Reality tests true love, where to go?

Updated on society 2024-08-01
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    I think you should respect your parents' opinions, they are the only people in the world who will not harm you, you are a bridge between them, you must play your role well, use some good methods to communicate with them, in fact, the main thing is your boyfriend's future, you have to put some pressure on him, as long as there is a success, I am not afraid that my parents will not agree to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    If you really love him, how can you care so much?

    Two people who really like it are sweet even if they are bitter together.

    Eating dragon meat with people you don't like also doesn't taste good.

    There are not so many realistic limitations in the face of love.

    At this time, you should put aside all the external pressure and see clearly whether you really like him, whether he really loves you and is really good to you, as long as you really love each other, how can it be difficult for you in the future! Love is unlimited!

    My dear, you have to think clearly, if you make a mistake this step, you may lose the person who loves you the most in your life!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Don't doubt, persevere, prove that you are right with facts, touch your parents with true love, and believe in your love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Bread and love, you choose the same to put Life is a little cruel sometimes.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You need your own opinion.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In love, if two people consume each other, it means that the two of you can't go to the end. Maybe before they are together, everyone has their own goals, they also have their own ideals, they know clearly what they want, but after being with each other, the two people become each other's consumption, in the process of two people being together, more often for eating, drinking and having fun, which will make them more and more unable to find their original selves, and when the two of them reach the age when they should get married, they will slowly find that they have no capital.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think that love without an economic foundation will not stand the test the most, because there is no way for love to stay away from bread, and if you lose bread, then you will definitely quarrel because of this.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is a more hypocritical love, where two people have no real feelings for each other, and they have no common language together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, most of the love can't stand the test of reality, and many of the so-called things that have withstood it are just not big enough.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love can be great, it can be strong, but it's also the most indurable thing in the world, but over the years, I've found that love that doesn't stand the test is sad, it's not beautiful, and it's something you should give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love can not stand the test of reality, that is for some people, maybe in the rhythm of modern life, some people's concept of love, the environment in which the concept of different may be very different, but for the vast majority of people, the concept in everyone's heart is also the concept of love produced by everyone's family, there are values, love concept, psychological concept, a variety of concepts that are conducive to change everyone's understanding of love is different, although love is a beautiful thing, It is also necessary to plan a beautiful life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's up to you to look at this from what angle.

    Not everything is worth testing.

    You use money to tempt people who earn a few thousand a month.

    You test a wounded man with a beautiful woman.

    You use your integrity to test someone who doesn't care.

    The result of temptation is not what you really want.

    It's not that you're tempting in the wrong way, it's that there are things you can't tempt.

    Whoever you tempts with a lie, you will get a lie.

    Whether love can stand the test of reality depends on the attitude of two people to life together.

    And not love itself. Best wishes

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    On the other hand, it really can't stand the test, and when there is a little setback, they will go their separate ways. The reality is like this, who told you not to work hard yourself?

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not that feelings really can't stand the test. It's just that many people are afraid of getting hurt now. It doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl

    So I always feel that I have been left out and give up first. It's very selfish. Because sometimes they don't know how to love.

    Therefore, when dating, the other party sometimes feels left out. It even feels like he doesn't love himself anymore. In fact, this is not the case many times.

    It's the feelings that are very important. It's important for anyone. But there are a few young boys nowadays who are responsible boys. Girls need to recognize clearly. Choose a boy who loves himself. Definitely the wisest.

    And what about the boys. I like to have a girlfriend. But I never like to be responsible. In the end, you may really feel that you love each other. I feel that I can't give up happiness for the other party. It seems great to do so. In fact, this is a sign of irresponsibility.

    You shouldn't forget the past. Why don't you think about the bright side?

    This gives you enough experience when it comes time to find a better boyfriend.

    Relationships don't need to be genuine to get along for a long time. When dating, you need to always think about the other person.

    I don't know if you're male or female. I really don't know how to comfort you. This is my experience, don't be discouraged.

    Those who have passed do not belong to you. But that's their loss, too. The true love of a person's life.

    will appear to you in a special way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love can't stand hurt, and it can't stand waiting

    Time will dilute everything.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The distance is the exam paper of righteous indignation.

    Test the vows of the appointment.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's that this society is too weak, and I say it's also painful!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    A zodiac sign that love can't stand the test! No matter how deep the feelings are, they lose to the pressure of reality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes if you face reality in the first place. Then you don't have to worry about how cruel the reality of the future is, and plan for the worst to fall in love. Then you can withstand it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's hard, it's hard We tend to think too much about love.

    There's not much romance in really living a life.

    Reality of life can have nothing to do with love.

    The person who suits him doesn't necessarily love him much.

    It's just that he must hate suiting himself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on what the test is! Most of them can!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because love is too materialistic now, when two people first started together, they completely valued each other's families, and few people would be together because of love. Even if it is because of love at the beginning, it will be defeated by material conditions in the end.

    Now love is more realistic, both people are working hard in their own workplaces, if they see someone better than their other half, they will dislike their other half, and choose that person to be with themselves. Now everyone is pursuing a more perfect other half, so they are always looking for a better person, and they will be in a hot and cold state for their other half, which will make the love between two people end.

    There is a lot of love now, and if you want to get married, the material conditions must be very rich, which makes many people's families unable to afford it. Because there were a lot of disputes over this matter, the woman's parents did not want their children to marry into each other's family for no reason, so this incident will separate many people who love each other from now on.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When many young people fall in love, they often rely on their own feelings and think that they love that person very much, so they choose to be with him, but they don't consider whether the other party is really suitable for living with them for a lifetime. Therefore, their love will be relatively fragile, and they will not be able to withstand the test of wind and waves, after all, their own love is a little naïve. And the two people are not very mature in their thinking, and they may be unwilling to accommodate each other when facing some problems.

    Although money is not omnipotent, but we live in society, it is impossible to live without money, because if we want to survive normally, we must have enough nutrition, then we need a certain consumption problem, and we must face the problem of money.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    First, because their feelings themselves are not strong enough and are easily influenced by money and material things, once they lose the maintenance of these two conditions, or someone with better conditions appears, their feelings are easy to contradict and conflict, and their feelings will slowly break down.

    Second, because in their hearts, love is far less important than life. Sometimes, love is not so pure in people's hearts, and there are many complex feelings in between. Love will slowly turn into affection, marriage, and finally into the life of two people.

    However, even if they love each other again, they can't withstand the destruction of their feelings by life. That's why sometimes, two people obviously love each other, but in the end they end up breaking up or getting divorced. Falling in love is not the same as married life, love is only temporary, but marriage is a major event in a person's life, not rash and reckless, many people get married just to ensure their future life, so there will be so many people's love is broken up by reality.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's not that love can't stand the test of reality, it's because some people don't want to face reality.

    Love and reality are two different things, in our lives, if we don't want to get married, it is very simple to get love. If you want to get married, you have to face reality and consider some realistic factors.

    Many people actually just want to fall in love and want to be comfortable. They are simply not willing to take responsibility for love, and they don't want to bend their backs and compromise with this society for the sake of reality. This is actually out of their own selfishness, not because love can't stand the test of reality.

    We don't need to test love with reality at all, real love is still strong no matter what we face. It's only because people are selfish that love is so fragile.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because love is originally spiritual, the reason why two people are together is that they feel that each other is very good, and I am very happy with him. When we first started together, the picture was a happy one. And when the two of them were together at the beginning, they were in love.

    At this time, love will make you automatically ignore any shortcomings in the other person, including his financial situation.

    But as you get along and the love is not as strong as it was at the beginning, you will gradually notice the other person's shortcomings, and you will start to be very critical of him. If you don't take good care of the love between you during this period, then slowly, the shortcomings will expand, you will start to think that he is not motivated and incompetent, he will think that you are not considerate enough, and finally the two of you will break up.

    In fact, love will slowly turn into family affection in the end, and two people will slowly run in and change and improve themselves in the process of getting along. The two of them support each other in the wind and rain, and they have fun and enjoy hardships together. You are inseparable from each other, and at this time, love has slowly turned into family affection.

    In the end, the two of them will go on hand in hand.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because the current society is very realistic, talking about money hurts feelings, but not talking about money is not good, money is reality in this society, there is nothing without money, in the most ordinary words, there is no money to eat a meal and do not know where to squat how to live, let alone talk about whether life is good or not.

    If a man can't even give the life that the object wants, love is just a joke to talk about, can he be full of love every day? It's not the reality of any person, but the current living environment that makes people have to become such a life concept. In particular, women are becoming more and more dominant in society, and they are gradually unable to meet the ordinary living environment, and they must be spiritually satisfied while being materially satisfied, which adds a lot of pressure on men's lives, and once they can't maintain a normal life, this love will break down.

    In addition to money, there are also some problems in reality, such as the man's parents don't like the woman, or the woman's parents have opinions on the man, as a child in order to follow their parents to be proud, they can only end the relationship on the grounds of filial piety, this is no way, only continuous efforts, for the life they want, for the relationship they want to keep in order to have no regrets.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are also some girls who are money worshippers, there are not many fools in this society now, no one wants to live with a poor ghost for the rest of their lives, they all want to live a rich and happy life, so maybe the girl's boyfriend bought her everything in the process of falling in love, but when it came to marriage, she really couldn't afford a house and a car, and the girl proposed to break up.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It can only be said that the current society is too realistic, can money solve everything? If you don't have money, it's really hard to move an inch, and you have to spend money every day when you wake up. Therefore, in beautiful love, it is vulnerable in the face of reality.

    True love is also there, right, but it's very rare, I don't know if you've seen the pony attack that the Northeast man filmed? There are a lot of them who are side-facing their girlfriends, and almost none of them have passed. A girl can betray her lover for money.

    Of course, it is really not okay to have no money in this society now, and girls are very vain, so love is nothing in front of money.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love is undoubtedly beautiful. But many girls in love like to test each other, but often true love can't stand the test of reality.

    In order to test their boyfriends, many girls will choose to let their girlfriends test their boyfriends with beauties, if the other party chooses to refuse, they think that they are choosing a righteous gentleman, but if the other party splits their legs, then, basically the two will end, but often in fact, true love can not stand the test and temptation.

    I remember reading a story before, which probably tells like this, a woman is about to get married to her boyfriend, but suddenly she wants to test the other party, so she takes advantage of the other party's business trip to test the other party. The woman first pretended to be a young lady, and then called her boyfriend to ask if the other party needed service, but she didn't expect the other party to say yes, so the woman felt that her boyfriend was not a good person, but the actual situation was that the boyfriend here heard his girlfriend's voice, thinking that the other party was hiding from himself and doing such a business, and thought that he didn't know.

    The ending of two people can be imagined, so don't easily test a person in love, because people's hearts really can't withstand temptation, if the other party knows that you are testing him, what kind of mood should you have? And how should I face you in the future? And after tempting things, the other party will inevitably have a shadow in his heart, and when he encounters things again, he must be wondering if you are tempting again, so this crack may always exist in the other party's heart.

    If you want to live happily, then don't test each other casually, two people living together need to have trust as the foundation, otherwise it will not go far.

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