice person, who is more approachable or simpler. So Jane Wu thinks that people don't want to take your feelings into account, because they know that even if they hurt you, you won't fight back.

It's just that it feels too simple, so it's always hurt or sour.

Or calculate. Yes, I have a good heart, and my heart is hard to change.

Kind people will always meet good people, so there is no need to change them. And like those who deliberately count the feast and hurt you for a few years, he will also meet the person who will harm him.

You're not wrong, why should you change it.

It is true that there will be more such cases, but there is also a saying that suffering is a blessing. Someday, such blessings will all surround you.

Is it a blessing to suffer, I have been working hard outside, giving so much, and my family does not accept my affection and slanders me.

It's okay if others don't understand, but if the family doesn't understand either, there's no need to keep suffering like this.

You can learn to be selfish and think for yourself.