If you don t plan to remarry after divorce, how can you protect your future life?

If you don't want to rely on others, you can only work hard to make money and work hard in the workplace to better protect your future life.

If you don't plan to remarry after divorce, and if you want to protect your future life, you have to work hard to make money, as long as you have money, everything is easy to solve, and it is best to buy yourself a social security.

You must take advantage of your youth to make more money, buy more insurance for yourself, pay enough years for social security, and make a few more like-minded people, so that you can have a companion when you are old.

It's okay to find a good job and then keep improving yourself.

To be precise, most of the divorced women, and a small number of men, want to get married again.

Marriage, for most women, is a destination, a dependence. But for most men, it's a shackle, it's a problem.

Let's talk about things, why do divorced people want to enter marriage again?

First, you need to be accompanied. As people grow older, they will become more and more lonely, and this loneliness will prompt people to go out, or not dare to face the empty home, and over time, they will become dependent on the company that suddenly appears, and thus want to enter the marriage again.

Second, for the sake of children. It can be divided into two parts, one is nulliparous. As long as it's not a Dink thought, they all want to have a child, and even if they don't want to, their parents will help you think about it, so I won't talk about this.

We all know that in family education, parents play different roles, fathers bring children strength and responsibility, and mothers bring children flexibility and delicacy. Nowadays, in the process of psychological counseling in society, the shadow of the original family, especially the single-parent family, can be found, so for the development and physical and mental health of the child, I choose to enter the marriage again.

Third, reduce the cost of living. 1+1 is less than 2 in some cases, such as marriage, the cost of two people together is much less than the sum of the costs of each person, so if you have the opportunity and meet all aspects, then marriage may also be part of reducing the cost of living. Even, if you can find someone with particularly good economic conditions, then why not do it.

Fourth, being forced to be helpless. There are two parts of helplessness here, the first is the persecution of relatives, friends and parents around you. The second piece is the person to get along with.

Sometimes you may not want to get married, but that doesn't mean the other person doesn't want to. After a long time, there will always be an explanation, even if you are reluctant.

Fifth, believe in love. Sometimes a divorce is like a breakup, and it's not a big deal. But love continues, and I still have the right to choose love, so for the sake of love, I can start all over again.

I just went the wrong way, and my Prince Charming was still waiting for me at the front of the avenue.

Sixth, coexistence. For people with children, they can live with their children when they are old, but it is a big deal to bring grandchildren. But for people who don't have children, he will be afraid, afraid that he will be old and sick and no one will take care of him, so he just wants to find someone who can take care of each other in the future, even if it is marriage.

Seventh, go with the flow. Originally, you just wanted a hug, and accidentally got a kiss, and then you found that you needed a bed, a suite, and a permit. That's all.

It's normal to not want to remarry after a divorce, and if you're disappointed in your marriage, you don't want to remarry, you can calm yourself down for a while, contact more people, if you meet the right person and want to get married, get married, if you don't want to get married all the time, it's okay to live happily alone.

If you don't want to remarry, you can live alone, and then consider remarrying when you meet the right person.

Not wanting to remarry after divorce is a state of mind for a short period of time.

Generally, the divorce time is not long ago, and there is no recovery of the state of mind for the time being.

This state usually returns to normal after a few years.

I don't want to remarry after a divorce, this is a little sad about the previous marriage, and this will take time to calm down, so that I will rebuild my confidence to find the person I love.

I don't want to get married again after the divorce, which means that I am emotionally broken. That means that you still haven't met someone you love, so it's normal that you don't want to remarry.

However, many remarried couples eventually divorce again due to emotional estrangement. According to relevant statistics, the divorce rate of remarried families is higher than that of first-married families. The reason for this is that there are many misunderstandings between men and women.

Especially in today's society, where economic factors dominate, both parties must reach an economic consensus before remarriage, and under this premise, both parties must look at this special remarriage relationship rationally.

1. The economy of the two parties after remarriage will definitely not be as unscrupulous and unreserved as the newlyweds, and the financial independence of both parties is the only choice. In the vast majority of cases, it is impossible for both parties to lose their money in a box.

2. In the pre-marital and post-marital stages, both parties to remarriage should never inquire about each other's savings, and the other party will never tell the truth. Please don't force the other party to tell a lie helplessly, it will not be good for the relationship and life of both parties in the future.

3. Either party to remarriage should not regard the economy as higher than the other party, treat income, and do not have the wrong idea of "mine is mine, yours is also mine", when one party excessively occupies a penny of the other party, the relationship is also reduced by a point at the same time. Greedily appropriation of each other's income, the crisis of the marriage will grow.

Fourth, both sides must be tolerant of all parties' offerings to their children. Financial compensation is the last resort for divorced men and women to feel guilty about their children, and when you want to deprive each other of this right, the volcano can erupt at any time!

In addition, it is important to take care of property relations. In this regard, the "three constants" principle implemented by Tianjin is worth learning. The so-called "three unchanged" are that the ownership of property remains unchanged, who belongs before marriage and whose it is after marriage; Second, the right of inheritance remains unchanged, who should inherit or who should inherit after death; Third, the parent-child relationship remains unchanged, and each child takes care of his or her parents, and does not force a change in the title and maintenance relationship.

After the agreement was made in accordance with the principle of "three unchanged", the remarriage and divorce rate of the elderly in Tianjin has decreased significantly. Statistics show that the remarriage and divorce rate of the elderly in major cities across the country is above 60%, while the marriage stability rate of the elderly remarried in Tianjin remains above 90%.

Material and spiritual, everyone's needs are different, and people's hearts can be big or small, and they cannot be measured.

More caution is needed. You must find someone with good character to ask for it.

After the mother divorces, she does not plan to remarry, she should take the children into consideration, after all, remarriage will have a certain psychological rejection for the children, and after a failed marriage, there will definitely be disappointment in the marriage, and she will not blindly enter the marriage again.

Because she had already suffered an emotional injury, she developed a fear of marriage, because she was also afraid that after remarrying, she would distract her love for her children.

I think the biggest reason is that your dad is so heartbroken that I don't want to look for another man.

I have a cousin who met her husband on the Internet and got married after almost 1 year because she had a child. When I met, the two were in the same city, but they were far apart, and they were only free to come over on weekends.

After getting married, my cousin-in-law's temper and habits began to be exposed, he was hot-tempered and unreasonable, always thinking that he was right, and he would beat people when he got angry. Because my cousin-in-law's father had died when he was very young, and only an elderly mother remained, my cousin could only be taken care of by my cousin-in-law during confinement.

However, when there was a lot of trivial work, he would get angry, and he would often quarrel and even ask my cousin to pack up and leave. After we knew these circumstances, we decisively persuaded my cousin to divorce, while I was still young, it would always be fine in the future, better than arguing and fighting every day.

But my cousin felt that she would be disliked if she divorced and remarried, so she has been living a life of forbearance.

Now that we have been married for 8 years, we are still noisy and noisy, and we often complain to us, and we can't help anything except feel distressed.

Another example is my elementary school classmates, who grew up together in the same village.

Her husband also met her by working part-time, got married to Hunan, gave birth to two sons, and then divorced and returned to her parents' home. Because her in-laws felt that she had given birth to two sons and added a lot of financial burden to her family, they often talked about her and treated her badly.

Therefore, she divorced decisively, packed up her baggage and returned to her parents' house, and her mother was also very supportive of her approach and did not want her daughter to be angry.

Although she was also talked about by some people when she first came back, she didn't care, and when others asked, she generously admitted and explained.

At the end of this year, after a blind date, I heard that she found a husband who was very good to her, and gave birth to a son, and she has become younger, without the vicissitudes of life.

One is silently reluctant to divorce in order not to be talked about. Although I am not divorced, I live a life similar to divorce, I may live alone, although it is hard, but no one often quarrels and fights with you, I think it is better than two Hu Zhengren.

One felt that his future life would not be happy, and he endured the discussion and bravely divorced. Although it will be more difficult for her to be alone, she chooses the life she wants, and I think it is happiness.

If the marriage is unhappy and the hard work is still an unperfect ending, I think it is better to divorce. Whether you are alone or remarried, it is better than torturing each other in the previous marriage, and it is better to let go in a chic way.

Everyone's understanding and requirements of life are different. Therefore, the realm of happiness is not the same. It mainly depends on your needs, so you can't generalize.

Some pursue desire and family, but there is the pursuit of freedom. As long as you feel good.

Of course, there is a big gap between this, haven't you heard a sentence? It's better to call husband and wife or the original match, and if you get divorced, you can't be happy.

The gap must be very big, he wants to divorce but does not divorce, his mood is painful, and he will definitely be happier than he is now when he remarries after the divorce.