Would you accept it if you were living together unmarried?

I am opposed to the phenomenon of unmarried cohabitation. If you don't get to the point where you want to get married, try not to live together unmarried. There are too many instability.

When it comes to unmarried cohabitation, this is no longer a shy topic. I've had some examples of this around me, even on college campuses. College is a relatively pure place, but even if it is a strong love, it may not be able to cross the hurdle of graduation season (breakup season).

What's more, most of the boys and girls at work will become realistic. Regional factors, family factors, social factors. Either one can bring devastating damage.

At this time, the relationship between two people is no longer just a matter between two people, so if both parties say goodbye in the future. The girls are the ones who suffer the most, first physically (unless you don't watch) and secondly mentally. Under normal circumstances, in a relationship, it is always the boy who is moved first, and the girl who is moved later.

Girls pay more emotions than boys in the later stage, and there is more pain after separation. With so much instability, are you sure you have to pay so much for them?

Girls are prone to dependence. It has been mentioned earlier that girls will be more involved and pay more in a relationship, especially in the later stage, so at this time, he will become dependent on boys. When living together, the girl's longing for hugs and kisses can be satisfied at any time, and the little couple in love can always live together more colorful than living alone, even if there is a small problem, sweet words and body language can dispel the haze as soon as possible.

And when there is a big problem, girls should generally be in a dependence on each other and will not leave each other easily.

Even if it is a mistake for two people to be together, it is a woman in love whose IQ is zero, I think it is the sweet words and the little sweetness in love that make girls dependent and can give up too many things for each other, so that it is not easy to get out of it and look at themselves correctly. Although cohabitation is richer, dependence can also make it harder for you to get out, so it's best to say no.

Reputational issues. Maybe everyone thinks that the society is so open now, and this is no longer a big problem. For me personally, I think this is also a kind of cultivation, an attitude in your own life.

If you love yourself, value yourself, and make careful choices, others will love, respect you, and treat you well. Especially after you work, you know that there are many people, maybe there is nothing wrong with you, there are more people listening, there are more people talking, after all, there is still some impact on your work and life.

Of course, there will be examples of unmarried cohabitation, getting married, and then being happy for a lifetime, but that is certainly not the majority. So, I'm against it.

Of course I can accept it, because I don't think there is anything wrong with it, and I can know in advance whether the two people are suitable, and if they are not suitable, at most they will just break up, and it won't have to be as ugly as a divorce.

Unacceptable. Because this kind of practice will not bring me any benefits, and it may also make the other party dislike me.

It's unacceptable, because I'm a bit conservative, and I think it's easy to attract some gossip from others if you live together unmarried.

I can't accept it, because I am a girl, I feel that living together without marriage will be very disadvantageous, and two people must be married before they can live together.

I think it's okay to accept it, I think that now that society is open, it's not a shame to live together unmarried, and I think it's a good thing that you can understand each other's living habits by living together unmarried.

I can't accept it, because living together unmarried proves that I am very unnatural, and if I get pregnant, it means that I have lost a layer of security.

If you are both at the point of talking about marriage, you can try to live together. Learn to get along with each other, and then work hard to resolve conflicts. After all, it's good that you can get used to and accept many things before you get married. It's better than getting married.

The advantages of unmarried cohabitation are more supportive, and each other can understand each other better in cohabitation, and some pretenses can directly see each other, and some things are only suitable after trying to know whether they are suitable.

I can't accept it, because I think that after living together, it is no different from getting married, and it is very self-respecting.

I can't accept it, because if I am together like this, I will be very faceless, so I can't accept this.

First of all, I think living together out of wedlock is a very serious matter.

Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship before two people know each other's temperament.

First, if you live with the man too early, your future in-laws are likely to despise you.

Second, after living together, what you face is not the romance of love, but a bunch of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you live with a boy inevitably have to wash clothes, cook and clean the house, you let him experience married life for free in advance, so what about another two years?

The third case is even worse, which is an unplanned pregnancy after cohabitation.

In the event of such a result, it will be more difficult to get out of the way.

If the man is a responsible person, maybe it's better, if the man is irresponsible, then the woman will be completely passive, and then talk about marriage at this time, the meaning is completely different.

It is difficult for parents in traditional families to accept that couples live together too early.

If you tell them when the relationship is still unstable, the change in the relationship will only add trouble to the parents.

In the parents' mind, cohabitation may mean that two people will get married in the future.

In the lives of contemporary young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.

This gap in awareness not only affects the communication between parents and children, but also affects the emotional direction between couples.

Cohabitation is really something that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions.

In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, at this time, when two people get to know each other to a certain extent, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.

When you decide to live together after careful consideration, be sure to tell your parents first.

You can choose to have a tentative chat with your parents, talk about examples of your friends who live together, and listen to your parents' views on cohabiting couples.

If your parents agree to live together as a couple, congratulations, you can save a lot of tongues, but if your parents don't agree to it, don't quarrel with your parents.

After all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, and you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and kindness into your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and tell your parents about it when the time is right.

There is no good or bad evaluation of premarital cohabitation, only the attitude of the person is good or bad. thinks that living together before marriage is too casual and flowery, it is really a rod to kill all or the best people, but it is also the real idea of many people, after all, they will lack a sense of security, thinking that living with stupidity before marriage is a second marriage.