The second marriage was looked down upon by the mother in law, and the husband did not support him,

in married life.

, two people can't get along, and many people will choose to divorce and devote themselves to a new marriage. The second marriage was looked down upon by the mother-in-law, and the husband did not support him, will you continue such a marriage? Let's talk about this topic together!

1. After experiencing a failed marriage, you must be more rational about your second marriage.

If a woman's first marriage fails, she should reflect on what her reason is, find a good reason, and then go to the second marriage, so that the chance of success will be greater, everyone gets married to live a better life, don't be blindly impulsive, so that you can have a happy life. Many women like to find rich and handsome people in their fourth marriage, but after experiencing a failed marriage, they find that what suits them is the best, and what is true to themselves is the most important, so the second marriage can generally last for a long time.

2. Don't care about your mother-in-law's vision, and work hard to manage your married life is the most important thing.

The thinking of the older generation is like this, thinking that divorced women will indeed have some price adjustments, we can't stop other people's ideas, the most important thing is that we must manage our married life, cherish this marriage, work hard to manage this marriage, let the mother-in-law take a look, and the second marriage of women needs to be cherished. If you are excellent yourself and manage your marriage properly, your mother-in-law will have no reason to look down on you. If in this marriage, you are always opposite to your mother-in-law, and your husband is filial to his mother-in-law, of course he will not support you, so to integrate yourself into this marriage, you must honor your mother-in-law in order to win your husband's heart.

Third, it is necessary to deal with it wellMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipand learn to empathize.

When mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along, we must learn to empathize, the thinking of the old and the thinking of young people are different, know how to empathize, many things will be solved, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become more harmonious.

Regarding "The second marriage is looked down upon by the mother-in-law, and the husband does not support him, will you continue such a marriage?" That's my point of view, what do you think? Welcome to the comment area to continue to leave a message.

Woman, you have to think that part of what you want in marriage? To have a baby? Then you can get a divorce after giving birth!

In order to know the pain and heat, you have a shoulder to rely on when you are tired? Can yours do it? Can't do it?

It's time to get a divorce! In order to raise children together, someone shares the financial pressure? divorced with a baby, he cannot pay less child support.

Right? Raising a child is actually difficult for those few years! Sometimes it's much more comfortable to be physically tired than mentally tired!

Mother-in-law can bear it if she looks down on her, but her husband doesn't support it, what is the use of such a marriage? A good marriage is one in which two people support each other and understand each other in order to be happy.

Of course not. Life is just a few decades, and even her husband doesn't support her. So what's the point of such a marriage? It's better to live on your own.

Won't continue. Why don't you have more contact with your mother-in-law before marriage? If you have more contact before marriage, you won't find out about it after marriage.

In this case, I will not continue, and if I continue, there will be no good results, and I will not get the happiness I want.

If this happens, I won't continue this marriage, because I have been isolated in this situation, and it makes no sense to continue.

This situation still exists, but it is not common, so you don't have to worry, but if the other party shows a disdainful attitude when you get along before marriage, you are advised to break up as soon as possible, because it is easy to be affected by this kind of in-law after marriage.

Weddings should be the most important moment for every couple, and when they get married, there's sweetness in the air, but that's not necessarily the case at a second wedding.

Although society has developed rapidly and people's thinking has changed dramatically, there are still some places that have been influenced by traditional Chinese concepts. They feel that a second marriage may not be a good thing for women.

Recently, a certain lady got married, but the wedding atmosphere was not as happy or romantic as she imagined, as you can see from the picture, the husband's family is unhappy because of her son's marriage, and the relatives in the house do not seem to be festive. During the wedding, when the mother-in-law gives the bride a red envelope, her face is full of reluctance and her expression is chilling.

The bride is also dissatisfied with the attitude of her in-laws, after all, the bride leaves her parents again, because of the failure of the first marriage, and the second marriage is both expected and fearful, and will worry about whether it will fail like the previous marriage. However, because the bride was married for the second time, she was not welcome at the wedding, and the atmosphere of the wedding was very awkward, which disappointed the bride. Should a second marriage be discriminated against?

With the progress of society, more and more couples will not choose to tolerate the mistakes made by their spouses as they did in the past, but divorce decisively and regain their happiness, which is also the reason why the divorce rate has been increasing in recent years.

Should these divorced women be discriminated against? The answer must be no. Divorce is very unfair to women, because men "love you", women give up everything to marry him, and then because of his "no love", women waste her youth in vain, and finally end in divorce.

After divorce, women have to pay more in order to reintegrate into this society. I hope that with the progress of society, the attitude towards divorced women will become fairer. Do you guys have any thoughts on this?

I don't think so, if you have a bad character, you may be looked down upon by your in-laws. Generally, girls who are married for the second time, if they do not have children, will be very popular with their in-laws.

I think there will definitely be, that's human nature! You will judge people like this when you are not familiar with it, but the good quality will not be revealed directly, it mainly depends on how you deal with it! If you're lazy and can't speak, soon the relationship will deteriorate!

If you don't care, and you're diligent and live well, that perception will disappear naturally. Live your life and don't care what others think.

It depends on what kind of person the in-laws are, but also depends on what kind of person they are, most of the in-laws are still very good, and they will not dislike their daughter-in-law for a second marriage.

I don't think so, because generally the second marriage is a second-married man, everyone is the same, and there is no question of who looks down on whom.

No, why is the second marriage looked down upon? The second marriage can only say that his vision is not good, and it does not mean anything else.

Not all situations can be generalized, it depends on whether the family of the person you are married to can accept you, and if you don't accept you, nothing is good.

No, what age is it, I don't think about it like this, second marriage is still very normal, as long as two people love each other.

Not necessarily, it depends on whether the in-laws can accept the second marriage, you have to make yourself better and strive to get their approval.

Generally speaking, a second marriage will be looked down upon by your in-laws, unless you are relatively good, or some in-laws have a better personality.

In fact, second marriage will not be looked down upon, the key is to see whether your personal ability is recognized by them.

Not necessarily, if your in-laws are good, they will not use these to measure your personality, you have to believe in yourself.

Summary. The father-in-law and mother-in-law of the second marriage did not let you get close, and now the current husband's child.

That is to say, if you are now in someone's house, you will be a stepmother, and your mother will not let you get close to the child, what does it mean? It's because you're afraid that your children will be co-opted by you, as if you don't see you as a family member in this family, and you haven't integrated into their family, that's the status quo.

My second-married parents-in-law didn't let me get close to my current husband's children.

The father-in-law and mother-in-law who are married in the second roll don't let you get close, and now the current husband's child. That is to say, if you are now in someone's house, you will be a stepmother, and your mother will not let you get close to the child, so what does it mean to be called? is afraid that the scumbag child will be co-opted by you, as if you are not regarded as a family member in this family, and you have not yet integrated into their family, this is the status quo.

But what about them persuading his son to divorce me?

That's right, it's still the truth I said, people may not recognize you and want to divorce you.

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If you don't respect each other, what else can you talk about love and marriage? The choice of both parties should be no regrets, and what happens in the next life is what the parties should pay attention to.

It's understandable that your wife is in a bad mood, but your mother is exaggerated enough, it's better for your daughter-in-law to smile at her if someone who has lived with him all her life will die, is he sincere to your father and you? How many daughters-in-law and old women are as close as mother and son, with a good temper, a friendly appearance, and a bad temper, come in person, if you don't believe it, you are trying to take a wife! As long as your wife is good to you and the children, lives with you with peace of mind, takes care of the children, and does not get along with your mother, then it depends on the will of God.

After saying that, your daughter-in-law gave birth to your family, gave birth to a child, confinement, she should take care of her, or you should discuss, the family has money, and you are giving birth to a child, you can hire a nanny, your mother doesn't have to serve your wife, but you are in a hurry to give birth at this juncture, isn't it just a lot of things??? Whose face will be good???

In a modern family, whoever earns more money for the family will speak loudly, you should grit your teeth now and earn money, and when you have money in the future, your wife and your mother, in front of you, all whisper, won't you be pure???

Hello, I think your husband must be the kind of man who is careful, for this kind of man, the best thing you can do is to be the air, and now he has children, just turn a blind eye to live.

He promised you a business before, but it was normal that it didn't materialize, and there was no truth in a man's mouth.

He said you haven't bought a gift for his parents, you can buy this, and see what else he can say after you buy it.

Careful-eyed man. Don't hold your breath to yourself, chat with friends.

Name the reason for being disrespectful?

There are no special circumstances, there is no respect for the other person's mother, and the personality is problematic.

To address the root cause, the cause of disrespect.

I guess I'm afraid you're upset!

Or maybe he has other ideas, and he doesn't know what to do.

Or he doesn't understand or is afraid of dragging you down, so he doesn't dare to tell you.

No matter how you say it, it's also an old man, you listen to it more when you're young, and you'll regret it later.

It's just a habit of symphony.

I never call my husband my husband, I just call my name.

It's not about feelings.

Psychological collapse, family collapse, family ruin, one piece is finished!

Such a person chooses to divorce.

Why stay with him?

You can totally get a job.

And then feed yourself.

Don't live with him, she's just a shell lying on the pig's belly,

It's best to live alone and stay away from your in-laws' house.

You can't always find fault with others, but also look at yourself.

Well, normal, that's generally the case.

It's okay, either ignore her or don't live with your mother-in-law.