When a divorced man meets someone he likes, how can he take into account the feelings of his childre

In modern society, there are more and more "single" people who are divorced and have children, and they are eager for happiness and are also pursuing the other half who can be with each other for the rest of their lives, which also means that people who are really single or "single" after divorce will have countless bonds with those people

I don't look at that group of divorced and single people with colored eyes, because I married a man who is divorced and has children to each other I see many girls have such confusion, they like a divorced man but the other party has children, I don't know if I want to continue, can I get married?

If you are bothered by such a problem, you remember to pay attention to all my future updates, there are many experienced people who will directly tell you not to marry such a man, give you a bunch of reasons, just because you can't empathize with but are blocked by a bunch of reasons, instinctively many people will want to jump, always feel that they are the lucky one, always feel that they are the one who can face and live a good life, and always feel that they meet him differently.

1.The man can't be completely sincere to you, because he will care more about his child's feelings.

2.Even if he is divorced, but with the child, he must have maintained the necessary communication with his ex-wife, after all, the child belongs to the two of them, and the child eats, drinks, Lazar and goes to school, don't they all have to be discussed by the two of them, can you accept it? Or I'll just ask you, are you okay with your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend having a long-term relationship?

What's more, this "ex-girlfriend" is still an "ex-wife", and she is still the mother of his children.

After all, men and women are different, and the way they treat feelings is even more different. Many people will say that women are affectionate, and when a woman falls in love with a man, she will devote herself wholeheartedly and give all her sincerity. And after a man gets a woman, he will slowly become uncaring and not cherishing.

In fact, this view is not absolute, but it is just because of the different ways in which men and women deal with relationship problems. Compared with men, women are more delicate and better at expressing their feelings. Most men are reserved, introverted, pay more attention to behavior when dealing with feelings, and are not good at verbal expression.

The best thing to do is to take the child out with the person he likes to play and get acquainted with him, so that the child can easily accept the new mother.

Although you already have someone you like, but for the child, you must not ignore him, and you must accompany the child to play with him when you are free, so as not to disappoint the family.

You should tell your child slowly, and you should also think from your child's point of view, and you should tell your child how you feel, and your child will understand you.

You can communicate with your child, communicate like a friend, explain your thoughts clearly, and then make a decision based on your child's reaction.