Is the extramarital relationship in middle age a lose lose game?

Extramarital love is a lose-lose game, and no one can be alone, especially women!

1. If you don't experience some things yourself, you will never know what happened to others, what kind of mood and feeling?

Especially in this aspect of feelings, if you are not an immersive person, no one knows the sadness and joy in the hearts of others, even if you are in front of a person who is in pain for the end of a relationship, you can only say some painless words to comfort at most, but you can't find a better reason to persuade him to stop the pain in his heart.

Only when you really enter the relationship and encounter a similar situation, you will really understand that the relationship is not as simple as you imagined, the relationship is not at all you want to continue, you want to let go, you want to forget, it will only make you feel that the relationship you have is so beautiful at the beginning of fate, and when the fate ends and you can't let go, you can really feel what it feels like to have ten thousand arrows through your heart? It hurts to the heart, how painful it is, how uncomfortable it is.

Second, before you have experienced it yourself, you may think that everyone has the right to pursue love, since it is love, as long as two people are truly in love, they will not hurt each other, let alone ruin each other's happy life.

But the fact is that in the world of feelings, no one can control the overall situation for their own selfish extramarital feelings, let the small boat of love sail, not be overturned by the wind and waves, and will not hurt others and themselves.

Feelings are not like other things, it will accumulate over time, deepen its thickness and depth, until people are uncontrollable, regardless of the two lovers of the first love, love to the point of madness, love to the point of forgetting that they have a marriage, a family, someone waiting for them to come home.

3. There is no impermeable wall in the world, and there is no fire that paper can hold, and there will be times when hidden extramarital affairs will be discovered after a long time.

Fourth, the love that men keep saying outside of marriage is actually not love women outside of marriage, but love women in marriage.

It's really a lose-lose game, because such behavior is a disservice to both parties, and you can only accept pain when you are discovered.

Yes, be honest when you are middle-aged, don't toss anymore, otherwise it will only make your family fall apart, even if you end up together, your children will no longer recognize you, and that woman may not be sincere to you.