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Misunderstanding everyone will have, people who believe in you will believe you even if you don't say it, if you don't believe it, even if you say it, he feels that you are covering up something, it may be that there is a misunderstanding, you see for yourself, who should explain, who should not explain, don't you feel better if you think about yourself, it's the same thing, right, don't always wronged yourself, for those who don't believe in you, you won't believe anything, what are you still thinking about sadly, but those who really have misunderstandings, there is no way, He misunderstood you and it's not your fault, what are you bothered about, and when you know what's going on, he will feel guilty, too, I'm a little uncomfortable, it's okay, just learn to forget it slowly, it's impossible to say that I don't want to worry about it, occasionally a little thing and a little action will be remembered, so I will slowly learn to forget, don't think about it, I will slowly forget it after a long time, think about happy things, think about the future, don't think about the past or something, after all, it's all in the past It's all gone, don't think about it if it's not a good memory. That way, I'll feel better.

I don't like to explain. If it's something I didn't do, what else is the explanation? Those who believe in me will naturally believe it, and those who don't believe it will be superfluous to explain.

It's going to be wronged, but we haven't done anything wrong, we should be open, otherwise even if you don't do it, others will doubt what you do and be happy.

In fact, not explaining is the best option.

It was when I was in junior high school, and the feeling of being wronged was really uncomfortable, unspeakably uncomfortable, really uncomfortable, very uncomfortable, very ......uncomfortable

That day, as soon as I walked through the door of the classroom, I heard someone shouting at me, "Yin Siyi! Didn't you steal my pen!

Did I steal someone else's pen? Why should I steal someone else's pen? When did I steal someone else's pen?

My anger came out of nowhere: "You are talking nonsense, blood spurts in!" "Wasn't it you on duty yesterday!

Little Red said to me angrily! "Yes, shou, is it that the duty (sweeping) is stealing your pen? ”

At this time, Xiao Ming told me about the matter, it turned out that Xiaohong put the pen on the bench after school yesterday, because I was on duty yesterday, and the pen was gone early this morning, so everyone guessed that I stole Xiaohong's pen! After I heard this, I became even more angry: "Xiaohong, I'll tell you!"

The pen really wasn't my hand! I said it out loud to her, word by word! After saying that, I sat down in my seat, took out my textbook, and suddenly felt that everyone was casting distrustful glances at me.

So what proof do you have that the pen is not yours? "And what proof do you have that I stole the pen?" I also said politely.

The classmates followed the coaxing, saying that they would take it if they said it, and they still refused to admit it!

Suddenly, I lay on the table, but tears fell uncontrollably. "What are you crying about? Just admit it!

That is, you said that you didn't take it, so why are you crying? "Yes, yes, or you don't cry!" ”…The students were talking.

You deceive people so much, have I done anything wrong! Don't I even have the right to cry? Why do you treat me like this......"I roared loudly!

The classmates were very scared when they saw me like this, and at this time, Xiaohong spoke: "What are you crying about, can crying solve the problem?" If you have the ability, let me turn over your school bag!

Turn over, and the body is not afraid of the shadow! "There's no ...... about thatThat's no ......Maybe it's in your house! "You are too much of a bully, I warn you, you don't make trouble!

I've always done things above board, and I've never done anything before! ”

I lay on the table and cried ......Xiaolan, who has always been unknown, couldn't stand it anymore, so she simply played a round and said, "Forget it, Xiaohong will look for it again!" Saying that, let's help Xiaohong find ......"Found it, found it!

It turned out that Xiaohong's pen was put into the podium table by Xiaohua, who was on duty with me! Because the teacher said that the tabletop should be cleaned, and Xiaohua, the only one who could testify for me, was sick.

Everyone went back to their seats as if nothing had happened, and I felt like nothing had happened, but did I really feel good?

The feeling of being wronged is really unspeakably uncomfortable, and the tears that flow to the corners of your mouth are real ......It's really salty, it's salty, it's salty......

Living in society, people will encounter all kinds of people and things, and sometimes they will inevitably have misunderstandings, and even be wronged or treated unfairly. In such a situation, it is natural to feel angry, but not on the spur of the moment.

Acting recklessly is not good for others or yourself, and it is not conducive to clarifying the facts. The right thing to do is to try to set the record straight, and gossip is self-defeating. Everything must be learned to be treated cold rather than hot, and you can't be rash. Use reason to regulate and control your emotions.

Secondly, you must learn to get along with people with different temperaments. In life, we will meet people with different personalities, and if we want to get along with the people around us, we must learn to interact with people with different views and personalities, and seek common ground while reserving differences. In group life, we should care for each other, and do not affect the study and rest of others because of our own actions.

Learn to care for others everywhere and be kind to others.

Finally, "Understanding is the sunshine of friendship, and jealousy is the frost of friendship." When we find that others are wrong, we should not "ignore and not let others", but "be forgiving and forgiving". Tolerance and understanding are human virtues and a noble spiritual realm.

Don't hurt others easily, when you are hurt by others, learn to forgive, don't be calculating, be stubborn, tooth for tooth, remember one thing: "The person who hurts others is the most unfortunate person in the world!" "If someone else hurts him, he will take revenge with a hateful heart, just like holding a cactus in his hand, stabbing others and stabbing himself at the same time, and both will lose.

Get along with others, learn respect, tolerance, and understanding, and you will have more and more friends; Narrow-minded and jealous people have a hard time having real friends.

There are too many misunderstandings and hurts in life, as long as you have a tolerant heart, you will find that the world is real, simple and beautiful!

Smile more, be more tolerant, misunderstand less, complain less, and our lives will be full of sunshine, warmth and harmony.