If you are pregnant, I don t know if it is your husband s child

Blood type logic speculation:

During pregnancy, many people think that they cannot know the blood type of their baby, but this perception is incorrect.

During prenatal check-ups, the doctor will ask the pregnant woman to have a blood type test. If the ABO blood group is O or the RH blood group is negative, the husband's blood type should also be checked.

So why check the blood type of both spouses? Because in the above cases, there is a possibility of hemolysis of the fetus or newborn due to incompatibility of the blood group of the mother and child.

There are two main types of maternal and infant blood group incompatibility: ABO type and RH type. If the pregnant woman is type O and the husband is type A, B or AB, the mother and child may have ABO blood group incompatibility; If the pregnant woman is Rh-negative and the husband is Rh-positive, there is a possibility of Rh incompatibility, and specific antibody tests should be done for timely prevention. The first measurement can be done at 16 weeks' gestation as a basal level of antibodies, followed by a second assay at 28 to 30 weeks' gestation, and repeated every 2 to 4 weeks thereafter to monitor the rate of antibody rise.

If antibody titers are elevated, drugs should be used promptly** to prevent hemolysis or reduce its harmfulness. Because once this kind of immune hemolysis occurs, it has little impact on pregnant women, but it is extremely harmful to the fetus or newborn, and can lead to miscarriage, premature birth, intrauterine growth retardation, stillbirth, stillbirth, etc. In addition, newborns can also die due to severe anemia, heart failure, and can also cause kernicterus due to the invasion of large amounts of bilirubin into brain cells.

Kernicterus has a high mortality rate, and even if it survives, it can affect the development of nerve cells and motor ability in sick children.

In addition, amniocentesis can detect fetal blood type.

In this way, according to the law of blood type inheritance, you can know whether the fetus in your womb is born to your husband.

Blood type is determined by the combination of three genetic factors such as A, B, and O, and most of them can be judged according to the blood type of the parents. The genetic law of blood group is:

Don't regret it, it's useless to dwell on it.

Summary. Hello dear, according to the situation you described, if you are not sure whether it is the situation you are talking about, your husband's child can consider taking a DNA test for paternity testing.

Hello dear, according to the situation you described, if you are not sure whether it is the situation you are talking about, your husband's child can consider taking a DNA test for paternity testing.

I'm especially afraid that my husband won't be able to accept it, because I need to travel for work before marriage, and at that time I also slept with someone else for 3 nights, and I haven't been in contact with that person again, and recently I suspected that I checked the DNA, but it wasn't my husband's, and I don't know what to do.

1. If the father and the child come to do the paternity test alone, and the result is negative, it is recommended that the father can provide the mother's sample for comparison, or persuade the mother to go to the paternity testing center to do the identification. 2. If the mother affirms and the father is excluded, at this time, as the child's non-biological father, he can seek justice through legal means, rather than taking extreme measures to solve the problem, and pay more attention not to hurt the innocent and weak child. It is recommended that the man (non-biological father) have a good communication with the child's mother to understand the problem so as not to cause psychological burden.

It's been checked.

Does your husband know about this now?

My husband doesn't know.

In this case, do you choose to fly or continue to hide it?

Change is a long process, and making changes can be painful, so don't rush.

Can you hide it for the rest of your life?

A lie needs to be replaced by countless lies, first of all, whether you can make it public, and how to anticipate the consequences of making it public.

I don't think he can accept it.

The other party can't accept it, this is normal.

It depends on how you do it.

If this happens, I will give birth to the child and raise him well.

Because a good way of education can allow children to grow up healthier and happier, it is very important to have a friendly form of communication with children, and the following steps should be done:

1. Be confident in yourself.

No matter who the other party is, we must first maintain self-confidence, do not be unconfident, whether it is words or deeds that look submissive, which is not conducive to communication, so we must behave generously and decently, and be confident between the lines when we talk, so that we are half the success of the communication.

2. The tone of conversation should be tactful.

When communicating, we can be straightforward about our intentions, but try to be tactful. Remember to go around and down, no one will like this, be sure to say your opinion in one sentence, straight to the point will help us improve the efficiency of doing things, and the other party will also save a lot of time.

3. Communicate patiently.

Be patient in communication and don't show boredom. If you really don't want to be noisy and like to listen to it, you must know how to avoid it skillfully and politely. In this way, you can also take into account the feelings of others.

4. Speak in a measured manner.

If the other party is a person with a strong personality, it is likely that the spicy communication will not be smooth enough in the process of communication, at this time, you must know how to maintain a degree of advance and retreat, overcome rigidity with softness, and slowly persuade him.

5. When communicating, we must know ourselves and each other.

No matter who we communicate with, we must have an in-depth understanding of each other in advance, so that it is easier and easier to talk, if we don't even know who the person we are communicating with, then how can we communicate more smoothly and happily, and sincerely.

If you want to know if your husband loves you, only when you are pregnant and have a child will you see your husband's true face.

This close friend, pregnancy made me see my husband clearly, there is a sentence that says that if you want to know if your husband loves you, only when you are pregnant and give birth will you see the true face of your husband. I have always felt that this sentence makes a lot of sense, and giving birth to a baby during pregnancy should be the most vulnerable time for women. I need my husband's care and tolerance the most.

My husband and I met on a blind date, and it took less than a year to get married, and at that time, because his family urged my husband to reach the age, I didn't dislike my husband and got married. When I first got married, I always wondered if it was the wrong choice to get married, and I also thought about divorce. (I really don't get along with her family, and my husband doesn't understand me) but I didn't expect to get pregnant when I was preparing for divorce.

My period was a week late, and because I didn't know anyone on my husband's side, I was embarrassed to go to the pharmacy to buy test strips. It was a test strip that my husband bought at the pharmacy.

From the moment he found out I was pregnant, he was like a different person. In the past, I used to play with the computer or the mobile phone after work, and never talked to me, but I took the initiative to chat with me after work during pregnancy, and the computer and mobile phone were no longer playing to make me happy. I never did the housework at home before, just like an uncle.

Since he never helped me with the housework, I talked to my mother-in-law casually. You must not have thought of what my mother-in-law said? (My husband is the youngest in the family, and my mother-in-law loves him more) she said

How tired he is when he comes back from work, you do more nothing, and besides, what do you do when you marry, these jobs should be done by you, don't think about letting my son do housework, I didn't let him do it before I got married" At that time, I was stunned for a moment and said, "Then what are you doing when you are still married, just live with you directly, and when he comes back, we will go to divorce." "I just went out and came home, and I cried all the time. I've never been wronged by this.

My husband came home from work and saw me crying and asked me what was wrong. I ignored him, he was a little anxious and said what the hell are you crying about, say it. I don't know if you're like this!

I replied and asked your mom to go. He called his mother I don't know what his mother said, the two of them talked for a long time. Hung up ** and said a bunch of good things to me.

During pregnancy, my husband contracted all the housework at home, and I felt that I was very happy to wear this pregnancy. I really didn't expect my husband's change to be really big.

Under the care of her husband, the baby was born, she was a cute little princess, and she thought that her husband would not be disappointed, and he always thought it was a son. I didn't expect my husband to like babies more than me. I asked him if he wasn't disappointed?

He told me that when I first found out, there was a moment of disappointment. Then he thought for a moment, whether it was a boy or a girl, it would hurt just as much as his own child. I'm really happy that my husband can think like this.

Only when you give birth to a baby do you know if you are happy or not. I feel really happy now. Because I have a good husband.

If you are suspicious of your wife, you will be suspicious.