After the divorce, the ex husband often instills negative ideas in the children, how should they dea

After the divorce, the ex-husband often instills negative ideas in the children, how should they deal with it?

1.Tell your ex-husband not to do this, tell your children what is right, and guide your children. The healing of any scar requires a process.

Only by respecting the wound and giving it time to heal can we truly learn to slowly withdraw from the pain. A lot of women are like that. When they get divorced, the most painful thing for them is not to leave the man who hurt them, but to have to face the mutilation and trauma that divorce brings to their children.

They hope that they can have some tricks to keep their children away from this process of tearing up the marriage and death, and avoid being hurt. What we can do as parents is not to try to keep our children out of the situation, but to use this crisis to minimize the impact.

2.Children are the continuation of our lives, and we naturally pay attention to them. But neither he nor they are ourselves, they have their lives, and we have to live our own lives.

Or rather, it's because we haven't had a good life, so when we encounter problems, we only think about forcing ourselves to stay in the marriage for the sake of our children, instead of encountering problems and thinking that I have to solve them now. Regardless of your family or personal circumstances, you should try to put some energy into the other person. After all, before, it was because of the hearts of both parties for each other that the two were willing to enter into marriage.

Even if they have to be busy with some things after entering the marriage, their intentions will be reduced, but they must be without it. So from this level, how to manage a marriage well becomes a question of how to take care of multiple parties and how to distribute their own intentions.

3.Many people blame each other and abuse each other in front of their children after a divorce, which is the worst thing that can happen. Accusations are just a way for you to vent your emotions.

If you try to lower the other person's image in the eyes of your child in this way, the answer is that you have lost yourself, even your child. The impact on parents and children is lifelong, both positive and negative. If negative emotions are instilled frequently, the child will be exposed to negative emotions and education.

Educating children is a common thing for both parties, and your ex-husband instills wrong ideas in your children, and you can hit ** to collude with him, and it is wrong to do so.

First of all, you have to understand that your ex-husband does nothing more than not want you to take away the child, second, I congratulate you, the divorce is right, your ex-husband is not authentic, and if you can live a wonderful life, the people around you think you are a good person, and the child will naturally hear you in other people's mouths, and the people around you are not as good as the people next to the pillow, not to mention the small children.

This is to actively guide the child, and then reduce the time the child spends with the ex-husband.

You can file a lawsuit in court to get custody of your child back.

If you choose to remarry after the divorce, you are still more sensitive to the remarried and reorganized family, and you should pay more attention when dealing with the problem. Let's talk about how to manage each other's children when remarrying.

How to manage each other's children when remarrying.

1. Create a good family atmosphere: A good family atmosphere is conducive to the physical and mental health of the children of the remarried family, and is conducive to the harmonious relationship between the husband and wife. Take a little more time to communicate with your children every day, take them for walks, parties, travel, visit relatives, etc.

From time to time, there is a small family evening party on the weekend, and the husband and wife perform some programs that are beneficial to the children, and also let the children tell jokes, tell stories, read poems, sing and dance, and so on. A good family atmosphere for remarried families is beneficial but harmless.

2. Treat children equally: Children from remarried families are generally sensitive and suspicious when they come to a new family and new environment. Husband and wife should treat each other's children equally, don't only care about their own children, favor their own children, and ignore each other's children, don't care less about them, and even often beat and scold, which will not only affect the children's perception of you, but will also seriously affect the relationship between husband and wife in the long run, and the consequences are unimaginable.

3. Let the children become good friends: Let the children study, play, and walk together, and share delicious and fun with each other, so that the children can become good friends who talk about everything. Even if the children don't live together, let them see each other often, get together and become friends.

Don't let them develop a withdrawn, selfish personality.

4. Take care of your own children: Maybe you will care more for your children from the bottom of your heart, but for the sake of family peace and harmony, please take care of your children first and cultivate their caring, generous, optimistic and tolerant character. When necessary, you should give more love to each other's children, smile more, care more, and the feelings will be deeper.

Hello, first of all, thank you for the invitation, if this is the case for a long time, it will cause a certain psychological shadow to the child's growth, and secondly, the child's own wishes are indeed unwilling to accept the visitation or the current state can apply for the suspension of the visit.

The method and time for exercising visitation rights are to be agreed upon by the parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

Where a parent visits a child that is detrimental to the child's physical and mental health, the people's court is to suspend the visit in accordance with law; Visits shall be resumed after the reason for the suspension has disappeared.