When I love someone, he is very good to you, should I cherish it?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-14
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Of course, you should cherish it, otherwise it will be too late to regret it when you lose it, you have to grasp the present.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, let alone changing it when you are tired What do you think love is? A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss? Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it The main body of love is life, living together Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to bear all the pressure? Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life? Have you ever imagined how you go on when the enthusiasm fades and the hug doesn't appeal to you anymore?

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer For the sake of the person you love deeply, please make some sacrifices and keep your love Otherwise, how can you talk about true love You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart. Ask yourself, do you love so much? Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, let alone changing it when you are tired Life is not a good life for one person It is how two people live well together But for some objective reasons, in reality you can't be together at the moment Do you give up so easily and compromise? Can't you keep it for love? Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life? If it is true love, it will never give up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    It is wrong to think that this view of love is wrong.

    Love is mutually exciting, and only mutual love can last for a long time. If only one party is always giving, then no matter how high this fortress of stupid socks love is built, it will eventually collapse.

    A good love should be that we love each other, the status between us is equal, there is no question of who loves more and loves less, and does not love. We have all put all our strength into this relationship, and this is a qualified love.

    Even if you feel that you want to be the one who is pampered, but after a long time, everyone will be tired, and he will feel very hard, because his wholehearted love will never be reciprocated.

    You will also feel very hard, you will become more and more bored with him, a person you don't love is full of your chaotic life, you will feel more and more bored, after all, it is verbose to care more and more about someone you don't love.

    As soon as someone treats you well, you like him very much, which can only show that you are a very kind person. This incident can only show that your heart is relatively soft, and you should be a person who knows how to repay your kindness in life. If someone does something good for you, you will always remember him.

    I think this incident only proves that you are a kind person. If a person is good to you, whether male or female, you like him, it does not mean that you will like him in life and in your relationship. So I think this incident only shows that you are a kind and soft-hearted person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Drinking plain water quenches my thirst and is healthy, but I still choose Coke, which makes me happy. I guess that's what people who don't love you think and do in love.

    If you are good to a person for a long time, will he be moved? Yes.

    If I have been good to a person for a long time, will he like me because he is moved? No.

    Love between a man and a woman is a wonderful thing, like two magnets that attract different names, and they can only be together if they attract each other. If it is a magnet of the same name, even if it is combined by a strong force from the outside world, it is only temporary. Once this external force disappears, they must be mutually exclusive by their own strength.

    Man is a forgetful creature, if you are good to him, he will most likely forget it quickly, even if he remembers how much you have paid, he will not fall in love with you because he is moved.

    In the world of love, there is only you and I in the world. When you send a lot of information to the other person, and the other person only replies with a few words; When you call the other party with enthusiasm, and the other party only says that he is very busy and hangs up**; When you confess to the other person that I like you, and the other person just coldly says that he knows......"Licking the dog" type of love is not love, it is humble, humble to the self-touching of the dust of the Eri.

    When you get tired one day and stop to look at yourself behind you, you will definitely say to yourself: I'm so stupid.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hello landlord! The Maple Memories team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If there is someone who loves you very much and treats you very well, I will like him because of this. Some people may think that people like me are unprincipled, and those who believe that I think like this are not necessarily in the minority.

    What a girl wants is nothing more than safety, stability, and a person who loves her wholeheartedly. And this person is very good to you, gives you a sense of security, can also be very stable, and loves you, will you still refuse? I believe that whoever meets such a person, no matter how firm I have been in my heart, I will be shaken by my iron heart.

    This is what we used to call long-term love.

    For example, sometimes in life, when you meet the first person, you will wonder why this person looks so ugly. Actually, this 1st side feeling is the most accurate. If you think according to ordinary people, you won't like this person because you are ugly?

    But with the improvement of understanding, the passage of time, and the contact between two people for a long time, you will find this person. It's not as ugly as you think at first. Why do you think so?

    It's because he's always been nice to you, he's always liked you. In fact, your initial judgment was correct, he himself was ugly, but because of what he did later, his status in your mind was reversed. So you get the impression that he's not that ugly.

    In fact, at this time, because he is so good to you, you have begun to like it. It's just that you don't realize it. So a person will like him because he is too good to you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I've received more than one request for help along the lines of, "I don't think I like this guy too much, but he's really nice to me, should I say yes?" "To be honest, I understand.

    As a girl, who doesn't want to be pampered? But that shouldn't be a reason to start a relationship. To start a relationship, it must be because you have attracted him, he has attracted you, you love him, he loves you, you have a great grasp of how two people will be happier and sweeter together than if they are single.

    This is the attitude of being responsible for feelings. It's not terrible to be single, it's terrible to be in casual love.

    Young girls must bear in mind that good feelings must be prudent, and good feelings must be rather lacking than excessive. Never be with a person because they are "nice to you".

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, very firmly. I'm that kind of person, I just don't like it, and I won't like it for the rest of my life! To be with a guy just because he is "good for himself" is irresponsible to him and irresponsible to himself.

    Many people think that falling in love is equal to sweetness, but it is not. Some loves, the more they talk, the more lonely they become, and the more they talk, the more they don't talk about the donkey's lips - because this kind of love is not right from the beginning.

    Being with a person because they are "good to you" is obviously hoping that they will be "good to you" consistently, but do you really like him enough?

    I'm afraid not. And if you don't like him enough, you just take his good for granted in the relationship, but people's hearts are always long, he is good to you, he hopes to "give him a peach, repay him", he needs your response, and you don't love him, giving a response is a burden for you.

    So in the end it becomes that both people are tired – he is tired of paying, and you are even more tired of responding.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are not many people who are chasing, everyone must have his good, but he doesn't call, sometimes he feels that he is not too face-controlled, but there are also good-looking people who are chasing, sometimes I wonder if I like women, but the feeling of female friends is not that feeling, it seems that I am born with a lack of love tendons, sometimes I want to try? The slightest thought of holding hands with the other party or something, I felt goosebumps, and then refused. So I don't think I like each other because they're good to me.

    However, there has never been a person who has been too kind to me, and there seem to be only two people who send things because they want to chase me.

    When I was in school, I didn't have a good impression of my male classmates, but after college, I met someone who had tried to get my attention. After graduation, because of the nature of my work, I met a lot of obscene uncles, and I basically went to**was picked up**, and it was rare to change departments and meet peers, and I was also collectively teased at every turn, and I wanted to hold my hand or something, so I felt very disgusting. The so-called boys in the village who know the roots introduced by their parents are not the same frequency when they look at it, and the strange rate is 99%.

    Because I went on a blind date with someone in my early thirties before I officially graduated, there were only one or two people of the same age during the period, and now I am disgusted when I mention the blind date, and the resistance is ineffective.

    I'm introverted and homely.,Since school, I've basically only played with girls.。 However, changing jobs and going to different places will always easily attract the attention of boys, and there are also people who say that they like my face and my personality. But the person who fell in love with my face is obscene and double-standard, I said that if I like a star, you will kick me, only you can control your face in the world, I can't?

    And didn't say how you were at all?

    To be honest, no matter what gender, who is not a face control? Otherwise, why do everyone try to make themselves look good? But good-looking people can't be obscene, temperament from the inside out, your soul is ugly, and the clues can be seen from your words and deeds.

    Sometimes I feel that I may have a serious mental cleanliness, but I have always demanded this from myself, and what I personally think I can do, my object should be able to do it. I like people who make progress together, so I hope that the other person is also a person who pursues excellence.

    So the type I like is the cold Xueba type, which is difficult to achieve, and the idea of a Xueba will be a little strange, not much to say but to have something to say to the person you like, such a person is really difficult to meet. I'm afraid that I'll be forced to find someone to live with before I meet it.。。 Every day, while trying to make yourself excellent, I am afraid that no one will understand in this life.

    Probably because my level is sandwiched in the middle, I am still working hard compared to the bottom, and I have no time to pay attention to the above. So I'm going to keep trying to be good.

    Usually pretend to be very tired, there is nowhere to say what to say in my heart, I can't say it to my friends, the more familiar people are, the more they can't say what they think about it, they are afraid of being preached, and the pressure comes from preaching, but when persuading people, it will always be easy to become a preaching party that they don't like, it is better to state it on the Internet, anyway, I don't say that I am very right, I don't say that I am wrong, that is, I state the facts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, every girl wants to be pampered. In the face of the boys' sweet words, and meticulous care. It's easy to fall in love. At first, it was dependence, then it was moved, and finally it was love. Provided that the boy is not annoying.

    Nowadays, many girls are required to have a house and a car when they fall in love, and they are more materially rich.

    Especially some otaku girls, there are fewer people in contact, and their thoughts are relatively simple, if someone treats her well, she will think that this is love.

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