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Anonymous users2024-02-15Being ostracized by your roommates in college can think about what you have done to be sorry for them, whether there are points where you are jealous, and your lifestyle habits that can't cause trouble to others, showdowns.
1. What have you done to be sorry for them?
I'm sorry that their things are not just one, they may be the accumulation of many small things. For example, if you leak the privacy of your roommate for a long time, or use other people's things indiscriminately, and always forget to return them to others.
2. Whether there is a point of jealousy.
Jealousy is an instinctive reaction of human nature, you first find out if you have been envied for a long time, for example, everyone in the same dormitory is studying hard, and only one person gets thousands of scholarships.
3. Living habits should not cause trouble to others.
Because universities all gather in this dormitory from all over the world, it is understandable that everyone has some personal habits. For example, people in Northeast China like to take a bath, people in Sichuan like to eat spicy, and people in Shanxi like to be jealous. No matter what our habits, we must take the feelings of others as the premise and not affect the comfort of others in the dormitory.
4. Showdown. If you are sure that you are doing nothing wrong, but you are different from your roommate in terms of living habits or values, then directly "showdown" with your roommate, tell them your bottom line and patience, and hope that they can respect your lifestyle and not challenge your patience and touch your bottom line.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Excluded, first, reflect on yourself, second, if you don't have any problems, then face them frankly, don't take it seriously, one day everyone will understand what kind of person you are.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13I don't think you need to do much, you don't need to pay attention to them. Just do your job. It's okay to talk to them once in a while, and you don't need to try to please him for anything. Everyone has their own way of life.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12Give them a cigarette, play a game with them, and you're good to go.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Then it's neither near nor far; In college, they are already people who have read poetry and books, and they can treat each other with courtesy.
Try to resolve the contradiction to zero; You can't let yourself always be immersed in the depression of contradictions that can't be hurt.
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Anonymous users2024-02-101. Think about why you are excluded and make changes; (Root Cause Solution) 2. Move to dormitory; (Escape the problem and live easily).
3. Love is so good, anyway, as long as I'm not embarrassed, it's others who are embarrassed; 4. Strengthen yourself, so that others only dare to approach you to flatter you, and you dare not put it in the open. (Cover your ears and steal the bell to develop yourself by the way).
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Anonymous users2024-02-09The wisest thing for a boy to be ostracized by his roommates in college is to be himself and not conflict with them.
The wisest way to be excluded and isolated by colleagues is to adjust your mentality, to do your best to do your best, not to deliberately cater to others, to please others, but also to a certain degree of self-reflection, to see if you have certain problems, to correct as much as possible, so as to get along with colleagues.
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