My husband, who is going to divorce, often asks me to bring my children to play, what do you think?

It may be that you want to get custody of your children in the family.

Bar, after all, the child is two people, he often asks you to go out to play, maybe he wants to raise the child, after all, "filial piety first, no queen is the greatest", the first to go out to play will enhance the feelings of the family. ‍‍

You can't always think about divorce, now your husband often takes you and the children out to play, which shows that the two of you are still very important in his heart, so he is still a knife mouth tofu heart, he is reluctant to the two of you, so getting along well is the king. ‍‍

I don't want to get divorced, it's like this, it's to keep you, take you and play with your children, I want to get back the feeling when I was in love with you, I want you to get back together, marriage is a major event in life, how can you say that you will leave, take it seriously, okay? ‍‍

He wants to get back together with you, it's good to have a neat family, going out to play is more helpful to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, after all, two people have gone through so much, and it's not easy to get to this point, how can you say divorce so casually. ‍‍

Maybe I want to go shopping with you more at the end, leave the best memories, and won't let my marriage leave regrets, the children are so old, let him be happy, don't lose his father so soon, leave some more good wishes for the children. ‍‍

Maybe he still doesn't want to divorce, after all, it's not easy for two people to get to this point, and with such a big child, if you divorce, the impact on the child is huge, and now you may want to keep you through these moves. ‍‍

I feel that he is suffering from some gains and losses now, and he can't slander the other party in front of his children, so that his parents know that his parents are very loving and leave a good impression on his children. In the end, I also left myself some good memories, things have happened, and if you can't get it back, just let it be. ‍‍

are about to get divorced, you must relax in advance, the two of you should be calm, take you out to play, relax, ease the tense atmosphere, be calm, let you know the reason for the divorce, and the two of you should not have any doubts. ‍‍

I just don't want to divorce, and I can't bear to let my children and you see if we can communicate and solve the problem.

Face project, some men are very good at face, these may also be done for outsiders to see, so that others feel that their family is very harmonious, but in fact, they know the current situation better than anyone else, and they are not optimistic. ‍‍

If you want to know the answer, ask him directly, the children are so old, and the marriage is about to divorce, what else can't be said directly. But I think it's better not to get divorced, after all, two hundred encounters in the previous life are exchanged for a look back in this life. ‍‍

It's nothing, maybe I want to get back together with you, or I just want to see the kids.

Maybe I want to keep you or miss my children. I felt guilty.

If the custody of the divorce belongs to you, it is feasible to take the son away and raise it. Parents have the obligation to support their children, and the parties may negotiate the custody of the children at the time of divorce. The court generally rules that children under the age of two years should be raised by the woman, and those who have reached the age of two make a judgment based on the rights and interests of the children and the specific circumstances of both parties.

[Legal basis].Article 1084 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother. After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Except for the court, no one can help you, but China's ** ability to do things is not ordinarily poor.

I'll take care of you for at least a year and a half.

Definitely, no matter how hard and tired you are, you have to take your child with you, which is a responsible approach for your child.

First of all, I do not deny that the father of the child also loves the child, but love and care are two different things, and wanting to take care of and being able to take care of are also two different things. For my husband, who is an only child, I really don't worry about letting him take care of the child, he still needs to be taken care of himself, how to take care of the child? Moreover, he is busy with his work and often works overtime until midnight, what should he do with his children?

Secondly, I am not opposed to my parents-in-law helping to take care of the children, after all, it is their grandson, coupled with the relationship between generations, the parents-in-law will definitely be good to the children, but the problem is that the life philosophy and education philosophy of the older generation are different from ours, if the children receive the old ideological education for a long time, can they adapt to today's society in the future? Is it too late to find out about this problem when the child grows up?

Finally, the question of stepmothers. We are both young, and second marriage is a very real problem. I can no longer marry for the sake of my children, but can the father of the child?

I don't think he can do it, so the problem of stepmother will definitely arise. I admit that there are selfless stepmothers in the world, but those are very few low-probability events, and I don't want my children to fight for luck. The child is still young, and once he is psychologically harmed, it will affect him for the rest of his life.

Based on the above three reasons, if I get divorced, I can do without anything, but the children must be with me. I can't guarantee how well I can raise my child, but at least I can let him grow in love and joy. The child's father can visit the child at any time, and he can also take the child home to live for a period of time to relieve the feelings of his parents-in-law, but I can't give up the custody of the child.

I want to think about it, because I grew up with my moon crush, but if I really get divorced, let his father take it, because there was no economy at the beginning, and the child was used to it in that home since he was a child.

On the way to divorce, because the issue of child custody has not been negotiated, I am ready to sue for divorce, but my daughter was brought up by me in October

Yes, I'm divorced! The son is mine! He doesn't have to pay child support! My son is now mine alone.

I just got divorced, the house was bought before marriage, my name, my son is one and a half years old to my ex-husband, the child is too young I need to provide for the mortgage to earn money to support me and the child, the ex-husband doesn't care about the child at all and throws it to the grandparents, I send clothes to the child every time I pay my salary, I want to wait for him to go to school and take it back with me, because I just divorced, the debt is divided equally, and now I have to earn money to pay back the bank, I can't take care of him, I will still take him away when I am older.

I don't think it will happen now.,I guess it will be by then.。。