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Anonymous users2024-02-15First, face up to your own shortcomings, forget those shortcomings, and don't let those weaknesses affect your success. Second, and most importantly, recognize and position yourself, grasp and trust your own strengths, develop your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and form advantages. To carry forward their own strengths, to avoid shortcomings, you should take the strengths of others to make up for your own shortcomings, be humble and serious to learn from things or people that are better than yourself, threesomes must have my teacher, this is the truth! In general, the situation you are in is caused by a lack of self-confidence, you should do what I ask, try :
1) Recall the path you have traveled, summarize your successes, and use your successes (no matter how big or small) to prove your strength. Consciously build your self-confidence. (2) Find out your own strengths, and discover your own shining points from your own study, work, life, interests, and hobbies.
3) Have the courage to make friends, take the initiative to approach friends, listen to their behavior and behavior, you can get reference, and at the same time, through the words and deeds of friends, you will have an objective and fair evaluation of your words and deeds. (4) Be good at comparison, learn to look at others and yourself correctly and comprehensively, and not always compare other people's strengths with your own shortcomings or use others' strengths with your own shortcomings. People have their own strengths and weaknesses.
To see a problem, you have to learn to divide it into two.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14How to see your strengths and weaknesses.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13I think that I have to write about one of my shortcomings every day, which is more conducive to soberly recognizing myself and improving self-guessing.
The first drawback, not strong in action.
In fact, I know that reading books has a lot of benefits for a person, and I have felt the joy and joy of gaining new knowledge and new perspectives. But ah, this half semester, I am becoming more and more impetuous, and I am becoming more and more calm to do things. Actually, I think it's really bad in my heart, but ah, I can't change anything.
I feel tired and tired every day, but ah, I really haven't done anything for a day. Every day, I really feel like I have no direction, no goal, and it's hard to move forward.
I hope that I can get out of the lost state and return to normal soon. In fact, I am also a sunny girl at heart, and I look forward to my achievements, but I lack some confidence and confidence at present. And confidence and confidence need my actions to achieve.
Force yourself to read more books, watch less mobile phones and TV, these are just waves, and the fire will be extinguished after a while. Read more books, recite more ancient poems, and accumulate more beautiful words and sentences, so that what is poured out of the mouth is really fragrant, which makes people appreciate and appreciate, and exudes an elegant temperament, which is praised and envied!
Self-reflection on one's own strengths and weaknesses should be combined with one's own situation and one's own perception to write, the following is a reference: >>>More
There are many ways to know yourself urgently, for example, you can make yourself aware of your own shortcomings through self-examination, so that you can clearly recognize yourself and see what you still need to correct.
As you can see from your description above, you feel unconfident, have low self-esteem, and have a phobia of communication. Finding your own advantages is that it can increase your self-confidence, but it is of little use, people with low self-esteem, introversion and lack of self-confidence will not dare to communicate with others at most, for fear of rejection, but your situation is more serious. It is recommended that you first enrich yourself, improve your abilities in all aspects, communicate with others online, improve your love for interpersonal relationships, and speech organization skills.
Your own advantages are not said by yourself, but your leaders or colleagues can see them more clearly, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear. Just be yourself.
Growing up, I was full of joy, full of smiles, full of self-confidence, full of happiness, as time went by, not only did I grow taller, but also my knowledge and ability were more and more under the teaching and encouragement of school teachers. >>>More