What is it like to have a career in a first tier city, but have a house or a car?

When I came to the magic capital in college, I saw more people and things, in short, I learned about a more advanced society, and many people have their own ideas about life, career, and dreams, maybe because of economic conditions, maybe because I have seen and thought too much since I was a child. After graduating, I calculated my rent, utilities, and food expenses every month. Those children in big cities have their own houses in Modu, and their income may not be as high as mine, but they can live in a spacious house every day and do what they want to do.

I often ask myself why I want to stay in Shanghai, and there is no answer. My parents said that Suzhou is not bad, and I accepted it, and in March this year, I used the money my parents had saved for a lifetime to pay a down payment in Suzhou. Until now, housing prices have not risen, and I have taken out a loan.

I can't go back, and if I go back, my children will still have to take this road, and that heavenly road, no matter how narrow it is, will have to work hard.

Every day is a day full of confidence, I just have a career, I try to open a restaurant in Shanghai, get up early every day, get up at three or four o'clock in the morning with my wife, start preparing breakfast in the morning, in the evening, I will stir-fry, every day is busy. But there is not much money left, because you have to live, children have to go to school, adults have to eat, socialize, even so, I believe that my life will be better and better in the future, do my best, don't compare, and work hard every day!

I am now in Beijing, my wish to be a singer, although the current life is very bad, but I have become accustomed to the prosperity of the streets and the loneliness of human feelings, shouting at the station where no one is, singing is the same as my life, come on!

I may not realize it, because I am still a student, for me, the biggest career now is my own studies, as for the car and house, then I have to find a good person and marry.

The time on the subway is more than three hours a day, sometimes think about what you are for, look at the bustling city outside, you will always be a person on the edge of the city! It's really hard to do business outside!

As a bar waiter, buying a house and a car is always a topic of luxury, and my parents have no ability, and I don't go to school well, which may be God's punishment for myself! I accept!

I don't want to mention myself, my wife has uremia, in order to do better dialysis and **, I came to this strange city, there is no car and no house, I just hope that my wife can wear it for a long time, tears.

The path I chose would have to be completed even if I was on my knees, and now although Beijing is in a damp basement, I will be able to spread my wings one day!

If you don't have a house or a car, it's not a career, it's a job at most!

People who don't have a house or a car want to live a decent life in a first-tier city, how much income do they need? What do you think about work to maintain your normal life, when you are on the front line, in order to ensure your survival, 10,000 yuan is essential. Even so, many young people say that this kind of life does not guarantee their lives, after all, they still have to repay their loans, and they have to repay loans, and perhaps only if they get enough salary, their lives will be fine.

In different periods, our goals are different, we earn 10,000 yuan, just to have food and clothing, and when we have money, we will become better and better, and pay more and more attention to spiritual happiness.

But we can say that everyone has their own way of life, when you can't earn 10,000 yuan, you can only mix in the two big cities of Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, everyone can't earn 10,000, some people earn thousands of yuan, everyone's lifestyle is different, the only difference is that we have to find what we want, and what we have to do is to make our life better, make ourselves richer, and make our dreams better.

Only he knows what "dignity" is. Maybe in many mountains, it's good to be able to have food and clothing without worry, they don't yearn too much for a higher life, I think that's called dignity, but in the city, they need more than just things that can make them worry about food and clothing.

Therefore, we should define our own "decency" according to our current life, and should not refer to the "decency" of others, because everyone's situation is different. Life is all about living for ourselves, and if we care too much about what others think, we will only make ourselves a crowd person. There are many times in life, whether you live a decent life or not, it really has nothing to do with money, it is only related to your state of mind when facing life.

Live well, don't compare, don't be jealous, so that you can live a happier and more exciting life. What do you think.

The average rent for a 20 square meter house is between 2000-3000. If you want to live close to the city center, the rent will be higher. The rent for the whole room is also generally very expensive, taking Beijing as an example, it takes 7000+, and Shanghai also needs 5000+.

According to the compromise calculation, the rent is about 4,000 yuan per month.

Two takeaways a day, making your own breakfast, an average of 35 a day, at least 1000 a month.

Go out to eat once a week for at least 150, watch a movie for two people to get 100, not counting the occasional small gift, go out to travel, conservatively count at least 1000 a month.

In addition, commuting transportation expenses, mobile phone bills, occasional clothes shopping during the change of seasons, AA dinners with friends, sports and fitness, daily necessities, headache and brain fever, etc., are calculated in a miscellaneous manner, and about 1,000 are also reserved every month.

In this way, the living expenses of at least 7,000 yuan can barely live a somewhat decent life, and will not be living in a group house and frugal food.

We need to earn about 10,000 yuan, which can make us live more sufficiently, we must be satisfied with the status quo, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, and slowly make money.

You need to have an income of 30,000 yuan per month, which is the lowest level, otherwise, it will be really difficult.

In fact, failure in life is not failure, there is no definite definition, I personally think that life is short for decades, it is good to have a life pursuit, but the most important thing is to live happily and comfortably.

In the past, when I was studying, I used to compare my grades with my parents, and when I grew up, I had to compare my income with my colleagues and friends, so I was tired of living. <>

In this way, if you ask others if you yourself are a failure, why don't you ask yourself if you are happy and comfortable? A salary of 10,000 yuan is not high, but at least it is definitely no problem to support yourself, plus your lover's income, although it is not rich and expensive, but it is definitely no problem to live a normal life, instead of envying the life of rich people, it is better to think about how many people want to live like you.

If you feel dissatisfied with your current life, you usually study more books, enrich yourself, and if you feel satisfied, you can do this job with peace of mind and live with peace of mind, don't ask this kind of meaningless question, failure or not failure always depends on your personal thoughts and practices, not others define whether you are a failure. <

To tell the truth, in the eyes of people who are stronger than you, you are considered a failure, and in the eyes of people who are not as good as you, you are considered okay. Success and failure are defined by others, just like if you are standing on the 50th floor of a 100-story building, you are not standing high enough relative to the people standing on the 100th floor, but you are already very tall compared to the people on the 10th floor now. <

If you want to settle down in a first-tier city, you really can't. But a salary of more than 10,000 yuan is still good in a small city, and you can work in a big city to earn money and settle down in a small city, so the pressure is not so great.

It is a failure, because at this age, the average person has already married a wife and had children, or has a house and a car.

No. Everyone's definition of success is different, in my eyes, as long as you work hard to face life positively, you can make yourself happy every day, and you are worthy of your parents, you are not a failure.