I suddenly wanted to give up writing

In fact, writing is really not a *** job, but it can be used as a hobby! You can write when you want to! It must feel very good, and now I'm thinking like this, but the level of writing is not good, and I have no experience, so I'm learning it quickly!

In fact, writing and computers can be combined very well.

I ask you, do you love writing?

What is your attitude towards writing? Is it a hobby, or a task?

I feel like you're taking writing as a task. You feel that not being able to write is a burden, and you feel anxious about it.

If you really love writing, you shouldn't be so impatient. It's normal to not be able to write, and who told you that words are bound to be sentimental? It's not that the person who writes witty ** is not alive?!!

Just because you read a book that teaches people not to worry, so you are out of inspiration? It's funny to say. According to you, do all the writers in the world have to have a sad feeling?

Don't be surprised that you haven't fallen in love with writing yet. You still feel that writing is a burden, and if you can't write it, you will get irritated. People who really love writing never think like this.

When they can't write, they don't think of giving up, but look for inspiration in other ways.

If you think that writing has no future, then there is nothing I can do, indeed, writing is not just "writing" to write about the future, but also depends on luck in various aspects. So, you can also make writing a hobby, which will be a little easier for you. At least you don't have to worry about not being able to write and eat in the future.

Come to think of it, writing is not an easy path.

In the real world, beauty and ugliness coexist, but what people pursue is beauty. People believe that life cannot be lived without beauty, and that life without beauty is unthinkable.

There have been many different interpretations of what beauty is, and there is no universally accepted definition of beauty. There is beauty all around us, and we observe beauty when we observe the morning light; When we listen to the flow of the stream, we hear beauty; When we look at the liveliness of youth, we can see the beauty ......It can be seen that beauty is everywhere, and the definition of beauty is not limited.

For me, beauty is a perfect meaning. Absolutely"Beauty"Too perfect becomes unbeautiful. So sometimes I think"Giving up is also a beauty".

Many people will be surprised to hear me say this"Giving up is a sign of not being strong-willed, is this also a kind of beauty? "At this time, I will say to them:"In today's world, beauty is everywhere, which determines that the meaning of beauty is also unlimited, so beauty in the world is not all the same.

Who doesn't know that when you look at a painter's work, you can appreciate a kind of beauty that is incomplete. Is there a mutilated beauty, and there is no abandonment of beauty?

In our study life, we have encountered all kinds of things, for example: a student wants to be a class president in the class, but he is not elected when he is voted, he is not discouraged, but very confident. In the next round of election for the study committee, his speech made the students unanimously elect him, doesn't this show that giving up is a beauty?

If he does not give up the idea of running for the position of class president and still refuses to face the reality, then he will not become a member of the study committee in the next round of elections. There are many examples like this in our lives, and don't these examples embody the beauty of this renunciation?

There are a lot of people who don't have the right way to deal with a lot of things. For example, we have a difficult time during the exam, and we have to answer the questions within a limited time.

Some people spend a long time on a question until the time of handing in the paper, and still still don't do it. This may not seem like a big problem, but as soon as the scores come out, we can find the problem. It turned out that the student had made many simple questions wrong due to carelessness.

And because he didn't recheck it, the problem came out. Why didn't he take the time to check it? Just because he is too stubborn and wants to finish every question, he thinks that it is a beauty to finish the whole test paper, and he is very down-to-earth, and he is sure that he will get high fans.

In the end, practice turned out that it was not.

This example illustrates that attachment is sometimes a mistake, and giving up is sometimes a beauty. Don't fill our minds with them"Complete beauty"image, which will make us make beautiful mistakes.

So, giving up is also a kind of beauty!

Write about the problems you encounter in your life and want to give up, but.

**In the early stages of creation, be sure not to rush things.

I also wrote about it, and I think it's pretty good. You should read some of other people's **, not just read, pay attention to how he opened and so on, in your own conception, remember, be sure to think well in writing. Then ask others to read it, find out the mistakes, and then revise them.

It may have to be changed many times, but this is the only way to write **, if this can't be maintained, you still don't want to write. In short, writing ** lies in persistence and revision, I hope you can write it down and write your own masterpiece.

**The writing is slowly practiced, write more**, natural practice makes perfect. Remember, imagination is indispensable. Always write around the main purpose of the center.

** The events that occur in are also linked to the purpose of the center. The essay you write is not too serious, just pay attention to the number of words, events, and characters you write in place.

Try making an outline of what you want to write about each chapter and section, and then polish it slowly, remembering not to rush.

This topic is more like a reflection and organization of one's own life and use of time, which may be divided into two steps.

This choice will undoubtedly be the choice of the vast majority of people, but just know, how much has been done in practice?

Eating : Overall, I eat a relatively healthy diet with three regular meals a day, and the fundamental reason is that I have children, and because of the needs of children, I am forced to pay attention to the healthy eating of family members.

Time : How much time I spend on eating, I have kept a record of a period of time, it is really a lot, it takes about 2-3 hours a day, including the time for preparation, cooking, washing and tidying up.

Sleep: In order to be able to wake up between 5:30-6:00 in the morning, the expected bedtime should be 9:30 in the eveningBut it's often not until 10:30 a.m. that you actually fall asleep.

Exercise: At present, the weekly exercise should be the least important part, and the most regular exercise program should be to take the child to and from school, and the walking time should be about 20 minutes a day.

Family is a much more important part to me than work, because this principle, which has been chosen over the last few years, is that the family must be together. But when I look back on the time, I find that this part is the part that I value in my heart but the action is the least clear, for example, the time of companionship is not short, but the high-quality companionship is not much. I once read a book called "The Five Languages of Love", and what I wanted to do the most was a careful moment, that is, a special time every week for the whole family to talk about their lives for the week, to share happiness and sadness, but it was always planned, and it has been 2 years.

The kids were supposed to go to bed between 8 and 8:30 every night, but the earliest time to go to bed was always after 9 o'clock.

The current working hours are 6 hours per day, plus traffic for about an hour. Except for 1 hour in the morning, there is no pattern to studying, and you can only use fragmented time, while writing requires a relatively quiet environment and a whole block of time.

If I expect to need one hour of writing time a day, then I need to have dinner time in advance, try my best to reply to WeChat and other messages in fragmented time, reduce the number of times my phone is unlocked, so that the children can wash up before 8 o'clock, go to bed at 8:30 for half an hour of goodnight stories, and then use the 1 hour before 10 o'clock to write and organize the rotten materials. At the same time, increase the exercise time on weekends and add 20 minutes of brisk walking on weekdays and evenings.

At this point, I suddenly found that maybe the topic itself is not valid, or maybe we don't need to give up anything to start writing, but to re-examine our use of time and be more self-disciplined. I remember that in Luo Fat's 2016 New Year's Eve speech, there is a paragraph about beauty, "The value of all efforts in life is to become a part of beauty, and you first need to know what is beautiful, make yourself better and more decent in the continuous pursuit of life interest, this is self-discipline", we are self-disciplined because of the pursuit of life, and self-discipline is achieved because of self-discipline. ”

I hope to encourage you with your friends!