Why did you and your partner break up? Who mentioned it?

Let's talk about the story of a breakup with my favorite boyfriend.

I was with him in my freshman year of high school.,It should be the most sincere time.,Ignorant of feelings but very attentive.,It's very sweet when we first get together.,Experience the first hand.,The first hug.,The first kiss.,A lot of firsts.。。 It seems that every day is very happy, and it is true that there is a lot of happiness and sweetness with him, but at the same time, we will also have quarrels, because each other is not very good-tempered people, so every quarrel is very fierce and fierce, although in the end it will still be reconciled. At that time, the deepest impression was that every time we quarreled, the two of us would be very naïve and easy to say the word breakup, although each other didn't think so in their hearts, but sometimes they were really angry, plus they were really ignorant at that time, they always talked about the breakup to threaten each other, and at the beginning they kept saying this about breaking up, and it was nothing to talk about the breakup, because there will always be someone to admit their mistakes and redeem them, but after a long time, if one of them keeps saying to break up, then the other person will be tired and disappointed, I don't want to continue, I remember that the last breakup was what he said, the reason was that he saw me chatting with other boys and laughing happily, so he was jealous and unhappy, at first we just quarreled, but I thought he was a little vexatious, so I didn't really want to ignore him, he asked me if I would be so happy to chat with boys in the future?

At that time, I suddenly got angry, because I thought he was restricting me, why could he talk to other girls, and I would be angry when I said a few words to others, so I was stubborn, so I talked back, ignored him, and he broke up in anger like before, so we broke up. If it were before, within a week after the breakup, one of us would definitely admit the mistake, but this time it didn't, it should be that both of us are tired, and the breakup that was easily said made me feel very tired, and I felt that I couldn't continue, even though I knew that sometimes some words were angry. Anyway, the end of the story is that no one is looking for each other, they should all be disappointed in each other, and maybe there is less love.

When falling in love, everyone encounters a lot of problems, some people will feel that their lives are particularly happy when they are in love, but some people will feel that they are particularly unhappy when they are in love. Why did your partner break up when you were in a relationship?

If there is no love between two people, then there is no need to be together anymore, because there is no affection between these two people, even if these two people still choose to be together, in fact, these two people will not be particularly happy and happy in their future lives. I feel that falling in love is a very happy thing, but if in this relationship life, neither of you can feel the love between each other, then there is no need to be together, so in the process of falling in love, if your partner proposes to break up, it actually means that your partner has no feelings for you.

Of course, it is possible that your boyfriend actually likes you very much, but in real life, your boyfriend may meet another girl, and your boyfriend may think that this girl is more excellent, and may think that this girl is more beautiful, and then want to break up with you. So this situation actually happens in real life, don't think that falling in love is the only thing, because boys are actually very fickle, and it is very easy to break up with you in love life.

It is possible that your boyfriend actually loves you very much, but if your boyfriend's family conditions are not so good, your boyfriend may feel that he will not be able to give you a happy life in the future, and will choose to break up with you at this time. Because the boy's sense of family responsibility is also very strong, if the boy really likes you, then the boy may want you to live a happier life in the future.

When you are in love, there are many reasons why the partner will break up, it may be that you feel that the two of you have incompatible personalities, you have a bad temper, or his family does not agree with you being together, in short, there are many reasons.

When falling in love, the object may propose to break up because he is angry, angry, sulking, and may not be serious at this time, but it may be that there is a problem in the relationship between the two people, and it is not suitable to be together, and it is not happy or sweet.

When I'm not in love, I feel that this person is full of personal charm. When you have been in love for a long time, you will find that this person is nothing more than this, not as powerful as you imagined, and you don't love him as much as you imagined.

For example, he doesn't keep his promises as much as he thinks, for example, he is always inconsiderate of himself, for example, he will yell at himself because of the game. Originally, he was not at fault, but when he got to him, he felt that he was unreasonable, so he proposed to break up.

When you are in love, the partner chooses to break up, mainly because the two of you are together, there are no common interests, language and hobbies do not care and care for each other, and such a relationship will not last long.

The main reason for breaking up is that I don't like it anymore, or I don't have feelings anymore.

Some breakups are due to liking the new and hating the old or finding someone they like more.

So this should be based on the actual situation, and it should be based on the specific contradiction between two people who are in love together.

When I was in love, the reason why I was proposed to break up was because the two did not communicate well together. There is also a person who is more introverted and quiet, and his personality is more lively. So this phenomenon of final separation has been created.

When I was in a relationship, the reason why my partner proposed to break up was because she felt that the two of us were too far away and the place of work was not together, so there was no feeling of being in love.

The reason why I broke up was because the other party felt that my conditions were not good. And the two people have no common interests, which leads to less and less communication between the two people, so they finally propose to break up.

When falling in love, I don't know how to care and be considerate, which makes it difficult for my girlfriend to accept, and I was given the opportunity to change, but in the end I still failed, and in the end I had no choice but to break up.

Hello friend, when you are in love, your partner and you broke up, in this case, the main thing is that you are not suitable, there must be other misunderstandings, or irresolvable misunderstandings, and you can only break up.

In fact, when falling in love, there are two people who get along with each other in the live broadcast and get to know each other together. Through understanding, knowing the shortcomings of the other party, slowly may enter a flat period, so after entering the flat period, the relationship may fade, and it is natural to break up like this.

When I was in a relationship, if my partner would propose to break up, it would definitely not like me, and then he would take the initiative.

When you are in love, the reason why your partner will propose to break up is actually because you don't love anymore and don't have that heartbeat feeling, so you don't want to be together anymore.

When we are in love, the reason why the partner usually proposes to break up is that the family members do not agree, or the two of us are not very suitable for each other.

Because the personality is not suitable, the relationship is not good, and all aspects of the conditions are not allowed, so the object will propose to break up, and in the face of such feelings, it can only be to bless the other party.

When the object mentions breaking up when falling in love, there are many times because of some trivial things that have quarrels and frictions, and they don't know how to be humble to each other,-for-tat, and finally lead to a breakup.

When I was in love, why did I mention breaking up, I haven't experienced a breakup, because my first partner we got married, so I feel that if I mention breaking up, there must be thousands of reasons.

may choose to break up because of the object's original family, it depends on whether the two people's feelings and hopes for each other, whether the expectations are completely consistent, and whether the object is changing or not, so the reason for choosing to break up is not simply the family, but the family's influence on him.

Breaking up with someone you still love is one of the most painful things in life. Many people ask"If you're still in love with someone, why break up with him? "I was one of them when I was younger.

But as I've gotten older, I've gained enough experience in relationships and learned some lessons. I now know that loving someone doesn't necessarily mean you're suitable. It may sound sad, but love isn't the only thing needed to maintain a relationship.

Sometimes, issues can be a hindrance, such as trust, work, college, friends, and family.

This may not come as a surprise to some, but to others it is a complete shock. Sometimes, you will find yourself thinking about ending things because of their family, especially their parents. In this case, I found that there are some key questions to ask myself before making a difficult decision.

Really think about it. How much do you really like your partner? What is your commitment?

If you think your relationship will stand the test of time, it's worth trying to reconcile with their parents. You don't want to let go of a good relationship just because you don't get along well with their parents. But as mentioned above, sometimes it's better to lose too early than to put it off until the end.

Therefore, if their parents are toxic and cause you too many bad feelings, you may need to make tough decisions to break up or find an effective way to distance yourself from them.

But at the same time, if you look at your partner and see red flags or possible breakup factors, why are you still with them? Don't stay in a relationship just because you don't want to deal with a breakup. In this case, this decision should not be considered.

Whenever you wake up from a dream, will you remember how much you and the one you liked loved each other? Do you remember why you broke up in the first place? Every couple breaks up is probably one of these four reasons!

1. Values are starting to change.

The reason why you like a woman in the first place may be very simple, maybe because he was smiling happily that day, or because he happened to be wearing a dress you liked. At first, the two of you loved vigorously. But in the process of getting along slowly, you find out how different each other's values are, and people with different values really can't be together.

Different values will affect your relationship in every way, and in the end you are separated, not because you don't love each other, but because you know that there will be no results for each other and you choose to let go.

2. Because parents do not agree.

The love when you are young does not need the consent of your parents, only two people need to love each other sincerely. But slowly, as you get older, the two of you want to give each other a home. But you find that there is really no way to break the obstacles of your parents.

His parents want him to find someone who is gentle and virtuous, and you are just a big grin. The two people who originally loved each other were hindered by their parents, and eventually the relationship became weaker and weaker, and finally you could no longer resist your parents and compromised with them, and then broke up.

3. Quarrel every day and start to get tired.

When you are in love, the two of you seem to have endless words, and when two people disagree, they will humble each other. But slowly, it seems that enough tolerance has been given to each other, and you no longer humble each other. Eventually, you end up arguing over a little thing, the woman wants the man to coax her, and the man wants the woman to be sensible.

In the end, the two chose to break up because of different ideas and quarrels again and again.

Fourth, the love period has passed, and the love has become boring.

I don't know if you have ever had a feeling that when you are in love, you love him to the core, and you can tolerate everything about him, even if it is his shortcomings. But when the love period is over, you will find out why you were so stupid in the first place, and you will wonder why you have lasted so long in this boring relationship. When a woman comes to her senses, it's time to break up.

After all, this relationship is no longer worth looking forward to.

Woman, I don't know if you still remember why you broke up in the first place, but the reason for the breakup should be no more than one of the four mentioned above!

Emotional things are much the same, no couple's relationship is smooth sailing, and they have to go through some twists and turns in the middle.

Some people have gotten through the difficulties of the bucket cover, and their feelings are getting better and better; Some people can't resolve the conflict and can only choose to break up.

To sum up, in fact, the reasons for those couples to break up are often the following.

The effort is not proportional to the return.

The reason why many couples break up is this, when a person feels unfair in the relationship and thinks that they have not been reciprocated for their efforts.

In the short term, you can also accept that you pay more and the other party pays less; But if they get along for a long time, and then consider the state after getting married and forming a family in the future, they can't accept that they have been aggrieved and quietly paid.

And the contribution includes: time, money, emotion, etc.

In the process of falling in love with each other, you spend a lot of money for each other, and half of your monthly salary is spent on your relationship; You buy gifts for each other, you treat them to dinner, and you also want to treat you to watching movies and drinking milk tea; Compared to your efforts, the other party's efforts are simply not worth mentioning.

Every holiday, the other person's birthday, you prepare a gift long in advance, and you want to surprise the other person.

But when it comes to your birthday, there is only a lukewarm cake, and every Valentine's Day, you don't receive a single gift.

In this extremely unbalanced state of love, it is bound to make the passive party begin to retreat inwardly.

And after retreating, the decision will be made after weighing the pros and cons: break up.

Lack of communication, cold treatment to solve the problem.

How many couples, after having a conflict, choose the Cold War to deal with the problem?

Every time there is a quarrel and a contradiction, there is a disagreement because of the discord of ideas, and when there is a quarrel because of a little thing in life, the problem is not dealt with in the first place.

Common scenarios tend to look like this:

Girl: You apologize to me.

Boy: Why should I apologize to you?

Girl: If you make me angry, you have to apologize to me.

Boy: I'm not wrong, why should I apologize? Am I wrong?

Girl: Think for yourself.

Most contradictions and quarrels will evolve into such a-for-tat situation.

And the next development is often that boys respond to conflicts with silence, and girls grasp the problem and insist that their boyfriends admit their mistakes.

No matter who is at fault for this contradiction, the girl must win her boyfriend in momentum, and she must make her boyfriend admit her mistake.

And boys often want to save face, and will not admit their mistakes at the first time, if it is not their mistakes, boys are even more unwilling to bow their heads easily.