If you have been divorced, do you still have the right to pursue happiness?

Your friends don't know how old you are, but they can understand your thoughts. My opinion is that since it's true love, don't let it go, because it can only happen once in a lifetime! I'm a girl, and I think if you're a sincere person, and you tell her about it in the most sincere and formal way, and then give her some time to think about it slowly, I think if she really loves you and trusts you enough to be 100% acceptable.

Everyone has the right to enjoy happiness, speak out boldly, the longer this kind of thing is hidden, the worse it is!

Find a time to call her for a drink. You drink more. If you drink too much, you will spit out all the bitterness you think in your heart, tell her your past emotionally, and say that because you love her too much and are afraid of losing her, you dare not tell her, ask her to cool you, and you have no children who will not affect your future marriage, as long as you really love that girl, generally girls will accept your sincere love.

Choose a suitable day, make her happy and then go to drink and complain. Say what you want to say.

I don't understand, what about being married? And there are no children to drag you down, and it will not affect your life at all.

It's nothing more than marrying a divorced person with a bad reputation, this is not impossible, you can explain it to her, but don't tell her family, don't publicize it outside, so not many people know. Since she hasn't known about this matter for so long, you can imagine that this matter is not known in the streets, what are you afraid of?

All I can say is that everyone has the right to pursue happiness, even if they are not divorced.

We have a man here who has been married 5 times, and he still lives a very chic life. The old ones don't go, and the new ones don't come. Learn to constantly adjust the flavor as needed.

I think it's better for you to say it earlier, like.

Everyone has the same rights.

396 big, since you choose to divorce, it means that your last relationship was not happy. You have escaped an unhappy marriage and embraced better happiness, and there will always be someone who will be willing to be nice to you again. In fact, getting married is like two companies talking about cooperation, continuing to cooperate when the negotiation is done, running in with each other if the negotiation is not appropriate, and finally ending the cooperation if the negotiation is still inappropriate.

Tens of millions, don't believe in love, love will never be without relatives, love is just the same as people, it will be born, old, sick and die. Many people live happily because they have a good "mentality" and firm "beliefs".

Perhaps busyness and running for life have become the most realistic appearance of many marriages, so two people in a marriage as husband and wife will be reluctant to be romantic after being tired, and they have no intention of falling in love after being trivial. Every woman is inseparable from the watering of love, no matter how busy the marriage is, they need to get a few sweet words from their lover, a little warmth. When love comes, it is always beautiful, romantic, and vowed, so it will be easy to compare it with your bland and slightly lonely marriage.

Men's fragile women can't understand, often see men as shelter from the wind and rain, and men have to block anything difficult, but men's psychological pressure will become heavier and heavier, so men would rather avoid than go head-on, and would rather not choose to remarry, and they will not ask for trouble. Unless, this woman can educate the child and handle the relationship between the child and the father, and the man is very confident and has good educational means, and can handle the relationship with the child, or the remarried parties have a child together, then the remarriage will also be very happy.

After the divorce, you should strive to pursue your own happiness and make life sweeter.

Everyone wants to be happy, even if they are divorced, they have the right to pursue happiness. It depends on your understanding of happiness, and there is no doubt that people who are the same have the same answers. But no matter how you return to Qinqin, you should be bold in pursuing.

In recent years, China's divorce rate has reached around 30, and the number of people pursuing singleness is increasing.

I asked a few divorced friends around me for a variety of reasons, but the most common thing was that I couldn't see the future of my marriage more and more.

My friend Yanzi married her boyfriend when he was poor and white, and after marriage, she took on most of the family's expenses, but when her husband also started to earn money, she filed for divorce.

As friends, we are all very surprised, after all, life has been getting better and better, why divorce at this time?

Later, when I chatted with Yanzi, she said all kinds of things, and I heard it, in fact, it was nothing more than the following points:

1.I can bear most of the family's expenses, so when you can't give me financial support, you give me a lot of mental expenses, you don't.

2.I need to get something in return for what I give, and I can't take it for granted.

3.You're never there for me when I need you. When I was wronged, you couldn't even play the role of a good listener, and the common topic between me and you became less and less.

4.When I propose a plan for the future, your first reaction is what I can do for a laugh, not what you can do for a plan.

Afterwards, we also chatted with the man, and the man also admitted that most of them were raised by swallows before, and the living status of the two of them was to go home, each with a mobile phone, bowing his head and saying nothing. Meals are always take-out. The fireworks at home may only be regulated by air conditioning.

We can't completely judge who is right and who is wrong in this matter, but listening to the expressions of both parties, it is true that the man has paid less in the marriage.

I want to say that marriage really needs to be managed by everyone's heart, not that it takes a lot of thought to fall in love, and then it doesn't matter after marriage. For Yanzi's marriage, until now, I have found that divorce, for Yanzi, is really the pursuit of happiness.

After the divorce, Yanzi's mental state is completely different from that before marriage, but the man is often overwhelmed by the trivial things of life.

Love is a spiritual encounter again and again, surrounded by hormones, and it has been rippling in the heart.

Marriage, on the other hand, requires us to create our own hormones, and we need our own constant spring hearts.

So, a good marriage, please give it enough attention. It requires both of us to work with care. May you have a love marriage from the green years to the gray hair.

I personally believe that it does not mean that it is difficult for a failed marriage manager to make himself happy again, as long as he always maintains a positive and optimistic attitude. After divorce, it is still more likely that you can get a happy married life again.

First of all, when you have been divorced, you should learn from the lessons of your previous failed marriage, summarize the root cause of your failure in this marriage, and take this as a warning, and do not completely lose confidence in marriage and love in your future life, but should have a more proactive attitude to find your true love and your own life, so that you can feel as happy and happy as possible in the following days.

Secondly, when you have been divorced, your pursuit of marriage and love should be more realistic, you should combine your own reality, you should not have too high requirements for feelings and your other half, and then look for a new marriage partner, instead of paying attention to the other party's appearance and material conditions, etc., it is better to pay more attention to whether the other party's character and their own character are compatible, these basic elements, Because these elements will really determine whether the marriage between themselves and the other party can be truly long and happy, when they divorce and choose to start a new married life, then they and their other half must achieve mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual respect in daily life, at the same time, the husband and wife must also learn to communicate and communicate with each other, so as to ensure the continuation and happiness of the marriage of the two people.

It's not that it's difficult, it's just that my heart has been broken, so I want to find someone who can make me happy.

It's not difficult, this kind of thing depends on chance.

Divorced people, if they want to pursue happiness again, it is difficult to depend on fate.

One: learn to live with each other's shortcomings.

What attracts us when we are in love is the advantages of the other party, marriage will magnify the shortcomings of the other party, and the process of running in between two people is the process of accepting and tolerating each other's shortcomings.

Everyone tries to find a perfect person, but unfortunately, in the end, you will find that there is no perfect person in this world.

I always believe that even if you meet a good person, I still think that he must have shortcomings.

When you are in a relationship, you only care about the good in the other person. Even, you will magnify the advantages of the other party ten times and a hundred times.

However, the rent is noisy, and when you get married, it is completely different.

All you see at this time is the other party's shortcomings, and the more you look at it, the more angry you become, and you are so angry that you can't wait to get a divorce and find another one. When you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs. Because during the love period, all you see is the other party's advantages, and after the love is over, it is the process of accepting the other party's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.

Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calmness and calmness of the hills and valleys in the chest, and the ability to make trade-offs will balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.

We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person. Two: Be sure to bring love.

It's lucky to get married for love!

When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.

If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.

If the purpose of your marriage is to say that I don't love you in the first place, I got married when the time came.

At that time, I really didn't know if you delayed others, or if you hurt yourself.

Don't marry for the sake of getting married, and take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.

At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.

If it's not suitable, it's the best, there are no two people who are born right, they are two people who run in and grow together, and you don't even want to run in with someone you don't love.

You have been divorced, but it is possible to meet happy ones.

It's hard to say, depending on what kind of person you've met.

Of course, as long as you work your own, you will be happy.

It is entirely possible to live happily after a divorce, and it depends on your ability to self-regulate after the divorce.

If you just blindly complain about others, have an extremely negative attitude towards life, and are always immersed in the sorrow of divorce and are unwilling to come out, then your possibility of happiness is too small, because your three views, that is, the world's outlook on life and values, have collapsed because of a divorce, so you will be extremely unhappy, because you have lost the pursuit of happiness, and the blow of divorce will overwhelm you.

On the contrary, if you see this divorce as just a small episode in your life, no big deal, and a new life after the divorce, and pursue happiness with a positive and optimistic attitude, you will continue to reap the joy of Jinlu.

Therefore, there is no need to regard divorce as so important, do what you should do, cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things around you, and embrace life with a positive and sunny attitude, so that you will have more happiness and joy; There is no need to immerse yourself in the grief of divorce all the time, it is not worth it, whether it is because of the person you can't forget, or those things you can't forget, you shouldn't continue to dwell on it.

We should continue to stride forward with our heads held high.

Hello, divorced people can also be happy. We must enhance our self-confidence is right, so that our life can bloom as soon as possible!

We will become more rational after a relationship failure, so the love life after the divorce will become cautious and will not be easy to give sincerely, but after that, the person who can make himself sincere is likely to be someone who can accompany him for a lifetime. After eating a trench and growing wise, the first marriage failed to allow him to spend the rest of his life happily, which undoubtedly caused a lot of damage to himself. The person who can hand over a lifetime of happiness, he must have trusted and loved him very much, otherwise he would not have written his name in the notebook, a lifetime of shackles, but unfortunately fate is shallow, we are not the right person after all, we can only let go and leave, no longer painful, but after this time, I will definitely not love someone easily, after all, I have been hurt.

Everyone has a time when they are young and naïve, we used to be such people, thinking that we had met the true destiny, so I paid for him wholeheartedly, and when I proposed for him, I thought that I would definitely be the happiest person in the world in the future, but it backfired. After we got married, I obeyed his wishes and gave up my own business, took care of the housekeeping at home and took care of my parents, and we lived well for the first few years, but when his career gradually rose and encountered difficulties, everything changed. He started to get very irritable and always had a lot of opinions about himself, and I thought he was having trouble at work, so he was unhappy, so I forgave him and did everything well.

But as time went on, I found myself getting farther and farther away from him, and he began to stay up at night, or came back full of alcohol, and at one point I even smelled a perfume. I calmly asked him what was going on, but he said very perfunctorily that he was just going to socialize. But then my girlfriend accidentally saw him go to the land of fireworks, and I was chilled.

I didn't believe it and wanted to ask him personally, but he didn't deny it, and he took it for granted that he was just going to work. I'm not stupid so I didn't believe it, plus he was impatient with himself before, I couldn't continue to bear it, so I chose to divorce. After the divorce, I started my own business, no longer compromise my life for anyone, and for feelings, I will not give easily, I want to live for myself.

I will not continue to repeat the mistakes of the past if I fail once, after the divorce, I will live for myself, I will not continue to compromise with my own career, and my feelings will not be easy for anyone, I believe that the person who truly loves me will understand me.