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I believe that in life, we will meet all kinds of people, and many times you can't see the true appearance of a person at all. Although it is said that human nature is inherently good, there are also many things that cannot be guessed. Some people may be evil in their bones, pretending to be simple and kind on the surface, but they may be calculating behind their backs.

In this life, we will meet gentlemen, but there will also be villains. There is a way to prevent gentlemen but not villains, and you can't prevent a person who wants to calculate. Therefore, when you find that you are being calculated, the first thing you need is not to turn your face, but to do these things well.

When a person encounters anything, he should remain calm as soon as possible. Only when man is rational can he think well and make wise discernment. If you say, being short-tempered is not a good thing to do at all.

When you are calculated, the first time is not to calculate, but to tear your face, even if it has already happened, what you need to do is to calm yourself down first and analyze your own situation.

There's nothing people can do to prevent one person from calculating you, and when something happens, there's no point in bothering. Only stay calm, and then go to the problem of accountability, and think about how you should deal with yourself and how to solve the difficulties. Really smart people are not easy to be entangled in things, but they know how to control their emotions.

Only when a person stabilizes his emotions can he think better, find a way to fill the current situation, and make a decision when he is decided.

Some people, the more entangled you are, the more they will play with their lives. If you blindly deal with that kind of person, you will be the one who will be consumed. When you find that you are being calculated by a person, in fact, you know it yourself, and don't intervene to prevent this phenomenon from happening.

When you are not affected and can live your life better, it is the most serious damage to others. It is said that if you want him to die, you must let him go crazy, not paying attention to the other party, not caring, ignoring him, in fact, it is better to fight back against him.

When he becomes more and more rampant, you don't actually need to clean him up, of course, there will be someone to clean up for you. When getting along with others, you really don't have to worry too much about it, protect your own rights and interests, and live your own life is the most important thing. For those villains, the people who calculate you, avoid their edges first, let the other party try to make trouble, and one day you will find a way to fight back against them.

Usually the kind of silent reply is the most effective.

Sometimes, it's not much of a difference when you're fighting with someone. Some people are not worth your time, and it is a kind of self-consumption for you to deal with them. On the contrary, maintaining an attitude of not fighting or grabbing is the best way.

You know, life can't prevent a person's calculations and harms. When you feel hurt by a person, you must also know how to avoid it to prevent further damage. It's not so much about tearing your face as it is about avoiding it and living your own life.

As everyone knows, the wicked have their own wicked grinding, and fighting with the villain, it is better to stay away from him and laugh at him slowly. If you don't have enough time in life, some people are really not worth your attention. Although this method is more depressing, life still has to have its own attitude.

Don't pester the other party, and then stop the loss in time, don't be too careful, recover the loss in the first time, prevent the continued development of things, be sure to calm down, stay away appropriately, and then fight back appropriately.

Don't entangle, learn to stop losses in time, don't care, stay away wisely, let go of cowardly and powerful counterattacks, wait and see what happens, the wicked have their own wicked grinding.

You must learn to collect evidence, and then don't dwell on it, don't blindly calculate, learn to calm down, try to stay away, and learn to reflect.

I don't know if you have noticed that some people tend to be calculating others, mostly out of jealousy or too bad to see the good of others. I am not as good as others, I don't think about how to constantly improve myself, I can only use the form of hurting others and play tricks behind me. As the saying goes, "no pain, no gain", some people always like to get something for nothing, usually they don't work hard, when they see you achieve excellent results, he will think you are lucky.

If you accidentally become friends with such a person, I advise you to be more thoughtful. Because he sees that you are better than him, that you are older than him, he is not really happy for you, and may have already thought about how to calculate you in his heart. If you are really calculated, you should not be angry first, or go to him for basic theory, because what others want to see most is your angry and painful appearance.

The more you are at this time, the more you must recover your emotions and accept his calculations of your objective facts. If you feel sad because of his behavior, the other party will only be more proud. Fortunately, its calculations also let you see clearly what kind of person he is, eat a sting and grow wise, when you encounter this kind of person, you should also distance yourself from this, don't forgive the harm caused to you because of indecision for a while.

As the saying goes: "Prevent the gentleman and not the villain". In fact, sometimes, the more people you relate to, the easier it is to calculate yourself.

People know everything about you, so to speak, and they know you well. If there is a conflict between us, or there is a mustard, the other party can take this opportunity to calculate you. In other words, the people around you are the ones you should be most wary of.

But there are some people who you can't help no matter how much you guard against them, because you don't know what day they are counting on you. Some people, in fact, are uneasy and kind from the beginning of cultivating a relationship with you, and they are just handing you over just to take advantage of you one day, although he is usually very good to you and thinks about you everywhere, but as long as it involves rights and interests, he can immediately ** you.

And some people, calculating you are really just to relieve hatred, for example, if you hurt him unintentionally, he will always keep it in his mind, and then find an opportunity to take revenge on you. When you meet this group of people, you can only admit it, although your heart is very uncomfortable, but you must stay calm and never be driven by bad emotions. As the saying goes, "happiness begets sorrow", if you don't manage your emotions well and don't do things rationally, not only will it not help, but you will also put yourself in a passive position to accept influence.

To be counted by others, you must be able to look at it rationally and adopt the right method.

Be calm and methodical and plan to fight back, ignore others, strive to do your part well, and be self-comforting and self-relieved.

Think calmly, minimize the damage, and fight back against those who are calculating you by asking for help from others.

I think it's about remembering it, and then you can use it as evidence to protect yourself one day, and at the same time, you can remember it for a long time.

The first is to find a way to stop the loss in time, the second is that the villain is as far away from him as possible, and the third is to use his brains to outwit him.

Find a way to stop the loss in time, stay away from the other party, don't get involved in a struggle, and constantly reflect on yourself to avoid such a thing from happening again.

Improve your abilities, learn more, treat each other in the same way, and do these three things well.