How to learn to change the indecisive character of people and things?

People grow up in failure from time to time, and indecisive people must first learn to think independently, which is very important, so that after you fail in doing something, your brain will automatically absorb experience, hehe, over time, you will form a set of people's ways of doing things, change the flaws in your temperament, remember to think independently, of course, listening to good opinions is also a good way, but your mind must have its own criteria, that is, to know what is right and what is wrong, come in and walk more, increase knowledge, and experience in life, and the disposal effect will be handy You must do well in the things entrusted to you by others, no matter how small, so that your pride will gradually increase, and your experience and decision-making will increase your ability to think independently, and I wish you all victories.

You will be indecisive about people and things, because you don't think about the best for people or things, and when you think about the best conclusions, and it is right, you should be firm in your opinion. If you want to think about doing the best you can, you can't be too anxious, for people, you have to slowly discover their personality as a person, when they are talking to others you can also hear how much they are, plus you get along with them, you have to learn to summarize what kind of people they are, and then how to treat them. For things, you just have to listen to other people's opinions, communicate with people more, absorb the essence, and get rid of the dross.

I believe that you will be much better like this.

You're a Libra, right? Usually pay more attention to other people's attitudes towards people and things, cultivate your own decision-making ability, try to make decisions quickly, and then don't regret it afterwards, it's okay to think too much, but don't think too much about irrelevance, I'm also very indecisive, and now it's changing.

"Indecisiveness" is also a good personality, as long as you grasp the degree, it's OK, go open your heart, and break it generously, you will find that indecisive decisions can also be so decisive, clean and .........Come on! There will always be a solution to the problem.

When it comes to making your own decisions, you can refer to the opinions of others. But be sure to make up your own mind. Also, be responsible for your own choices. Don't think that the result is not good, and just pass the buck.

When you encounter problems in life, you must first come up with a set of plans by yourself, and then show your own plan to your friends who want to be numbered, and ask him to help you make a suggestion or something. After that, you can synthesize your and your friends' plans and finally decide to do it.

To use a bad word is called indecision, on the contrary it is called thoughtfulness.

Push him with something.

First of all, I think you should experience more things, try more, simple questions, you won't hesitate, like I ask you 1+1=? You can answer without hesitation, because you are sure that your experience will allow you to have a standard for judging and not hesitating.

Secondly, the retreat makes you hesitate For example, children from superior families will hesitate to take the college entrance examination or develop in other directions when their grades are high or low, and children in the ravines and ravines have only one way out, if you have no way out when you have to make a choice, you will naturally make a decisive choice Just like when deciding what to eat today, if you are not hungry or have nothing you particularly want to eat, you will wander between multiple choices, and when you almost starve to death, will you hesitate? You've heard the story of the shipwreck.

To sum up, I think that to be decisive, you should start from two aspects.

1.Set reasonable judgment criteria (based on rich life experience) and make judgments directly based on the criteria when problems arise.

The so-called decisiveness, that is, in a short period of time, can make a decision in the right direction, and there is no sense of gain or loss, you have to participate in the project of the decisive time period, such as shooting, battlefield decisions also need such a character, if you have a clear sense of gain and loss in the development of things, you will lose what you know, you are almost.

Think about the worst possible outcome of what you want to do, and if you can afford it, do it boldly!

First of all, you should enrich your personal experience. If the choice of decisiveness is wrong, that decisiveness is harmful.

Secondly, learn to listen to your inner voice, don't care what others say or think, and never lose yourself.

As long as you do these two things, the rest is not a problem, and then you already know that you should do what you should do, and you will not do what you should not do.

Indecisiveness means that you are cautious and decisive to see what things are, and indecision also depends on what things you are, and the most important thing is your ability to judge things. The above is my personal opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you.

When the heart is dead, the decisions you make will not be interfered with by the outside world.

Decisiveness is a beauty of life. In fact, everything in the world has its own laws, which cannot be violated just like spring and autumn. A wise man goes with the flow of wealth, can make the tide of desire rise and fall, and never offside; Ignorant people have a strong wildness towards wealth, always trying to let the tide of desire only rise and fall, and never sober up.

People with these two mentalities have to pick fruits from the tree of life, and those who have a degree may taste more sweetness of success, and those who are offside will taste some bitterness that is difficult to swallow.

When you have more contact with people, you should give yourself more time to think.

It's not a good thing to be thoughtful.