What are the reasons to have children? What are the reasons to have a baby?

It annoys you, worries you, makes you happy, surprises you, makes you experience your childhood again, gives you a reason to buy toys that you once couldn't ask for, makes you strong in times of pain, calms down in crises, lets you see yourself in childhood, sees his bravery, his curiosity, his crampedness, and his uneasiness, so as to better understand yourself and accept yourself.

It's TA that gives you something to look forward to in the future!

That's the reason to have a baby!

Parents, I just want Hu Ran to see your happiness as soon as possible, but the decision is still in your own hands.

Having a child is a matter for both husband and wife, and the child is their own, so I guess.

If neither of them is ready to be parents, the repeated urging of their parents can only become a burden for both of them.

You have to take on the responsibilities of parenthood and carry the life of your children.

Happiness is indeed the reason for having children, it is born out of love, not pressure from society.

Let each other have a crystallization of love.

A colleague, before getting married, she kept saying that she didn't want to have children and wanted to be a dink. But after getting married, although her husband also agreed with Dink, she changed her mind and wanted to have children.

For this kind of conversion, she often said that she didn't want to give birth at first, because she knew very well that having a child was not only about pregnancy in October, but also the pain of childbirth, the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and countless nights when there was no way to sleep well, which was more likely to delay her career and affect her body.

When having a child affects a woman so much, so at first she refused, she felt that it was not worth it.

But when she met her husband and married each other, as she really loved him, she was willing to bear all that, always inexplicably excited, and wanted to have a child belonging to each other.

Women are actually like this, if you don't love a man, then you don't want to give birth, when you do, you will instinctively be willing.

For you, the child has each other's blood in his body, and it is the other's surname, which is the proof of love and the continuation of each other's love, and you will have a full sense of accomplishment in this regard, as if love has been eternally commemorated, and everything is complete.

There is a saying in China, raising children to prevent old age, the reason why we have children is to wait for us to be old, someone to take care of ourselves. However, with the development of the times, people's economic level has also been greatly improved, many people have a pension after retirement, or have accumulated enough wealth through hard work when they are young to ensure their retirement life, and there is no need to rely on children to support the elderly. Hence the emergence of more and more dink couples, who think:

We don't rely on children to support our old age, so what's the point of having children? You must know that the cost of raising a child is too high now, and it is not easy to bring up a child, and parents have to help their children buy a car and a house, get married and have children, and even it is difficult to have their own free time after they are old, and they have to help their children take care of the baby. The concept of raising children to prevent old age is getting weaker and weaker, and many young couples can't figure out why they want to have children.

When I was watching a variety show recently, the host of the show raised this question, I don't want to get married before I get married, and I don't want children after I get married, because I don't understand what the meaning of having children is. Spending money and having children is a very troublesome thing that will bring a lot of troubles to your life, which can be completely avoided, so you don't want to, because children disrupt your normal life. The thoughts of this show host are naturally also the thoughts of many young couples, they don't know why they want to have children, is it just to pass on the lineage?

If it is to have a child for the sake of having a child, what is the meaning of marriage? Regarding the host's question, Xiang Huaqiang's wife Chen Lan gave this answer: When I am getting old day by day, but my youth continues in the child, he has grown up, so my time has not disappeared, and many people will ask where has the time gone?

I saw it in children. Xiang Tai, who is in his 60s, is the only one among the guests of the show who is ready to be a mother-in-law, and because he is older, he has experienced a lot of things, so he sees things very clearly, and people live well. It is everyone's freedom to have children or not, but if once you decide to have children, it is best for couples to make a careful decision after thinking clearly, once you become parents, the responsibility becomes more important, and two children do need more energy to complete the work in a day.

Some people say that children are the continuation of each of our lives, and when we leave this world, there is still our blood in the world, and there are still people who remember the days when we were alive, you grow up with him, and he grows old with you, which can also be said to be the happiest thing in the world.

Why have a baby? The most common saying is that raising children to prevent old age. If you give birth to a child and raise a child, just for the sake of your old age, and when you pay for your child, you always think about whether you will repay it in the future, then it doesn't matter if you love, in the end it is all for yourself, and raising it is actually for yourself.

Such parents can't give their children unconditional love, and often intentionally or unintentionally give their children a sense of indebtedness to their parents, unable to truly become themselves, and eventually become their parents' crutches to support and continue their parents' lives.

I believe that having a child should come out of love. The first is that parents love each other. The initial starting point of life should be love, because of love to come together, not the right family, nor the age of the general, is the real love that must not be him (her), because of love, the two of them in this life is not enough to express this love, so they choose to give birth to a new life together.

Children are just an expression of parental love, and nothing else. A child who grows up in such an unconditional loving family naturally knows how to love his or her future lover, his or her future child, and his or her parents. Everything comes naturally.

What about children who grow up in a home without love? They may doubt everything, and they can't afford to ask about the origin of their lives. If parents don't love each other, or don't love each other enough, why have children?

Is it the product of instinctive mating of animals? Or is it to provide for oneself? No matter what, it can't resist scrutiny.

If the reason for existence is not sufficient, then when rushing forward, there will be no enough confidence, and it will be easy to fall into confusion, because the heart is empty, and there is a lack of something to be sure of.

If the parents don't love each other or don't love each other enough, they realize it later and choose to divorce, which can be regarded as being responsible for their children. If you accept the reality and accept your fate, then you will go down, and it is acceptable to be cautious. The most terrible thing is that he obviously hates to death, and he can't get married, and his children are born one after another.

How to look down on the other half every day, and even complain to the child. asked him why he didn't get a divorce, and he said it was for the sake of the children. Such a number of respectful parents rent or the most hateful.