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Of course, I can't accept my daughter living together before marriage, because I think girls need to have more self-respect and self-love.

I'm a little unacceptable. Because if you break up, your daughter will be particularly hit. I would never agree with that.

In fact, every parent can't accept their daughter's behavior of living together before marriage, because this kind of behavior will be very bad for their daughter, and it will always make their daughter suffer.

Now it's not a question of accepting or not accepting, can you control her, you don't know if it's where it is. You only regret it.

Premarital cohabitation, as the name suggests, is a kind of sexual relationship in which a man and a woman live together openly or secretly in the name of husband and wife before marriage. The goal of the two parties is to get married, so it has the meaning of "trial marriage".

Premarital cohabitation is a relatively new model of marriage that gives couples the opportunity to get to know each other better before they get married, and thus better determine whether they are suitable for marriage. It can also give couples the opportunity to resolve some family issues before they get married, thus reducing the problems that may arise after marriage.

However, before deciding to live together before marriage, there are two things that must be taken seriously:

First, this kind of relationship is not protected by law in our country, and the current law does not interfere with the cohabitation of both parties without a spouse, and the cohabitation of one or both spouses is an illegal act, and if the circumstances are serious, it will constitute the crime of bigamy and be punished by law.

The second is trial marriage, can marriage really be tested? The fact is that cohabitation and marriage are two completely different psychological states, and marriage cannot be tried. Either get married logically, or break up miserably. The latter is not unlikely.

So, strictly speaking, there is no need to live together before marriage.

Considering that it is the characteristics of women who are most hurt by the tragic breakup after premarital cohabitation, it is recommended that women should focus on figuring out five questions before premarital cohabitation

Clause. 1. Whether the boyfriend is reliable in conduct. Those who are unreliable or suspicious cannot live together before marriage;

Clause. 2. Is the love cycle with your boyfriend long enough, if it has not reached at least one spring, summer, autumn and winter, it means that you don't know each other carefully enough, and you can't or need to postpone premarital cohabitation;

Clause. 3. At least one of the two people with the boyfriend has the financial strength to maintain the living expenses of cohabitation before marriage, and those who do not have sufficient financial strength cannot live together before marriage;

Clause. Fourth, it is not appropriate for two people to live together before marriage if their "three views" are inconsistent;

Clause. 5. Men and women who are tolerant of their own shortcomings and are not tolerant of each other are not suitable for premarital cohabitation.

It's not good, it's better not to live together before marriage, in the era of fast food, you will just be eaten dry and wiped clean and then discarded.

I don't think premarital cohabitation is necessary. Because most of the men and women know each other better before they get married, and their personalities include their physical abilities.

With the continuous change of people's thinking, it is not unacceptable for boyfriends and girlfriends to live together before marriage, but many older generations of old-fashioned people still can't accept premarital cohabitation, thinking that premarital cohabitation is a manifestation of men and women disrespecting each other and living inappropriately.

Benefits of premarital cohabitation:

First, living together before marriage can better understand the real other party, when men and women are just in love, they will show each other their most beautiful and best side, and in the early stage of love, both parties will not care, always feel that the other party is the person who should be with him for a lifetime, there is no one more suitable for himself than him, and whether it is suitable to live together or not to know, because two people will live together for a lifetime, If there is something in the other party's living habits that you can't bear, it may lead to the breakdown of the relationship because of the trivial matter of living habits, so living together before marriage is equivalent to testing the waters, and then considering whether to continue to be together after learning about the real other party, so that there will be no divorce after finding a little problem after marriage.

Second, the two parties can allocate their own housework before marriage, generally in the case of love, the other half is very happy to help you share the housework, and it will become a habit after a long time, otherwise the other half is not willing to help you share the housework when the time comes, and the other half is unwilling to help you share the housework, you have no choice but to do it yourself, so premarital cohabitation is also to make plans for the future married life, assign clear tasks, and the married life will not quarrel because of the little things such as housework.

Disadvantages of premarital cohabitation:

1. Premarital cohabitation will affect marriage, because the man will feel that he has lived together, and marriage is just a formality, so he doesn't care too much, which will make women who live together for the purpose of marriage feel uncomfortable, and it is very likely that they will break up unhappily in the end, which is a heavy blow to the woman.

Second, premarital cohabitation will affect the freshness of the appearance after marriage, premarital cohabitation is different from those couples who can only see each other once or twice a week, they can see each other every day after marriage, and they do not have to wait for the weekly meeting time as before, this situation will accelerate the warming of their feelings, and for people who live together before marriage, marriage has no impact on their lives, except for a wedding, their lives are still exactly the same as before marriage.

After all, marriage is a major event in life, especially girls should be more cautious, there are advantages and disadvantages to living together before marriage, but girls still have to observe the other half of the person, and carefully think about whether he is the person you should be waiting for.

It seems that premarital cohabitation is indeed necessary in today's era when the divorce rate is not low, and there is a good saying: practice is the only criterion for testing truth. There is a certain probability of living together before marriage so that each other can see each other more clearly, and some contradictions can only be found when they get along day and night.

If it comes naturally, I think it is possible to live together, but girls must pay attention to their own safety, not to get pregnant casually, let alone casually ** cause lifelong harm, cohabitation in the girl must be weak, this grasp of the reed must always be remembered.

The first condition for cohabitation is to get to know each other for a long time before you can have the idea of cohabitation. Only by living together can we fully understand each other, understand each other's good and bad. After living together, the drive and enthusiasm of the Chong Duan clan have slowly faded, so as to show whether you love or like each other in your heart, or just have a good impression of each other.

This is very important, love is the foundation of building a family and marriage, and only by loving each other can we get through all the tribulations in marriage. in order to feel happiness in a long marriage.

Marriage must maintain the dynamic balance of material, spiritual, and physical conditions, and the cohabitation relationship can enable both parties to better experience whether there is a spiritual common pursuit, and the grinding of time after getting along, revealing the contradictions between the two people, how to solve the boring and even ugly side.

It's hard to experience in a relationship, and cohabitation can help you discover if you can achieve the beauty of all three.

When two people really live together, after removing each other's disguises, both parties can see each other's most real life conditions. It is certainly beautiful when you are in love, but after peeling off this coat, it is more important whether both parties can share the responsibility of trivial matters such as firewood, rice, oil and salt in life.

Everyone has a different opinion about cohabitation.

Some people think that living together is a terrible thing, and too close to each other will gradually wear out the freshness between two people, so that each other no longer has expectations for the future.

There are also people who feel that cohabitation creates a "sense of accessibility" for their partner, which can lead to their own not being easily cherished.

Because the beginning of most cohabitation is always full of ups and downs, but the ending after that is always inescapable. The long and trivial daily life can easily dilute love.

But I still want to say that it is actually necessary to live together before marriage.

After all, in the process of two people accompanying each other to old age, the wind and flowers are just an episode, firewood, rice, oil and salt are daily, if they live together, they will be chicken feathers, and marriage may not be very happy.

I once read such a passage and deeply agreed:

People will think that love or marriage is the sublimation of feelings and the beginning of happiness, but when they enter a long-term companionship, they find that the test has just begun. ”

Getting along in close proximity can best see through a person and see whether two people are really suitable, which is the most important meaning of living together before marriage.

Moreover, the key to premarital cohabitation is never "cohabitation", but "pre-marriage", which is only to add a probationary period to the marriage.

In short, don't always look at premarital cohabitation with colored glasses, for the future of a relationship, premarital cohabitation is very necessary, for the simple reason.