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Now more and more post-00s choose to live with their boyfriends, which makes me very anxious. Because the oldest post-00s generation is only about 21 years old, maybe he hasn't graduated from college or has just graduated and lived with his boyfriend, which is very inappropriate for me.
Girls of this age are still immature, they have just come out of the college campus, and they are still very simple and immatureMaybe because of my boyfriend's words, I was moved. But when two people live together, there will definitely be a lot of friction and quarrels。The two parties are still immature and have no way to have a good run-in, although there are times when love is strong, but the quarrels in the strong past have become extremely realistic.
And at this stage, it is rare to be sure that the two parties will be together in the future, and if the two parties break up, this experience of living together is actually very sad for themselves.
Are you in favor of premarital cohabitation? In fact, I am personally in favor of premarital cohabitation, although some people on the Internet now say that premarital cohabitation is very ugly, thinking that it is a girl's behavior of not loving herself. ButI think premarital cohabitation is necessary, but only if the two people are ready to walk into the church where they are married, then you can live together in advance and run in a little bit in advance.
Because in the process of dating, the other person must show the best side of themselves. ButIn life, no one can live a life with a hypocritical mask, and some of his little habits in life will be unconsciously exposed。And at this time, girls can judge whether they can accept it in this process, and some people can see the true face of this man in the process of cohabitation, if this boy is really not suitable for themselves, then it can also be a very safe reminder before marriage.
Some people in society have misconceptions about cohabitationSometimes I see some words and wonder if I am still in the Qing Dynasty, and there are some people on the Internet who think that women who live together are very unself-loving, and they don't want to have such a cohabiting girlfriend. But are you taking care of yourself when talking about others? Maybe I used to live with other women.
I think this kind of person is really very interesting, they are very double standard, and they have very low requirements for their moral bottom line, but the standards for girlfriends are extremely high。And it's the 21st century, and I personally understand and think it's necessary to live together before marriage as long as you have the right sex and live together for the purpose of marriage.
But the post-00s choose to live with their boyfriends, I think it's still very inappropriate. I hope that the little sisters who read this article can also think about it more.
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Square peg. Because it is not yet the age to talk about marriage, if you live together too early, it is extremely irresponsible for your future life. Cohabitation without the consent or understanding of both parents is mostly futureless.
When you break up, you hurt both your feelings and your body, and the gains outweigh the losses.
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I don't think it's appropriate, it has something to do with people's thoughts, it's already to a very good extent, maybe they live together, but some people won't, a person's ideological concepts, some people's ideas are open-minded, he will, and some people's ideological concepts may be more conservative if they don't.
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Anyway, I don't think it's appropriate, because doing so is likely to cause some harm to yourself, but others can't do anything about it.
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I don't think it's appropriate, the two of them are not mature enough, so don't go to live together, the two of them will quarrel every day because of some problems in life.
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It's not appropriate, but there's nothing people can do about it as long as they want to, but I don't think it's very responsible.
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Young people nowadays are more open-minded, and most of them are still more conservative.
But now many young people born in the 90s will be more open-minded in their ideas and minds.
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In fact, now more and more post-00s have become adults, so although cohabitation so early is an inappropriate time, since it has become a common phenomenon, it means that there are good and bad.
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More and more post-00s choose to live with their boyfriends, what is the reason for this phenomenon? When two people love each other, they can ** and keep it up! A good sex life is also an important factor in attracting men and women who love each other to live together.
For the power of sex, this love is sexual bliss. The openness of society and Western cultural life also brought with it many things that our country has always considered inappropriate. Westerners do not think that sex is mysterious, they think that two people can be together as long as they love each other, which is a common social phenomenon in our country and the development of modern social civilization.
The development of publishing personality. Come and go fast. Marriage and family stability is worse.
The shackles of moral conscience are markedly weakened. Although there is more joy between men and women. I think it is good for your studies that you can fall in love and live together on your own, but we do not advocate and encourage cohabitation between men and women because college is a crucial stage in determining your career choice.
You must learn to study hard and fully master the expertise of your choice. For future job injuries, you often live together after a period of time.
There will be many consequences, causing physical and mental harm; Second, it is easy to produce contradictions. For several reasons, they rent a house together and cannot tolerate each other. Nowadays, more and more post-90s generations choose to live with your boyfriend.
What is the reason for this phenomenon? More and more people are choosing to stay with their boyfriends after 9 o'clock. What is the reason for this phenomenon?
The older sister and brother of the post-90s generation have already experienced it in the history of love. After 00 o'clock, they are a little bolder.
They'll basically jump over and look at you with goofy eyes. They are stronger than the boys who are older than them. Before the age of 30, the psychological age of girls is usually three to seven years older than that of boys, so girls usually feel that boys of the same age are children and find a big boy of equal mental age.
The relationship between the two parties is the most loved, regardless of age. Let's take a real-life example. My boyfriend is 95 years old and I am very happy to be with him.
Now we are all 2000 years old. We can love each other in college, as long as they like each other.
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Lovers need love and sex, both of which can be seen as true love and full love. Sex can regulate the relationship between two people. Also, if you're separated, there's less communication.
I suggest you establish more communication opportunities, such as **, ** chat, WeChat chat. You have to say ** often and say hello often, so that there is no sense of distance between you, just like being by your side every day, so that your relationship can last for a long time. When you are in love, it is normal and instinctive to want to have physical contact.
What is not physical contact is platonic spiritual love, but most people can't do it, not just the post-00s, most people are.
No, it won't hurt you. Since we've been talking for a year, have a stable relationship, and want to save rent, let's get married. After getting married, you will live together and everything will be guaranteed by the law.
Otherwise, you can live together now and save rent. To put it nicely, you're a babysitter who offers free sex. You offer all your obligations, but you don't get any rights.
So living together, in addition to saving you a little bit of rent, is really harmful to girls. Moreover, it is more difficult for a relationship that has lived together for a long time to enter into marriage, because before you get married, you are covered with firewood, rice, oil, salt and fireworks.
Marriage requires some impulses, and you need to cherish the illusions of a better life in the future. You both live together and both know if life is good or not, so there is no need for any illusions at all. So what do you want to use to attract your boyfriend to marriage with you?
If you really want to save rent, tell him directly that I am not a girl who will live with others, and I can only live together if I get married. If your boyfriend is sincere, he will start planning a marriage proposal. Maybe rent for a few months and get married, and then live together.
For girls, cohabitation can bring a huge psychological burden to themselves, because they are afraid of other people's eyes and pregnancy, and they feel that they may not have such troubles if they are fine. If you break up after living together, this psychological burden can stay with you for the rest of your life. Some people say that they don't live together, how can they know someone?
There are a lot of people you don't live under the same roof with him, but you don't know them? You don't need to live together to know what a person's quality is, as long as you have been in contact with him for a long time, listen to what he says, and watch what he does. And during the relationship, you will go to the place where the guy lives, and you can't hide his habits.
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Because today's young people are more and more open-minded, and they like this feeling, so it will be like this.
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In this way, you can experience married life in advance, and if the two people are not suitable, you can also break up as soon as possible, and it can also be seen that the children are particularly open now.
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In fact, it is just for the trial marriage, the two people are not actually together, and they don't know what the reality of the other party is.
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Post-90s, many people, take the same or similar words to cover all people born in the post-90s, but people are not all the same, everyone has everyone's thoughts, post-90s, maybe the family is unhappy, maybe various reasons, everyone can't think of it, but some people must be by their own hardships and their own persistence, post-90s girls, there are some proud and indifferent, maybe there is such a wound in the bottom of the heart that is unwilling to be touched, and then fall, and then find their own happiness.
The post-90s girl is persistent and pretends to be strong, pretending to be happy, because she is afraid of being hurt.
Some girls born in the 90s, not casually, but she naively took the boys who were with her side at this time as her own reliance, naively thought that she would not separate, and was stupid and willing to give everything, just for those sweet vows, girls born in the 90s, how much do you know and how much do you know, the surface does not mean the heart, the secular does not represent the truth, if there are so many girls born in the 90s around you, then you understand and see, it is not that the girl who is a stool is casually imitated, it is the boy who does not take the girl's heart seriously.
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Everyone's age is different, and everyone's thoughts are different, what she does today may be the pain in the future! In the same way, the reason why she is like this is only because she has been hurt in some way, as long as a man is really good to her, she will accept her words! Obviously, when she said it, she had a contemptuous tone of contempt for men!
The same man is the same, because he once paid for his empty friends, and he was injured, and he was afraid of being hurt!
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