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Recently, the National Department of Statistics released the report on the seventh population census. According to the report, there are more than 300 million women of childbearing age in China, and the number of births in 2020 is 12 million. Compared to the huge number of women of childbearing age, the number of births is surprising.
Netizens expressed their confusion, why are people of this age so reluctant to have children? So why don't young people have children? I think there are probably the following reasons:
First, the soaring cost of parenting is prohibitive for young people. In recent years, competition in various industries has intensified, and some unscrupulous education and training businesses have spread anxiety to the public for the purpose of profit. They instill in many parents that a person needs a variety of talents in addition to a strong educational background in order to succeed.
And no parent wants their children to lose at the starting line, so they have become fans of education and training, and have become leeks harvested by businessmen because of their children's success anxiety. Although some young people have not yet been upgraded to parents, this ** training bill will also be known through various channels. In the face of this huge amount of education funds, and looking at my salary stub, I really felt that my salary was not worthy of my fertility ambitions, so I simply chose not to give birth.
Second, some women give up childbearing for career reasons. Because a woman's childbirth takes up to 10 months to conceive, and the pregnancy process has a great impact on people's energy and emotions. This will certainly affect their work.
Because of this, many companies have a gender preference for male workers when hiring. The majority of adult women experience workplace gender discrimination when looking for a job. Now that I have finally found a job and have a stable job, if I go to give birth at this time, it will affect my promotion or have a potential threat to the professional status I have already obtained.
In recent years, there have been many news reports of people returning to the workplace after giving birth, being demoted or transferred, or even being fired during pregnancy, and it is precisely because of these lessons that some young girls dare not have children.
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Because the cost of raising a child is very high, it takes a lot of time and energy.
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The addition of various costs makes young people have to calculate more complex economic accounts before giving birth, and there is no one to take care of them after giving birth, and having children will increase the burden of life, which should be the reason why young people don't want to have children now.
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There are many reasons, one of which is ** excessive publicity, saying that a woman who gives birth to a child is scared from the ghost gate. One is afraid to get married, and the other is to get married and not have children.
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The cost of raising a child is very high nowadays. This includes the cost of buying milk powder for your child and the cost of going to kindergarten in the future, which is a lot of money. It puts a lot of pressure on the economy of young people.
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I hope you tell the truth.
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Why is China's birth rate at an all-time low? Why are Chinese couples reluctant to have children now?
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Nowadays, many young people pay more attention to the realization of self-worth, and will not include whether they are married and have children into the evaluation system of a person. Nowadays, many young people are also very yearning for a free life, and do not want their lives to be bound by children. With the development of society, the world has become more and more colorful, and young people can have a wonderful life even if they do not start a family and do not have children.
With the progress of people's thinking, the global fertility rate has fallen off a cliff. What makes young people reluctant to have children? Here's what I think:
First, young people pay more attention to the realization of self-worth.
In the past, when many people evaluated a person, they basically looked at whether the person was married, or whether they already had children. And in the past, many people thought that if a person was married and had children, and had a very happy family life, then that person's life might be a successful life. But with the progress of society, people no longer include whether to get married and have children into the evaluation system of a person, in today's society, many young people pay more attention to the realization of self-worth, and the evaluation of a person is also to see whether the person's life is satisfactory.
Second, young people are also very eager for a free life.
In the past, many people thought that if they were also moved in by a family, then they would be very happy. But many young people nowadays are very eager for a free life, and they do not want to be bound by their families or their children. Because of this, young people around the world are increasingly reluctant to have children.
3. Young people can have a wonderful life even if they don't start a family and don't have children.
In the past, if a young person did not start a family and have children, the young man's life might be very boring and idle. But in today's society, even if young people don't start a family or have children, young people can also have a wonderful life. It is precisely because of this that young people are becoming more and more reluctant to have children.
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It is the pressure of early life, the pressure of work, and the pressure of the family, which leads to the reluctance of young people to give birth, and there are elderly people in the family to support, and the salary of the current work is generally not high, and secondly, young people now also want to be rich and raise children, but they have no economic strength, so they are generally unwilling to give birth, and want to wait for Lu Lao to have children when the family is stable.
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Because the housing prices are getting higher and higher, the pressure of society is increasing, and young people are very busy with their work, and they don't have so much time to have children, so it will lead to young people who are reluctant to have children.
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Because the cost of children's future education and living environment has greatly increased, young people cannot afford it, and the pressure is too great, resulting in many young people being reluctant to have children.
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Mainly because of the pressure of life, as well as the pressure of raising children, coupled with marital problems, young people are reluctant to have children.
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Mainly because of the pressure of life, the pressure of raising children, and the problem of marriage, young people are reluctant to have children.
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The house is precious, but the price of love is even higher. If you take the road of divorce, you have to throw both.
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The problem is wrong, it is a cliff in the fertility rate of the world's feminist countries.
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I have a global problem.
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Don't care about the world, just yourself.
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On May 11, the data of the seventh national population census showed that the total fertility rate of women of childbearing age in China is that each woman of childbearing age is only willing to have one child. This data shows that women's desire to have children is very low, so why don't young people want to have children anymore?
1. Survival pressure.
Why don't young people want children, because young people can't support themselves, how can they talk about having children? Now that the work system requires 996, what about the time for young people to fall in love? **When is it time to get married?
Not to mention having children. Maslow's hierarchy of needs tells us that survival needs are the most basic needs, first of all, people have to survive. If you are tired of running around every day and can't save some money, then you are living a tight life, how can you talk about finding a girlfriend, getting married and having children?
2. Stress on women of childbearing age.
Nowadays, gender discrimination in enterprises is so serious, it is quite difficult for women of childbearing age to find jobs, and some women use national policies to enter enterprises to "eat rice", which makes it more difficult for women to find jobs. Who is taking care of everything in the childbirth of women in our country? When it comes to the company, it is the company that pays the cost, including some laws and regulations that require the company not to discriminate against lactating women and pregnant women, but it is meaningless, because the company will directly not hire women.
Moreover, part of the cost of a woman's pregnancy is borne by the enterprise, and if the state transfers the contradiction, then the enterprise will transfer the contradiction to the worker, which is very unfriendly to women.
3. Who will raise it?
In addition to the pressure of employment, how can women of childbearing age ensure that they can balance work and family after giving birth? This is a question that many strong women will ask, but men don't seem to have this kind of question. Therefore, the irresponsibility of men in child-rearing is also one of the reasons why women do not want to have children.
If you are destined to carry all this alone, it is better not to have this child, what is wrong with living by yourself. The emergence of widowed parenting has made women realize the lack of men's childcare responsibilities, so women will not want to have children.
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Because the pressure is too much. The financial pressure of having a child and the pressure of raising children are very high, resulting in many young people not having the desire to have children.
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The main reason is that young people want to enjoy life on their own, do not want to raise children, lower their living standards, and are not prepared to be parents.
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Because the cost of having a child is too high now, the annual tuition and miscellaneous fees alone are a huge expense, and when I grow up, I have to buy a house and a car for my children, which is too much pressure. That's why young people don't want children.
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I think the reason why young people nowadays don't want children anymore is because the cost of having children is so high now, and they don't have enough financial conditions to raise them.
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Because some young people nowadays are more stressed and have poor financial ability, they don't want their children to do this will only increase their pressure.
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There are a lot of reasons for this, and I want to talk to you about that.
1. Life pressure.
With the development of the times and the progress of society, since the reform and opening up, people's living standards are getting higher and higher, and they also want to pursue a higher quality of life. In today's era, people generally encounter more problems, before we enter the society, we need to go through nine years of compulsory education, after going to university we need to face the pressure of finding a job, which is also the current situation of every young person's life today.
And in this society, many college students who have just graduated can't find a suitable job at all, so they are in a state of career, but at this time, they are also at an age of marriage and childbearing, and they may also have their own partners. <>
But they are reluctant to have children, because their work pressure is too great, and in the face of such a meager salary of two people, it is impossible to raise a child, so at this time, they choose not to have children, on the contrary, so that their living standards will be relatively better. <>
2. Ideology.
Another is that people's thinking today is very different from the thinking of the predecessors, and the older generation of people feel that they must continue the family incense and need someone to pass on the ancestry, so as not to be charged with unfilial piety.
With the change of the times, it is difficult for people to understand this concept, they just feel that they should live a good life, this is their own life, and they do not need others to intervene, and they themselves feel the pressure of life, and they do not want their children to experience it again. Everyone has their own value in this social life, and we live for ourselves, not for others, and this is their concept today. <>
I think everybody has their own opinion on this, and we can't just point out the mistakes of any one of them.
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It may be that many young people do not know how to protect their bodies in life, and they do not pay attention to their diet, so this situation occurs.
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Because young people are busy with work and have a lot of financial pressure, few people are willing to have children.
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It may be that the financial pressure is relatively high, or it may be that the family conditions do not allow it, or it is not ready, so it is not necessary to have children.
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The living environment of women has always been in a depressed and even very unfriendly state. According to the latest survey, the employment rate of women who have one child has dropped significantly when they are employed, which is why many companies have distrust and wait-and-see attitude towards women who only have one child after the opening of the second or even third child, so that the employment rate of such women has declined.
Therefore, many young women are now highly skeptical when faced with fertility problems. In today's growing development, women's social status is gradually **, but all kinds of environments are still quite severe, after all, in marriage and family, women pay more, they have to pay more spirit and. Pressure, work-life balance, and even the time to conceive children also require women to have a certain degree of accommodation.
Therefore, many girls want to choose marriage, they are faced with losing their jobs, and even being unable to exert their strength at work, being guarded against and criticized by the company, and even being unable to hold important positions without giving birth to two children after a certain age, and even being dismissed This grim phenomenon makes girls lose trust in marriage, and they have to give up one of them for work, and even avoid having children, thinking that it is a stumbling block that affects their progress.
Although this kind of speech is more biased, many people do have this idea in their hearts, after all, a person's life is very long, and if he does not have a job and career of his own, it is difficult to achieve the sense of accomplishment he wants, and even in life, he will lose his family status because he cannot provide financial security. All in all, this society still has high requirements for women, so many young women do not want to have children, in addition to having a certain degree of spiritual independence and clear planning for the future, a large part of the reason is that they value work and career, and want to improve their work ability, rather than enclosing themselves in the family side.
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