Is the person who mentions the breakup first not in love?

It's not like that, some of them really can't stand each other's shortcomings, and if they don't change their ways, they will propose to break up.

No, I'm the one who mentioned the breakup first. I still loved him for five or six years after we separated. As for why we have to separate in love, it's probably because I know better than anyone else that we won't have a future.

It's not like that, the people who mention the breakup first are actually the ones who give the most in this relationship, and they are so sad.

It's not that the person who breaks up first doesn't love first, but he pays too much and doesn't get anything in return, and he will break up when he is disappointed in the end.

Not necessarily, the person who mentions the breakup first may love you very much, but he feels that his personality is not suitable and there is no way to enter the palace of marriage, and he may propose to break up.

There is a saying that goes like this: those who say love first do not love, and then those who are tempted do not die.

I think this sentence can explain this phenomenon very well, always the first to say that the breakup is fine, and the latter is always painful.

Why is it that the first thing to say is that the breakup is often less painful?

Because the person who talks about breaking up first is often the one who says love first. He is able to control his feelings, express his emotions and feelings in a timely manner, he likes it, loves it, and he will be brave to express it and pursue it. And when he doesn't love anymore, he will also respect his heart, propose to break up, and make a choice.

So everything he does, it follows his heart.

He can say love when he loves and say no when he doesn't, because his life and his feelings are all in his own heart.

Why is it that people who have been broken up are often miserable?

People who are broken up tend to be passive.

The person who is broken up cannot accept it because he is passive. The person who is broken up is often the one who is tempted later, so he often does not give up, so it will be very painful.

The person who didn't love at first said that he didn't love and proposed to break up, but the person who was broken up was still in love, so he couldn't accept the reality of love leaving. Those beautiful memories and pasts are still in my mind, as vivid as what happened yesterday, and the person who was broken up can't accept his departure. Because love is out of sync.

In fact, whether you propose to break up first or passively, you will be more or less painful in your heart.

Because people are emotional animals, they will think of old feelings, as long as a relationship ends and leaves, both parties will suffer in their hearts. It's just that some people seem to be stronger, hide their pain in their hearts, and are not good at revealing it, so they don't seem so painful.

It takes a certain amount of time for anyone to get out of the hurt that an emotion brings to themselves.

Generally speaking, the person who mentions the breakup first will not be too sad, since he can mention the breakup first, I am afraid that he has already planned and thought about it early. Therefore, if you mention the breakup first, it shouldn't be so sad. If that were the case, I probably wouldn't have mentioned the breakup.

The breakup must have been carefully thought out, or for one reason or another, it would be like this. Therefore, generally speaking, people who mention the breakup first should not be too sad.

People who mention breakups are generally more painful. Because it was not until the end that he found out that all these things turned out to be his own mistakes, and at the end, he felt that he had lost a good feeling, in this world, no matter what he did, he had to take some responsibility, and he didn't let himself feel very regretful in his heart.

Fate made each other meet and accompany each other for a long time.

No matter who proposed the breakup, the moment of the breakup must have been sad.

A relationship of a few months or years ends like this, and that kind of feeling is very uncomfortable.

This mainly depends on what is willing to mention the breakup, if it is because he is not in love, then he will be very relaxed after the breakup, and he will not be sad, if it is because of the unavoidable reason to break up, she will naturally be sad and reluctant.

It is not necessarily sad, when a person proposes to break up, it means that they have made up their minds, they do not want to live such a life, and discomfort does not exist for them at all.

As long as you have loved, you will definitely be sad, even if you don't love it anymore, you will feel sad, and the person who broke up first is just more ruthless and more manageable.

When two people determine the relationship and fall in love, there must be an element of love here! The person who proposed to break up, he must have thought it through before proposing to break up, especially the kind of very formal breakup, it is easy to fall in love and difficult to break up, of course, it will be more sad.

No matter who brings up the breakup first, both people will go through a period of struggle and will be sad and sad.

It's just that sometimes, some things are facts that can't be changed, and what is not suitable is not suitable, and even if it takes a little longer, it will eventually break up.

The person who mentions the breakup first will definitely not be sad, he or she must have found the other half, so he or she broke up early. Generally, only the party who passively breaks up is sad.

The person who mentions the breakup first will also be sad, because after all, two people have been together for a long time and have some dependence on each other, and if they break up suddenly, they will definitely feel sad, which is a normal reaction!

Generally speaking, the person who mentions the breakup first, he will only say it after thinking about it many times. So some people feel reluctant, no matter who brings it up first, both of them will go through a period of struggle, and they will be sad and sad. It's just that sometimes, some things are facts that can't be changed, and what doesn't fit is what doesn't fit.

If you don't love it, you won't be sad that whoever proposes to break up first. If love is still there, even if it is a passive breakup, it will be sad. Therefore, people who are sad after a breakup are not decided because of who proposed the breakup first.

No matter who proposes to break up first, there must be a certain reason for this, and one party may feel very uncomfortable in this way, and I think the party who is liked may feel better, but you like each other, and the other party proposes to break up with you, of course, you will feel uncomfortable, especially if she proposes to break up first, I think he will not feel uncomfortable. In other words, the person who proposed to break up first will not feel uncomfortable.

The person who mentions the breakup first shouldn't be too upset, because he doesn't have feelings before he mentions the breakup, so he won't be sad.

Men and women in the period of love a person first proposed to break up, I think the person who proposed the breakup will not be too sad, because he took the initiative to break up, he just wants to be separated from you in his conscious thoughts, so he is prepared for the strength of his ability to bear in thought, so he will not be too uncomfortable, if he is too uncomfortable, he will not propose to break up with you, because it is still due to the inconsistency of feelings or some issues, so there is an error, and there is a big error in the concept of action or action. So, on the one hand, think about the future. Considering that he really has a family in the future, he may live to life and not care about living together, which will leave more room for pain, so whoever proposes to break up first, he must feel that the other party has a lot of unsatisfactory places, or he is dissatisfied with him, so he thinks that there is no need to get along with each other, so he takes the decision, I think he will not be too painful to propose the person who proposes to break up first, and he thinks that his choice is decisive and correct, so generally speaking, He didn't feel any more worries and pains, and he thought that maybe if he had achieved it, it would be a relief.

In fact, I can't say whether it's sad or not, thinking about it, his inner pressure is also quite great, but in the face of this happy plan of commitment and love, it has now become a story of failure.

Maybe people's hearts are unpredictable, but that repeated story is always the pain that can't be told in the heart, obviously in love, but now he chooses to break up, think about which person will accept the probability of this unbeautiful for the first time? Maybe the only thing left is the time factor to heal.

It all depends on what is the reason for their breakup? There are two people who love each other who are forced to break up, and of course he will be sad. Of course, there are also true. If he can't stand the other party, he won't be sad, he will only feel that he is finally free.

Is it sad for someone to mention the breakup first? I think the people who propose to break up first will also be sad because they have been entangled for a long time and their hearts are full of conflicts.

Unless the previous relationships were all dramas, or hard-hearted, how could you not be sad!

In fact, it doesn't matter who brought it up first. The person who cares about both sides of the relationship will always be sad. But time can ** everything.

Sometimes I think.

Many people are too superstitious about the word "love", or this kind of thing, and they ignore a lot outside of love.

At every turn, anything, can be related to love or not.

Human personalities will be different.

Each person's experience is different.

People expect love differently.

People's insistence on self is different.

People's ability to feel love is different.

The world is changing, and so are people.

Many times, love does not necessarily mean that we will stay together.

Those who are together may not be in love, or they may just be torturing each other.

If you attribute a lot of things to it.

Emotional love or not, the hidden danger is particularly big.

Falling in love is the process of learning to get along with each other, and falling in love is the process of knowing, observing, and understanding each other, and it is a process of seeing whether each other can adjust, match, and adapt to each other, and promote each other.

If you attribute a lot of the problems to the emotional question of whether or not you think the other person loves you, it is easier to lead to a large part of the relationship being "me" (yourself) and ignoring a lot of "you" (the other person).

You feel that the performance of loving each other, the other party does not necessarily feel, the other party thinks that it is a manifestation of love for you, it is likely that you do not feel it, or misinterpret it, the "we" in your eyes are often just "me" myself, but it is not easy to know yourself.

Not seeing TA will make TA feel very frustrated, either party feels ignored for a long time, it will inevitably produce and accumulate a lot of conflicts, if one or both parties feel unsatisfactory, it will be normal to break up.

This satisfaction includes, whether you are happy together, whether you live better together, whether you can continue to love for a long time without losing it, whether you are full of hope for the future, whether you have better choices, and so on, and so on, and so on.

Breaking up doesn't necessarily mean that you don't love you, but breaking up at least shows that you are not very happy when you are together.