How to make naughty children change, how to consolidate the results of transformation and form good

You should reason with your child, and give some material rewards in your life, which can make your child change his mind.

I think that first of all, parents must encourage their children, and they must cultivate their children to have their own independent space.

Parents should communicate with their children more patiently and guide them to develop good habits. Parents can let their children do what they love and guide them at the same time, so that they can consolidate the good habits they have formed.

1. It is the nature of children to be naughty, and parents cannot directly beat and scold their children without knowing how to communicate. It is in the nature of children to be naughty. When they are children, every child is full of strong curiosity about the world, always perceptive to the world, when they feel doubtful, children always involuntarily stretch out their little hands to touch the unknown, causing a lot of trouble for their parents.

In the eyes of parents, punishment can make children "remember for a long time and avoid making mistakes next time", but in fact, parents do not know how to communicate, lack of good guidance and inappropriate punishment methods, and do not promote children's growth.

2. Give children appropriate naughty space to release their potential. Compared with their peers, naughty children are energetic, hands-on, active in thinking, quick in response, and better at socializing with others. Among them, social skills play a crucial role in personal growth.

It can be seen that "naughty" is a child's talent. The potential of naughty children is very large, and parents should pay more attention to the shining points of naughty children, so that children can release the potential for destruction.

3. Behind the child's naughtiness, there may be hidden in the child's logical thinking ability, art creation ability, hands-on ability, language expression ability, etc., smart parents know how to teach children according to their aptitude, help children find growth space, explore potential. Parents should pay more attention to the shining points of naughty children, guide children correctly, so that children can "eat a trench and grow wise", and at the same time have a better development space, and even release greater potential.

4. Help children get out of the "naughty" dilemma and find room for growth. Smart parents know how to guide their children correctly; Naughty children also have room to grow. Parents are the best teachers for children, children are naughty, and parents' coping methods play an important role in children's growth.

Wu Yishu's parents, in the face of naughty children, are an excellent example.

5. Keep calm, calm down, and don't worry about children; Find the root cause of the child's naughtiness and guide it correctly, try to tap the inherent potential of the child's "naughty" performance, and give the child room to grow; Maintaining continuous communication with your child is the only way to track your child's growth and progress, keep abreast of your child's true thoughts and emotions, and not make the parent-child relationship deadlocked.

Parents cultivate their children's hands-on ability from an early age, but when the children grow up, they find that the children are very naughty. Parents should be aware that children have cultivated hands-on ability from an early age, in fact, it is also the cultivation of children's personalities, which will cause children's personalities to become more naughty. And when parents see that their children are more naughty, they should not always criticize their children, because each child grows and develops differently, so the children cultivated are completely different.

At the same time, parents should also realize that this is inseparable from the family environment, if the family atmosphere is more active, they will see that the child is more naughty.

In life, when many parents are raising their children, they will hope that their children can develop the habit of doing housework from an early age. Parents will let their children wash the dishes after eating, and they will find that the children are very obedient to help their parents wash the dishes. But as the child grows older, he will feel that the child will become more and more naughty.

Parents should be aware that if they find that their children are getting more and more naughty when they are raising their children, it is precisely because the nature of boys has been exposed. Parents should be aware that children who are too naughty are generally smarter, and parents should not dislike their children too much. If parents always look at Wu or quarrel with the child with a disgusted gaze, it may make the child feel from the bottom of his heart that his parents do not love him, and even have an inferiority complex.

As a parent, you should realize that most of your child's naughty personality is influenced by parents, and some children will behave very honestly when they are young. When the child grows up, you will find that the child's personality becomes more and more naughty. Especially when some parents are faced with their children's mistakes, they clearly tell their children that they can't do this, but the children already have their own ideas, and they will go against their parents, and parents should also understand that this is because the child is in a rebellious period.

At this time, you should also teach your children to be careful, and you should also explain some reasoning to your children, so that children will not have any problems when they become lively, and they can also let children know how to be fierce and know what not to do.

We should communicate more with our children, and then we should also respect our children's growth and development, and we should instill correct concepts in our children, set a good example for our children, actively guide our children, and establish a sense of rules for our children.

At this time, you should teach and balance the child well, so that the child can become more excellent and cautious, so that the child can have more changes, and it will be better for the child.

Lively boys have a lot of self-esteem and must not use violence. They should use soft means to make him obey you so that you can take care of them later. They should give the right guidance according to his interests, read some useful extracurricular books, and participate in useful extracurricular activities.

At first, don't limit your child's activities right away. In the face of children, what parents can do at this time may only need to pay special attention. When you calm down, there are always options that will work.

Use ** to resolve children's emotions and cultivate children's interest in **. Even ferocious beasts are softened. Get in touch with nature.

At first, you can go to some places where the environment can attract children's interest, and use the colorful world outside to attract children's attention. Flying a kite, swinging or playing soccer in a good natural environment, outdoor activities can allow your baby to release all their energy. Let the naughty kids do more work.

For example, he shared some cooking tips with his parents and made his favorite chocolate chip cookies together.

This not only increases the child's self-confidence, but also has the effect of cultivating good emotions. We should love, support, and nurture our children's spirit of exploring new things. When a child is interested in the things around him and tries to discover them, parents should not only be bored with their child's problems, but also encourage and .

There are some questions that parents can't answer for a while, so they can understand it before they talk about it. Many famous scientists, their ability to create and invent is a curiosity that sprouts from their childhood. Parents must cherish their children's young buds of wisdom.

When your child asks a question, it is best not to give him the answer directly, but to show him how to get the answer, such as through experiments, finding books, etc. This will allow the child to ask for the answer on his own. Parents can experiment and learn with their little ones.

In this way, children can be equipped with the ability to solve problems independently, master the methods of solving problems, cultivate children's feelings for books, interest in learning, and understand the meaning and benefits of reading. And then when he goes to school, he doesn't get bored. Don't punish your child for dismantling toys and utensils, be specific.

At this stage, it is still Cong Jian to educate the baby, if at this age is not educated, it is likely to lead to the baby's character becoming more rebellious after being cautious.

Go with the flow. Because I don't think it's a bad thing for children to be naughty, but to take advantage of children's growth, I think we should go with the flow.

First of all, parents must lead by example, teach their children by example to set a good example, if the child has this situation, must not criticize the child at will, must discuss with the child, so that the child will be convinced of you, and will also listen to some of your suggestions, and to tell the child that this is very detrimental to your development, but also to the child, if you look like this again, it will make many people dislike you.

After growing up, you can also go to the first grandson's day, you can first go to the children to explain some truth, and then do more games with them, watch some **, you can make them understand the importance of the slippery chain white hands-on ability, and they will not be so naughty.

At this time, parents should use the correct way to educate their babies, to tell the baby what can be done, what can not be done, when the baby is more slim orange Taofeng angry, parents can also use appropriate methods to punish the child.

You can send him to learn some hands-on classes that are more professional for Xiang Kuan and closed burial, such as the robot Shen Ant class, so that he is more interested in these things, and the posture is not something to play.

When we cultivate the baby's hands-on ability, we must make it clear to him and set some rules, which can prevent the child from becoming very naughty in the future.

1. Some children's friction is because they have no concept of time. This is also a very common situation, because children really don't know how long the "5 minutes", "half an hour" and "one hour" in the adult mouth is. So, you shouted at the child in a hurry:

Hurry up, I'm 5 minutes late! And the child thought that 5 minutes was a long time, and continued to do what he should do slowly. In such cases, parents can use a timer or alarm clock to help.

When you ask your child to "wash his face in 5 minutes" and "write new words in 10 minutes", set the corresponding time so that the child can feel how long "5 minutes", "10 minutes" and "half an hour" are in real life. 2. The reason why some children are grinding is that they are not interested in what their parents ask them to do, and they deliberately delay to express their dissatisfaction. In this case, talk to your child about why he doesn't like it, and then discuss it together to see if there's a better solution.

Smart parents, in the growth of children, should gradually guide children, no matter what children do, they must tell their children, cherish time, and do everything within the specified time? Know that time is precious.

Help children establish a sense of time, plan their time well, allocate their time reasonably, plan what to do in each time period, and let children use their break time to play. When children have a sense of time, they will have a sense of urgency, so they will pay more attention to efficiency.