Is it true that raising children knows the kindness of their parents?

It was only after I gave birth to a child that I realized that my parents had made a mistake in raising their children. I feel that the phrase "raising children knows the kindness of parents" is really wrong. The process of raising a child is a hard but joyful process for parents.

It's the joy of nurturing. Therefore, I am quite disgusted that some parents always like to say that I have raised you with a handful of and urine, and so on, as if raising children is reluctant and willing to suffer more. How much fun and happiness your child brings to you in the process, and the child also improves your sense of social identity and does not let others think that you are an alternative.

Why don't these parents tell their children? ‍‍

I am grateful to my parents for giving me life, and I am grateful to my parents for their selfless dedication, but when I have never been a parent, some of my experiences are not so profound, and after becoming a parent, I have experienced the hardships of pregnancy, the pain of giving birth, and the fact that there is almost no good sleep in the months after giving birth, and I have experienced all kinds of worries and all kinds of hard work in the later stage, which are unimaginable for people who have not experienced it. In my opinion, raising children knows the kindness of their parents, only when they become a family do they know the triviality of firewood, rice, oil, salt, and firewood, rice, oil, and salt, and only when they give birth to a child do they know how much their parents have paid for the growth of their children. It's just a deeper appreciation and gratitude.

As children, from childhood to adulthood, growing up under the love and care of their parents, it is difficult to understand the hard work and emotions paid by parents in the process of raising children without going through the process of raising their children by themselves. Especially after a woman is conceived in October and has a painful delivery, at the moment when the child is born, she truly experiences the hardships of pregnancy and the greatness of maternal love. When we have children and experience what our mothers have gone through to feed us, we can truly understand the meaning of this sentence.

I am 24 years old, male. The family is average, and my parents have worked in the factory all their lives. Not rich, but not hungry.

When I was a child, I was beaten at every turn, my dad used a leather whip, my mom used a clothes rack, and my whole childhood was a shadow. Later, when they grew up, they joined the work, and they looked down on them all their life as workers. Until this year, I had my own child, there is a good saying, do not raise children do not know the parents' kindness, the wife gave birth to their own money, the child just came out into the incubator, more than 2000 a day, with a small half a month to discharge, I really can't get the money in my hands, I want to point with my dad, my dad didn't say a word to give me the card, so that I don't have enough in it.

Now I feel uncomfortable when I see my child crying, and I run to the doctor when something is wrong, and I get up three or four times a night, afraid that he will be cold, afraid that he will be hot, and afraid that there will be wind. Afraid of mosquitoes. It wasn't until this moment that I understood the mood of a father.

When I got married and had children, I repeated what my parents did, including urine, getting up early and going to bed late, I couldn't help but feel hard and hard, and I couldn't help but sigh heartily, raising children to know the kindness of parents.

In my understanding, parents do not feel that they are gracious, and children do not treat their parents well because they feel that they are gracious. We are family, and we take care of each other not because of kindness, but because of affection.

Yes, if I mix well in the future, I must let my parents live a good life, and at the same time take my parents out on a trip, which is my ideal now.

Yes, it is only when you become a parent that you can feel the hardships of your parents, because at the moment you play the same role as your parents.

When you have children, you can realize the difficulty of your parents raising you, and you can more deeply understand the kindness of your parents.

In fact, I think it's true, when you go to raise a child, you know that raising a child is really not easy.

There is no definite answer to this, and everyone's feelings are different.

1. Translation: When you have children, you know that it is not easy to raise children, so as to perceive and repay the kindness of your parents. The so-called "grace" refers to the meaning of gratitude and kindness, and this sentence mainly refers to the kindness of parents.

2. "Raising children knows the kindness of their parents" is just a farming custom, and the whole sentence is: only when you are in charge of the family can you feel that firewood and rice are expensive, and you can raise children to know the kindness of your parents.

The adoptive child knows that there is no next sentence for the parents. This is a Chinese saying, not a poem.

The original sentence is: Only when you are in charge of the family can you feel that firewood and rice are expensive, and you can only know the kindness of your parents when you raise children. Meaning: After you start a family, you will know the taste of life. When I have children, I know that it is not easy to raise children, so as to perceive and repay the kindness of my parents.

The child is the heart that wanders outside the mother's body.

I couldn't understand this sentence before, but since I gave birth to a child, I really understand how difficult it is to be a parent.

I remember when I was a child, my dad would always bring me some small surprises by the way, either small cookies or small candies, and he always told us with a serious look that it was given by relatives, but in fact, he secretly bought it himself.

My mother was more strict, and she would nag my father about why Jane always spent money that shouldn't be spent on me.

When I was a child, because of my mother's sternness and fierce accusations, I always felt that she didn't love me enough, and if I really loved my children, how could I be willing to scream against my children.

Later, I learned that my mother's strictness was actually for my good, eating too much sugar is not good for my teeth, and my ugly teeth are left over from secretly hiding and eating sugar at that time.

To put it another way, my mother still tried to discipline me despite the misunderstanding that I resented, but I never understood it, and I resented her countless times in my heart.

Now that she is a mother, she may be born with maternal love, and she always puts her children first.

Try to give your child both fatherly and mother-like selfless love, and learn to give her mother-like restrained love.

Rather than blindly pampering.