Teachers are forced to give gifts on Teacher s Day, and teachers are not given gifts on Teacher s Da

Reflect it with your parents, your parents will report to the principal, or report to the local news program, in fact, teachers are also very hard, but this kind of behavior is asking for money and embarrassing the teaching industry!!

But maybe the teacher was joking

I think it's okay, if the teacher talks to this point, you just swallow your anger and make a point, dozens of dollars is not much, lest he don't give you a good lecture, besides, everyone pays you or not, he is easy to doubt you, for the sake of knowledge, pay it first, as for what kind of punishment he will get, you don't care, believe in social justice, just study hard

There are such teachers!

It depends on whether most people pay it or not.

If the teacher talks to this point, you can swallow your anger and pay a little, dozens of yuan is not much, lest he don't give you a good lecture, besides, everyone will pay you or not, he is easy to suspect you, for the sake of knowledge, pay first, as for what kind of punishment he will get, you don't care.

It's so hateful, I'll give her a coffin! Tell the Education Bureau.

Give him a "clock", "coffin" and "urn".

Send it in this atmosphere.

Otherwise, some of the children will suffer later.

Give. Don't be careful to give you small shoes to wear later.

Talk to the principal about this!

Now this phenomenon is very common, the leaders should take care of it, as the parents of children, every year on Teacher's Day is forced to participate in the red envelope, to give to the teacher! It's not a lot of money, but it feels annoying! The reason for this phenomenon is that because the parent refused to pay the teacher to buy gifts, he was boycotted by the school's class parent committee and kicked the parents out of the group chat.

The parent was also angry, so he chose to report such a matter to reporters, wanting to let such an unhealthy trend be controlled. However, this matter has received the attention of the local education bureau, and an open letter has also been issued, calling on the parent committee to resist this unhealthy trend and reject all kinds of disguised bribery violations. Parents give gifts to teachers, such things are still relatively common in daily life, but most of them are ordinary daily necessities, or vegetables and fruits.

Although Teacher's Day is of great significance to teachers, there will be students, including some students' parents, who take the initiative to prepare gifts for teachers, but it is not mandatory, but a voluntary behavior. This parent may be regarded as an outlier in the entire parent committee, because everyone else agrees with an attitude, so it has been attacked by all the parent committees. You must know that the teacher is the representative of teaching and educating people, so he will not approve of such gift-giving.

According to the chat records, it can be seen that the parent committee wants to buy skin care products from the big brand Lancôme for the teacher, which is as high as more than 700 yuan, although each parent only needs to pay a few dozen yuan, but this makes the meaning of Teacher's Day change the taste, and at the same time makes other parents feel unfair. A short message or a child's "Happy Teacher's Day" can be used to express blessings to teachers.

The Parent Association is not a place where this bad atmosphere appears, but a representative of the class affairs, so it should lead by example. Moreover, when the parent committee gives gifts, it will definitely be represented by some parents, and other parents who contribute will not be mentioned, so many parents think that there is no need to spend such money. Teachers will not pay special attention to which student is given more gifts by their parents, which is against the principle of teachers.

Teacher's Day is here, and it is originally a day for the whole society to express respect and gratitude to teachers, but both parents and society are discussing one thing: gift-giving. Parents are not discussing whether to send it, but what to send.

Most teachers have their own difficulties and persistence between receiving and not receiving. Everyone has too much helplessness.

If you are a parent of a student, think about it, why would you give a gift to a teacher? This is not a simple matter of favors, but a kind of power redemption.

Giving gifts to teachers is of course for the sake of respecting teachers and expressing gratitude. But ask yourself, many times, isn't it just for the sake of the child not to suffer that he will please the teacher so much? The purpose of pleasing is to reduce or eliminate the "legitimate harm" done to the child by the teacher.

Since scholar Wu Si invented the term "legal right to harm", many people know that ** has more or less "legal right to harm" in his hands. In fact, doctors, teachers, firefighters, etc., have certain legal rights to harm because of the particularity of their professions, and ordinary citizens can also enjoy legal rights to harm due to the provisions of the law, such as legitimate defense and emergency avoidance. However, the legitimate right to harm exercised by doctors, firefighters, teachers or citizens is generally manifested in a hidden form.

Teachers can give preferential treatment to students, they can also punish them, they can give them a good face, they can not give them a good face, and anyway, teachers can have relative discretion to "manage" students. The former is a legitimate favor, the latter is a legitimate injury. However, for students, the difference between preferential treatment and punishment is great, and it can even affect the student's life.

The teacher's legal right to harm itself is not large, but the consequences can be very serious. That's why parents have to be careful.

Moreover, it is difficult for parents to grasp the handle of infiltration and say that the teacher violated the law and harmed the students, and it is difficult to find evidence even if the teacher violates the teacher's ethics. Parents give gifts to teachers in order to protect their children from being harmed, which not only has an ordinary human relationship, but also implies the right to redeem the teacher's legitimate harm.

Because the legal harm caused by teachers to students is not so great as to kill children, parents generally do not spend a lot of money on gifts to teachers. However, I don't dare not send it, because if "I can't remember who gave money, and I remember who didn't give money", the teacher may also think: I can't remember who gave a gift, and I remember who didn't give a gift.

In order to avoid being legally harmed by the lack of gifts, they should also carry large bags and small bags to the teacher's home in a special season, ostensibly to show gratitude, it is better to use money to eliminate the "disaster of power".

It seems cruel to say that, but whether you admit it or not, it's true. The gift to the teacher is only limited to the human relationship, rather than becoming a stake, is the foundation of the pure teacher-student relationship, which does need to be systematically narrowed to the space for the teacher's legal harm, in addition, it is necessary to rely on the noble teacher's morality.

Some parents give gifts to teachers for many different purposes, some people simply want to thank the teacher, and some people want to please the teacher. Everyone's purpose is different, and the gifts he gives are different. I think it's best to give a gift to a teacher on Teacher's Day with something more meaningful, and you can see that you have put a lot of thought into this gift.

Send a small gift to the teacher, and the teacher will not feel burdened and will think that you are better at doing things. In fact, most people give gifts to their teachers, and they are really grateful to the teachers for taking care of their children over the years or for so long. Your own children will definitely be more or less naughty at school, or when they need help from teachers.

Then it is a good time to use this Teacher's Day to express gratitude. Thank you to him for taking care of his children for so long. Many parents don't have this opportunity in normal times, so they are in a hurry to express their gratitude to teachers through a variety of gifts on Teacher's Day.

There are also some parents who just want to take the opportunity to curry favor with the teacher. The gifts they give look different from those of others. Because they just want the teacher to remember them, some people will send some more expensive chains or jewelry, some people will send red envelopes directly, or some people will send bags, all kinds of gifts are full of tricks.

I just want to let the teacher be on my side, and the teacher can help more. His own child let the teacher favor him, and sometimes he remembered that the child did not study well, and the teacher gave him tutoring. If the teacher accepts a gift from a parent, it means that if the parents ask for anything in the future, it will be very difficult for the teacher to refuse.

This kind of gift is really very exciting to look at, but I really dare not accept it. When it comes to this kind of Teacher's Day, teachers will receive a lot of gifts, and everyone will do so for various purposes.

It depends on your own situation, of course.

Under normal circumstances, gifts are given, and this gift is not about how valuable it is, of course, teachers who are too valuable may not accept it, but mainly because of whether they are attentive.

Teacher's Day is to see the heart and friendship, not in the gift, a simple flower is enough, or a greeting card, write the most sincere blessings on it, as long as it can represent your gratitude to the teacher, if you don't have time to write a card to buy gifts, say happy Teacher's Day to the teacher.

So the important thing is not whether to give a gift or not, but whether there is something to show it. Let the teacher know that his efforts have brought some growth and emotion to the students.

After the start of school in September, many parents also"Worried", because it's coming soon"Teacher's Day"Teacher's Day was established to recognize the contribution of teachers to education, in this holiday, it is natural to give teachers a holiday, but how to give teachers"Celebrate the holidays"It is also a difficulty for many parents, and the most difficult thing for parents is whether to give it to the teacher"Gift-giving"If you don't send it, everyone will send it, what will the teacher think about her child.

If you send it, but most parents don't send it, or the teacher doesn't accept it at all, then it seems that you don't have anything"Gold content"This year's Teacher's Day is coming, and if parents are still in a dilemma about whether to give gifts to teachers, you can take a look at the standard answers that everyone says.

Whether it is given to teachers on Teacher's Day"Gifts"First of all, parents should be clear that in recent years, the Ministry of Education has been rectifying the teaching team for teachers"Make-up classes are charged privately"、"Imply that students make up lessons"with"Receiving gifts"and other behaviors are strictly prohibited, and they have always been supervised, strictly prohibited, and have been supervised and cracked down.

In order to rectify the field of education"Unhealthy winds"Therefore, if parents want to give gifts to teachers, they should take into account the content of the gift, if it is a greeting card made by a child, or a bouquet of small flowers, it may not be harmful, but if it is a more expensive gift, parents should also weigh whether it will be worn by the teacher"Top hats"。

Of course, some parents may be more difficult, what if everyone gives more expensive gifts, then the teacher will treat the students differently in the future?

First of all, receiving gifts itself is an improper behavior, and the teacher's ethics are very important, if a teacher treats students differently because parents will not give gifts on Teacher's Day, or if they give cheaper gifts, then this is definitely not a qualified teacher.

Some parents give gifts to teachers for many different reasons and purposes. On Teacher's Day, parents give gifts to teachers to thank teachers for taking care of their children. On the other hand, I hope that teachers can take more care of their children in the future.

Some people just want to thank the teacher. Ah You's people also want to curry favor with their teachers, everyone's purpose is different, and the gifts he gives are different.

I think that giving a gift to a teacher on Teacher's Day is the best kind of a more meaningful gift, you can see that you have spent a little effort to give your wife to eat, and you are ready to give a small gift to the teacher, the teacher will not worry, and you will feel that you are more sensible if you have a burden. In fact, most people give gifts to teachers, and they are indeed thanking teachers for taking care of their children for so long over the years. Many parents don't have this opportunity in normal times, so they rush to Teacher's Day.

This festival for teachers is a celebration of gratitude to teachers in the form of various gifts.

There are also some parents who still want to take the opportunity to please their teachers, and the gifts they give look different from others, because they want the teachers to remember that some of them will give some more valuable gifts. Necklaces or jewelry, some people directly send red envelopes or some people send bags of all kinds of gifts, all kinds of tricks are just to let the teacher be able to stand on their side, teacher, can spend. If the teacher accepts a gift from a parent, it means that if these parents have any requirements in the future, then the teacher will not easily solve this kind of gift can really see that it is very exciting, but I really dare not accept it.

In fact, the best gift for teachers is precisely the child's hard work and good grades, which is the most precious gift that teachers look forward to.