After falling out of love, how did you get through?

Updated on society 2024-08-08
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Many girls may choose to cry to death after falling out of love, as if the sky is about to fall, but in fact, I don't think it's necessary. The so-called broken love actually means that the relationship between the boy and the girl has been announced, which is not necessarily your loss, it may be a very valuable asset in your life, so if we can look at this problem from a different angle, your mood may be much better. Or you can think about it this way, if a person like me is so good, the other party doesn't know how to cherish it, then this is actually a loss for the other party.

    Of course, whether it is a boy or a girl, the mood will definitely be particularly depressed after falling out of love, there is no way to avoid this, the deeper the love, the worse the mood will be after the breakup. After the trial, the first thing we need to do is to quickly get out of the last failed relationship, but we must use the right way to get out. For example, some people will put their energy into their work and make themselves very busy, which is not advisable.

    I think that after falling out of love, we first have to calm our minds, we can find good friends to talk to when we are uncomfortable, and sometimes release the feeling of being particularly aggrieved in our hearts, and the whole person will feel a lot better. You can ask a few friends to go out and play, so that you can better relax your mood. Of course, if it is a girl, we can also go out to consume, for girls, consumption can actually make their mood better.

    And most boys may be relatively strong after falling out of love, at least some boys don't see any clues on the surface. But in fact, I think there is no need for boys to hide after falling out of love, let alone hold it, and they still have to release it when it is time to release it. Sometimes that emotion is released, and it will naturally get better, and after falling out of love, I think I can look forward to the future more and not always live in the pain of the past.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    After falling out of love, I feel that I can slowly fade the last relationship through time. In fact, it can also be done by putting yourself in a very busy state. When I am very busy every day, I don't have time to think about falling out of love.

    After a long time, I became numb, and I forgot about it. You can also put yourself in a state of joy and excitement every day. When you are very happy and excited, you will forget about the painful thing of falling out of love.

    After I broke out of love, I used self-hypnosis to survive.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Of course, you will count each other's shortcomings, and then tell yourself that the two of you are really inappropriate, and the other party really doesn't love you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After falling out of love, my heart must be very sad and very sad, but I think the best way is to directly and slowly forget, or let my mind give myself a psychological hint, and then slowly forget, only in this way can I get through such a difficult stage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Keep yourself busy and don't give yourself a moment to think about sadness. Falling out of love is the process of leaving the person you love, and also leaving a habit, in which you will be unable to extricate yourself if you have been immersed in emotions. So keep yourself busy to avoid sinking, but it also varies from person to person, and some people can choose to talk to friends.

    Pouring it out can alleviate grief.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The first I will distract myself, the second I will go out and travel, the third I will listen to **, the fourth I will play games to relax, and the fifth I will drink with my friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Anyway, I found a lot of things to do for myself during the period of falling out of love, and I was busy every day, and I didn't have time to think about those unhappy things.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My breakup is very easy, just get through it, probably because I haven't been in love for a long time, I didn't feel very sad after falling out of love, but I breathed a sigh of relief, when you fell out of love, persuade yourself to live your life well, don't think about anything else.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, I'm planning a trip that says go. Go see the scenery you haven't seen before, meet more interesting people, make close friends, and find what you really want. Keep yourself busy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's all time consumed. There is no good way. You can only change yourself at any time. Let yourself get out of it. Time is the best approach. Only time can make you forget the sadness of the past.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After falling out of love, first get out of the familiar circle, look at the outside world, learn something that interests you, and slowly move towards your own life, don't think about your ex, and slowly forget.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After falling out of love, if it is too uncomfortable, you can make yourself busy, work more, and you will forget about the sadness, and after a long time, it will pass.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think the best way to do this is to divert my attention and try to keep myself busy, so that I don't have time to think about it so much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After falling out of love, my friends will accompany me, and I will often hang out with my friends to relax my mood, and I will get through it over time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The best way to fall out of love is not to dwell on the past, the next new relationship, and hope that you can come out of it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I usually work out and vent my inner unhappiness through exercise.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hang out with friends, travel, get involved in work, and distract yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'll eat a lot of food, I'll get a good night's sleep, it's a good way to do it, and it's also a good way to relieve my stress.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will go out to travel at this time, and when I travel, I will see a different version of myself, and it will make me have a big change in my mood.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you are in love, when you are immersed in the past and pain and can't extricate yourself, this time is the hardest.

    You will understand that loving someone can make you so vulnerable. You want to empty yourself, but you feel that life is meaningless.

    You don't want to work hard because you can't ask for it. You don't want to be in a crowd anymore because you feel like no one understands your loneliness. Suddenly you feel that man is standing between heaven and earth, and that he is so lacking in his admiration.

    While you are confused, you also start to think about your own life. Maybe it's providence that is missed. Who can predict what kind of life they will encounter in the future?

    In this case, why not let yourself survive the sadness, get out of the loneliness, and be brave to be yourself.

    If you spend time thinking about people who don't like you, you will have less time to love people who like you. If you spend time thinking about the things that make you unhappy, you will have less time to experience the things that make you happy. Between love, the joy of the two is the highest ideal, and how many people keep the so-called love and die alone.

    So when you understand that there is no such thing as perfection in life, you will have less attachment to loss. If you can't grasp the love, it's better to learn to let go. Learning to love yourself is perhaps more important than anything else.

    When you understand this, falling out of love will no longer be so painful for you.

    Falling out of love is also an experience and an experience for you. Everyone always has to go through countless lonely and difficult nights before they understand that feelings need fate. Pain and loss, like laughter and applause, are indispensable on the road of life.

    When you understand this, you will become more at ease.

    Once you think about it, the experience won't be a big deal for you.

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