Has anyone ever loved a pet to the point of life and death?

Young couples can be noisy, separated, and go their separate ways, but older couples have exhausted their lives and only have each other to rely on.

A friend told me that her parents loved each other all their lives, and her mother was in her 40s, and she was spoiled like a girl by her father, who didn't know how to pay the gas and utility bills, and couldn't do laundry and cook. Until one day, her dad suddenly slipped while taking a bath in the bathroom.

Friends said that she still doesn't know how her mother, who has never done heavy work in her life and weighs only 90 pounds, carried her father out of the bathroom.

After that incident, my mother seemed to be a different person. She began to pay the property fees by herself, learned to buy vegetables and cook, and even picked up a lot of medical and health care books to learn first aid methods.

And her father, who had always forbade her to work hard, no longer interfered with her doing this, and both of them tacitly agreed to change their way of life.

My friend said this, his eyes reddened: "Actually, my dad is worried, what if he leaves first, what will my mom do?" ”

I'll go first, what are you going to do? "It's a problem that every whitehead couple will eventually face.

When I was young, I watched Sanmao's "How Much Do You Know About the Flowers in Your Dreams", which has a paragraph about Sanmao's poor health, so he forced Jose to promise that if he died, he would marry again.

José said, "If you die, I'll burn your house down with a fire, and then I'll go on the boat and float to old death." Sanmao said: "It's okay to set fire, as long as you marry again." Later, Jose died, leaving Sanmao alone to live in the world.

But she said, "Thank God, I am the one who lives today, and I am the one who suffers, and if Jose is asked to endure this minute and minute of the long night, then I will never will." Fortunately, none of this will be his turn, and if he lives like me, then I will fight with God to get him back.

After the sycamore was half dead and the frost was cleared, the white mandarin duck lost its companion and flew. Nothing could be more poignant. Now that I'm married, I gradually understand what Sanmao said.

One night, I persuaded Lao Liang to quit smoking, and I said, "Smoking is not good for your health." He said heartlessly

Forget it if you smoke it to death! I didn't know what kind of madness I was making, and I immediately cried bitterly: "No, I don't allow you to talk nonsense!"

I don't allow you to talk nonsense! ”

Every white-headed couple is friends of life and death.

You have to admit that old people don't have friends. You have a problem in your city, and it is no longer possible for your gray-haired friend to come and help you from another city or even from the other side of the city.

And the children, the children are far away, they have their own families, their own jobs, and even overseas, it is not easy for anyone to live, if you want to open your mouth to ask something, the words have not yet reached your mouth, forget it, forget it, don't trouble them.

People who have not experienced old age cannot understand the importance of companionship.

In the TV series "I May Not Love You", Li Daren's mother lost her husband at an early age, and Uncle Bai chased her for decades, but she never agreed, and was finally moved by Uncle Bai's words, Uncle Bai promised that he would not leave earlier than her.

You must not leave before me, leaving me alone to endure the long night, to endure the coldness and loneliness.

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The topic of our program today is that every mother and her child are friends of life and death.

Recently there was a documentary called "Shengmen".

It captured the experiences of 80 women in obstetrics and gynecology giving birth and the little-known stories behind them, and was nominated for China's first Oscar for Best Documentary Feature.

Some people say that only when you have a child can you know whether the man next to you is human or not. This sentence is indeed an exaggeration, but have you heard the following words?

What woman doesn't do such a thing as having a child? ”

When the melon is ripe, doesn't it just lay an egg for the hen? ”

Many men have this view about having children.

But they don't know that in China today, about 830 mothers still die every day.

For mothers, giving birth to a child is a walk through the door of ghosts, not just as simple as a man's mouth.

After watching this documentary, I finally understood why "mom is the greatest patron saint in the world".

And every mother, and her children, are friends of life and death.

A good marriage has nothing to do with money, what matters is whether the man is willing to pay for you. Especially when the wife is pregnant and has a child, be good to the woman.

If a man is stingy and indifferent when his wife gives birth to a child for him, no matter how much money he makes, the family will not be happy. Because this man didn't feel sorry for his wife from the bottom of his heart.

"Shengmen" uses the most real but painful pictures to record the greatest but easily ignored facts. It is about the redemption of human nature itself, about the care for the vulnerable groups of women, and about the thinking of human ethics.

Zhihu's film review of the last male audience is impressive.

If one day, I want to be a father, I must be ready for everything:

My wife, first of all, must be willing to give birth, and if she is unwilling, I will never force her to bear the risk of life and death in the delivery room;

I must also work hard and have enough financial ability to ensure that after the birth of my child, I can have the most basic living security, instead of growing up in hunger and cold;

Finally, and most importantly, I must have the consciousness to be a father, whether the child is a boy or a girl, healthy or disabled, I must love him with all my heart, and at the same time love my wife even more. ”

The above man's message represents the voice of a part of the husband. In recent years, we have gradually found that those men who know how to love their wives often have relatively good marriages. In fact, marriage is to put it bluntly, it is run by two people, you give love, I pay love, you love me, I love you.

Especially, when we have the crystallization of love, our common child, for the sake of this child, I am willing to go to the ghost gate to go through it, but you have to understand my suffering, don't you?

Tong Yan, the original creator and anchor of the parents' mother's emotional column, is waiting for you with her voice. At the same time, he is also a well-known Internet radio anchor such as Youshu and Ten O'clock Reading. : Tong You Listen, Himalayas: Tong Yan Gege, WeChat: urwarm666