It s only been two months since I ve been in a relationship and my boyfriend asks to live together,

Updated on parenting 2024-08-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Tactfully refused. Because you have only been in love for 2 months, you don't know him well enough, so you can't live together, and you should politely refuse.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    We can seriously refuse a boyfriend's request to live together. We can tell our boyfriend that we have been dating for a short time and that we want to wait until we are dating a little longer before we consider cohabitation. If our boyfriend loves us, he will be able to understand our thoughts.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    The best thing to do is to feel like you are breaking up with him and wanting to live together so soon, which means that all he likes is your body.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    When a new boyfriend asks to live together, the best way is to politely refuse. The purpose of making friends between a man and a woman is to get married and become husband and wife in the future. It's best to say no to a request for cohabitation from a boyfriend you've just dated.

    1.If your new boyfriend asks to live together, then as a girl, you must refuse and cannot agree to his request. Because girls must protect themselves and can't live together without getting married.

    You can say to him, "Look, my dear, we haven't been together for long. Even though we've been dating for a long time, I don't think we should live together if we're not married.

    My boyfriend who just dated asked for cohabitation and didn't agree, because you don't know each other, your relationship is not deep, and you haven't gotten to the point of not getting married, so you don't want to live with a man casually, and it's not appropriate to do so if you live together. It's always the woman who suffers, and it's not good for your reputation. There are not many people who talk about fame now, but people always have to respect themselves in order to win respect.

    2.You should be bold enough to refuse him. I think your boyfriend's purpose is not simple, probably just the idea of having fun.

    I don't think you've ever met each other, so you must not know each other very well. Without an emotional foundation, it is not certain whether you can get along or not. If you live together without getting married, you are likely to self-harm.

    You have to be cautious about your boyfriend's requests. Girls should know how to protect themselves, knowing that once they live together before marriage and cannot get married after breaking up, the woman will be hurt more than the man. You've just confirmed your relationship, and it's uncertain whether you'll be able to get married in the end.

    Is it too early to ask for cohabitation? You have to communicate with your boyfriend seriously. Out of respect for you, he will respect your opinion.

    3.After all, it is only the beginning of the relationship, and the two parties have not yet understood and rashly cohabited. The most vulnerable are female friends. If a guy has just gone on a date and asks for cohabitation, you must decisively refuse. A boyfriend who respects you will understand you and will not force you to live together.

    If your new boyfriend asks you to live with him, if you don't want to, you can tell him directly, hoping you don't move in together so soon. Now is not the time, it is better to wait until you know each other for a longer time, and then consider the issue of two people living together. Don't worry too much, just arrange for two people to live together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Two months is too fast, so quickly promote the relationship process of two people, beware of the other party just wants to get your body instead of being serious, and intends to be together for a long time, after all, people's lives are not short, and the rest of their lives are so long, they should not be so impatient and quickly promote the relationship process. You're still hesitating in your heart, which means that you don't think you should have reached that point yet.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No. Although two months is not a particularly short time, cohabitation can seem too fast.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think I should promise the other party, after all, girls should learn to protect themselves and not let others think that they are a very casual person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Most couples, after dating for a while, will always talk about cohabitation. There will be many reasons to live together, such as: living together can save rent; Living together allows you to get to know each other better; Living together can make the relationship between two people better.

    My boyfriend who has been with me for two months wants to live with me, should I refuse? I think it can be analyzed from the following two aspects:

    (1) Ask him what is the reason for cohabitation?

    The boyfriend has already proposed to live together, so you can ask him directly what is the reason for cohabitation? Look at how he is; See if he is true and reliable; Let's see if he has any plans for your life after you live together. If he is very perfunctory, or does not satisfy you very much, then consider not cohabiting for a while.

    On the contrary, if he is sincere and has a certain plan for your cohabitation life, then you can consider cohabitation.

    Be sure to follow your heart, don't do things you don't like, even in relationships, and don't force yourself casually.

    (2) What is the root cause of cohabitation?

    The question of cohabitation bothers you a lot, and there must be some factors. You can try to ask yourself what is the root of your struggles? Find this root cause, and communicate with your boyfriend to solve this root cause, then the question of cohabitation or non-living will not bother you.

    Therefore, when you are entangled in a problem, you can often choose to communicate directly with the other party and solve the problem, so that you will not be troubled by this problem.

    The above is what I think: my boyfriend who has been with me for two months wants to live with me, should I refuse his two suggestions. In fact, the focus is on the communication between the two!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It should be denied. Because the two of you have only been together for two months, there is no need to live with each other, you should decisively refuse, and you must protect yourself as a girl.

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