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It's not that everything is easy to gain and easy to lose, it depends. For example, love, the person you are chasing quickly agreed to you and be with you, which does not mean that you will lose, that is the test of feelings and time, maybe you are really in love ......with each otherAnd materially, you can easily get one thing in the right way, that is, your thing, and that doesn't mean that you will lose anything. Maybe many people say the opposite, but my concept is like this, I don't believe that I will lose what I gain, in fact, I just say that I will numb myself from thinking about it......
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This sentence can be understood and contextualized differently, but it can be true in some cases.
From a psychological point of view, people often feel unappreciated about things that are easy to get because they have not experienced the difficulties and cherishments that come with hard work and struggle. For example, if a person easily acquires an item or an achievement, they may feel dissatisfied and bored because they don't feel the process of putting effort into it. In this case, they may lose interest in these easily obtainable things and thus lose them easily.
However, this statement is not absolutely true. Some people will cherish and keep what they get easily, because they know that they don't come easily, or because they like the essence of these things. At the same time, if a person easily loses what they have, they may feel lost and frustrated because they have invested time and effort into gaining it.
Therefore, the answer to this question is not a simple "yes" or "no", but depends on the specific situation and the individual's feelings and experiences.
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In my opinion, it may be more regrettable to have it and lose it. Because when you own something or experience something, you may develop emotional dependence and identification with them, and when you lose them, you feel lost, sad, and empty. This feeling of loss can last for a long time, even for a lifetime.
In contrast, never having the same impressive and emotional experience that may not leave a lasting impression on the hearth. Although you may feel regret or loss, you have not really experienced that feeling, nor have you developed emotional dependence and identification.
Of course, this is also a question that varies from person to person. Some people may be more inclined to never have one because they are more willing to accept themselves as they are rather than suffer the pain of loss. However, for those who have experienced loss, they may cherish everything in front of them even more, because they deeply know what is the preciousness and irreplaceability of the real chain Ponno Masa.
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There are gains and lossesWhen everyone is faced with a choice, they will hope that the fish can be obtained, and the bear's paw can also be obtained. But if you don't lose what you gain, won't it feel too easy?
It is even more impossible to prove its worth. In fact, with the choice of fish and bear's paw, it can better reflect the value of your choice. So before doing anything, be sure to think it through.
What is worth paying for it and what you are cherishing. That's what you really want.
Cherish the present contentment and happinessI like to watch "Journey to the West", every time I hear the sentence of Supreme Treasure "The most painful thing in the world is nothing more than this", I can't help but feel sad When I have it, I don't know how to cherish it, but I don't regret it until I lose it. What you have is not satisfied, what you get is not cherished, you are intoxicated with greed, and seeking happiness is just a matter of asking for fish Liu Ruoying sang in the song:
Later, I finally learned how to love, but unfortunately you are long gone, disappeared into the sea of people, and then finally understood in tears that some people once they miss it will never come again. People are like this, what they can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone.
If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable, and many people in the world only knew how to cherish it until they lost it, so we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.
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Loving someone is blissful because you know that there are people in this world who are worth pursuing;
But loving someone is also painful, because the person you love doesn't necessarily love you.
God always likes to play such jokes on us, making you lose love when you know it.
Whether you want it or not, whether you like it or not, this is reality, this is life.
Maybe you are lucky, and the person you love also loves you, so you should cherish it;
Maybe you are miserable, the person you love is in love with someone else, and when it comes to letting go, bless well!
However, there is nothing wrong with loving a person, God has given everyone the right to love and the right to choose.
You can choose to love or give up, but what you want is that you know what love is!
You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
True love is when you can love, know how to cherish!
True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love!
I hope it will be useful to you Danhong, and I wish you happiness!
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