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I think it's okay to get married, but before you get married, you should know these things:
1. It is difficult to be a stepmother, and it is really a matter of courage for a woman to be a "stepmother". It's not impossible to be a stepmother, but women should ask themselves whether a divorced man is worth paying like this.
If a divorced man is not very good to a woman, just some rhetorical coaxing, then the woman should leave him as soon as possible. If the divorced man is of good character and responsible, and the two really love each other, and when the woman pays for him, he is also solving problems for the woman, then the woman can consider whether to marry him.
2. No matter who is raising the children of a divorced man, they are the biological flesh and blood of the divorced man, and this relationship is destined to be cut. So, the problem of children must be faced. If a woman can't accept being a stepmother and the existence of a child from the bottom of her heart, it's very simple, two people should separate as soon as possible, and it will be good for each other!
If a woman feels that she can try to accept it, she may wish to have a few more contact with her children before getting married to see how it feels. If you feel that you can live peacefully with your children, it is okay to marry a divorced man with children! Women don't embarrass themselves.
3. Some divorced men don't love their children, and they treat their children badly, no matter what they don't ask, such divorced men are not good, and women can't marry. Some divorced men love their children too much, and remarry in order to find a suitable "nanny" for their children and take good care of their children, and women should not get on the thief ship of divorced men, after all, such an idea is too unfair to women!
A divorced man worth marrying will find a balance between his children and his future wife, he can be a good husband and a good father. Therefore, women must keep their eyes open to avoid being deceived.
Whether to marry a second-married man, women must think twice, don't choose marriage because of impulse, all choices must be taken responsibility for themselves, regret will never help!
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A second-married man can marry, a second-married woman can also marry, and if not, there are few men and women who dare to divorce.
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Of course, as long as it suits you, the most important thing about marriage is to love each other, comply with the law, and the conditions are suitable.
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Regardless of the conditions of both parties, it is not recommended unless you plan otherwise.
A normal marriage is actually a process in which a couple of people who love each other grow together and change together from the same starting point, and both parties are synchronized in this process, and all expectations, problems, changes, and difficulties are synchronously cognitive.
And people who marry for the second time are different.
He has gone through everything you ever dreamed of, giving and giving him the best things, and now there is not much left.
He has gone through everything he longed for, his expectations and visions for marriage have disappeared, and he has been unfazed by all the good things you have given him.
No matter how failed his previous marriage was, he has walked through everything you yearn for, all that was once beautiful.
When you get married, it is equivalent to him halfway up the mountain, overlooking you at the foot of the mountain, disdainful of the predicament you have experienced, indifferent to your expectations and requirements, at this time, you are almost about to regret it.
Besides, the past experienced by a divorced man is far beyond your imagination. He may conceal, he may ignore or even ignore the issues that led to his divorce, risks that are ununderstandable and unimaginable until you officially step into the marriage.
So he will be numb, he will be afraid, and he will quietly be dike. And these are your biggest enemies in the race towards a longing marriage. Can you imagine that in the face of your incomparable frankness and sincerity, he is wary and suspicious of everything you have done with the experience of those who have come before?
Besides, he has children.
The more scummy a man, the less he disdains the responsibility of his children. Such a male cherry is calling, are you willing to ask for it?
The better the man, the more desperately he pays and compensates for the harm caused to the child. Are you willing to accept such a man?
You are bound to have a child, and at this time, he has another child. This bowl of water can never be leveled.
I'm still not done, and I'm going to get down to business.
So girls, scumbags, for the sake of your own marital happiness and the health of that divorced man's future life, please don't contact them, don't give them the opportunity to "think they can", don't sympathize with them, and pity them.
They can find a girl who is equally unfortunate and divorced, and both parties can live well in the same cognition, the same considerations, the same background and the same mess.
And you, with your prince, start from the starting point, together.
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In marriage, can a man who is married for the second time marry?
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Are second-married men really happy? Can a second-married man marry? Can a second-married man marry?
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Can a man's second marriage really be happy?
In fact, if a man or woman is married for the second time, all the standards will be greatly discounted, and there may be a defensive heart, or some disbelief in the other party, which is very normal, and it takes a long time to communicate and communicate before it can disappear, compared to some misunderstandings between each other.
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It is generally easier for a man to find a partner for a second marriage, but the premise is that he cannot have children. If the man's economic conditions are relatively good, he has a house, a car and a deposit, then it is relatively easy to find a partner, and the successful man still has some advantages after all. If you love a man with this girl, it is also easier to find, mainly those who love a man with a boy will be more difficult to find. >>>More
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In fact, if a man or woman is married for the second time, all the standards will be greatly discounted, and there may be a defensive heart, or some disbelief in the other party, which is very normal, and it takes a long time to communicate and communicate before it can disappear, compared to some misunderstandings between each other.