What is the point of living in pain? Which is more painful, painful living or painful dying?

Life is short, why be so inferior? Be optimistic and find something happy to make your life meaningful.

Survive. I don't have to say this, the first problem that people have to solve in life is survival, and survival has become difficult, so what is the ideal. Especially at the moment, it is not easy for us ordinary people to survive just by surviving, three meals a day, people are in love, life is in love, and there is no money for that.

Not to mention that if you get married and have children, the pressure of survival will be doubled. It's really a problem, survival is a problem, you talk to me about ideals?

02 Own resources and capabilities.

These conditions are directly related to how easy it is for us to achieve our ideals. People are born different, wise or dull; or this or that character; or tall and handsome (white rich and beautiful) or short and poor (black and poor and ugly); Or the emperor or the non-chief.

Especially in this era of looking at face and money, the quality of these conditions is accelerating the distance between each other, and the same degree of effort has very different gains.

03 The bond between family and society.

There are old people, there are small ones, there is a small living treasure in the middle, and there is a group of food grabbers outside. At home, you should take care of your family's daily life, and when you are away, you must protect yourself from harm. All kinds of constraints and risks in the family and society require us to spend a lot of time and energy to solve, and invisibly make us far from our ideals.

It's even more uncomfortable to live in pain, but this kind of talk is too decadent, and I really don't approve of this kind of thinking and consciousness.

In fact, in the real world, it is not easy for anyone to live, it will not be easy for anyone to live, and there will be things to live when you live. So, there's really no need for us to say that kind of thing often.

Although, we do not deny that there are indeed people in this world who are more painful than dead. However, this is not a universal phenomenon, and it may even be a rare occurrence. Therefore, there is no need for us to magnify this situation, let alone publicize this kind of thing.

It's better to die than to live.

From this point of view, how many people in this world will think that they are more painful to live than to die, and it is better to live than to die? There are really not a few, because people who really feel that they are living extremely painful and that life is worse than death may have long since disappeared, and they have already gone and returned early and ended on their own.

It is the instinct of animals to live, and if a person is not even afraid of death, then you can succeed in whatever you do. There are many unsatisfactory things in life, there are many things that you don't want to do but can't not do, this is responsibility, and there are many things you want to do but can't do, which is called fate. If you get used to it, you will mature, and you will have no emotions.