What is a success in a person s life, and what is success in life?

So what does success look like? Success can be broken down into two parts: how you see yourself; What others think of you. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke said, your success, self-crowning.

24-year-old Xu Jia just felt a pity when she failed the graduate school entrance examination, and there was no other emotion. But two months later, in the circle of friends, I found that her former classmate had posted a message that had successfully landed on the shore. In just a moment, tears welled up in her eyes.

This circle of friends hit her deadly, and she suddenly realized that everyone seemed to be successful, and compared to everyone else, she was a waste.

Some people were admitted to graduate school, some people earned tens of thousands of dollars a month, and some people had cars and houses, but she didn't even have a job.

She didn't have any strengths, she didn't have any skills, she hadn't even done a job.

She always felt that she had nothing, that there was no one in this world who failed more than her.

She sometimes wonders why she wasn't born in a big city like Beijing and Shanghai, and then has her own house there, and she can earn five or six thousand a month with just one job.

She always thinks about other people's lives very well, especially every time she sees those glamorous people sharing all kinds of lives in social software, she will be imperceptibly influenced by those **, and always think that people all over the world are living a rich and free life, so she feels that there is no worse person than her.

For her, she thinks that having money, power, a car and a house is success, but is this really the case?

There can be many kinds of success, and material success is just one of them.

Some people have been poor all their lives, but they still silently dedicate their lives to helping others, and then they are respected and praised by everyone, isn't this a success?

Some people have a dull life, just earn money to support their families, and they are not rich and rich, but they still support a family, isn't this a success?

Some people have a hard life, but they never give up, and they are still living tenacity.

In my opinion, there is no definition of success, and the success achieved is different for each person. Towards the goal, even if you do nothing in your life, as long as this is what you want, then you are successful.

It's important not to use others to deny yourself.

How it works: 1.Be able to do something that contributes to society. People from different walks of life have different definitions of success, but everyone hopes to do something beneficial to society and be able to help more people, and such a life is a successful life.

2.If your family and children are healthy, this is also a successful life. For ordinary people, eating well, dressing well, having a healthy family, healthy children, and being in a happy family is a successful life.