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It is often said that when educating children, we should try to think from the child's point of view, which is the experience of many excellent parents. Because only by calming down to understand the child's thoughts can parents empathize and communicate with each other on the same level. That's when each other's thoughts can really be conveyed to each other.
Over time, the parent-child relationship will become more and more harmonious, the child will become more obedient, and the parents will be much more open-minded. Of course, there are many other benefits to being considerate of children.
Life experience has taught us that we all like to play with our peers because we are ideologically aligned and it is easy to find a common language on certain topics. For example, children like to watch cartoons, but adults are obviously not interested, even if they are forced to talk about this content, the naivety of one party and the seriousness and reason of the other party will erupt into various conflicts. Children believe that there is a Superman, and parents instinctively think that Superman is fake, so they tend to find another person who says "Monkey King is better than Superman" to chat.
This is caused by the fact that the height of thinking is too different, and we cannot disguise the innocence of children, let alone consciously say some whimsical words.
Looking at the problem from the perspective of children, we can solve the problem of ideological differences and forcibly pull each other's cognitive level to the same benchmark. In this way, the common language of the two people will increase, and the generation gap between the two generations will be well bridged. For example, children who do not pay attention to hygiene always make themselves dirty, and parents are very eager to correct this problem.
If only verbal education or violent punishment will not have much effect, but will hurt the parent-child relationship. At this time, parents can bring their children's perspective, because they are afraid of monsters, and use bacteria or bugs to scare them by analogy with monsters, and the effect will be much better.
Empathizing with the child is also very conducive to resolving the conflict between the two. For example, if a child accidentally breaks a vase, he lies and says that it was made by a dog. It is not of much use for parents to punish him at this time, but instead they should think carefully about why he lied.
Maybe the last mistake left a shadow on them, so they would rather take a risk than admit their mistake to their face. Therefore, parents should correct some of their behaviors, not be too strict, and let education return to content rather than formality. It is far more meaningful to let them recognize their mistakes, admit their mistakes, and realize the truth of life than to punish them.
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In most cases, I think from the child's point of view, because only in this way can I have a good communication with the child and understand their inner state.
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When educating children, I will look at problems from the child's point of view, understand his behavior, support his decision-making, and give him encouragement.
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When educating children, I will look at the problem from the perspective of the child, and only by looking at it from the perspective of the child can I better educate the child.
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I will, because simply looking at the problem from my own perspective is incomplete and not good for children.
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Few parents are aware of this problem, and if they do, then educating their children is a very simple matter.
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I will. Because children have a very strong temper, thinking and solving problems from the child's perspective can communicate effectively.
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When educating children, they will put themselves in the child's shoes. Because the child is small, he also has his own world. If parents can think from the perspective of their children, they can educate their children better.
After all, only by understanding and understanding children can we get closer to our children. Therefore, when educating children, you can try to consider the problem from the child's point of view, so that you can better understand the child's feelings.
1.See things from a child's point of view
In the process of educating children, they will look at problems from the perspective of children, because looking at problems from different perspectives will have different ideas. As a parent, you should develop good habits, be cautious in your words and deeds, and set a good example for your children. If parents can think from the perspective of their children, they can see the essence of the problem from the perspective of the overall situation, understand their children's thoughts, and can also get closer to their children more quickly and make the parent-child relationship more harmonious.
2.Communicate deeply with your child
In the process of educating children, it is necessary to communicate with children appropriately and understand what they are thinking. When parents can think about problems from the perspective of their children, it will also help to solve problems. For example:
Children are introverted, slow to heat, and not very sociable, parents will encourage children to participate in social activities, for children, dealing with people is not good at children. Therefore, if parents know their children's personality characteristics, they can reduce the frequency of their children's participation in social activities and focus on developing the things that their children are good at, so as to give full play to their children's strengths.
3.Actively guide your child
As the saying goes: to educate children to pay attention to ways and means. In the process of educating children, if parents develop their children's behavior habits badly, they can guide their children to correct them.
Parents may wish to put themselves in their children's shoes and think about how their children's bad habits are formed. When parents can understand all aspects of their children from the side, it is more conducive to educating children to form good behavior habits. Because of the exchange of identities to think about problems, parents can better understand their children's behaviors and practices, and through their children's specific performance, they can use the right methods and techniques to help their children establish good habits.
Educate children to think from the child's point of view, so that they can understand their thoughts more comprehensively. It is precisely because of knowing and understanding the child's position that the child can be educated better.
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Every parent wants their children to be obedient and sensible, when educating their children, many parents will let their children must do what adults think, if the child is completely based on their own ideas, some parents will feel that their children are disobedient. In fact, sometimes the problem is multifaceted, each of us is an independent individual, including the child he also has his own ideas, then you might as well stand in the child's perspective to look at the problem from a new perspective.
I think when we look at the problem from the perspective of the child, its premise is first of all to treat it sincerely, only when the parents have always maintained sincerity to the child, the child will tell you his own thoughts, will say his own needs, then as a parent should understand and respect the child's ideas, must abandon their own prejudices to be able to trust each other, but also to guide the child well. Sometimes looking at problems from a child's perspective is also a way to love children, and it is a virtuous circle of family education.
In addition to that, we can also be friends with the children, and friends can talk to each other about everything. No matter what happens, we can ask the children what they think at the first time, and only by living in peace and looking at the problems from the child's point of view can life be harmonious.
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Although I think like this a lot of the time, it is still difficult to think from the child's point of view when I am really faced with educating children, after all, it is difficult to think rationally when I am extremely angry.
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Personally, I will look at the problem from the child's point of view when educating the child, because I will be friends with the child, and friends can promote the relationship with the child more closely than the parents, and will make the relationship between us more intimate, so that the child's growth tends to be good.
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Yes, I will put myself in my child's shoes, understand his ideas, support his decisions, and give him sound advice.
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Introduction: Parents must think from the child's point of view, and don't always look at the child with their own eyes, so that the child will never get your appreciation. Children need the encouragement of their parents in order to grow up well, and parents should not always impose their own ideas on their children.
Each child has his or her own independent personality and has his own thoughts. Today, I will tell you what angles you should stand on when educating children.
If a parent can put himself in the shoes of his child, many problems can be solved. Most of the children want to become very close to their parents, if they see their parents blindly forcing themselves to do things, children will be estranged from their parents, estrangement, children will not be able to listen to their parents' ideas, many parents are always accustomed to looking at problems from their own point of view, do not want to change their thinking, children will be very painful. Parents should consider their children's feelings more and don't always put their own feelings on their children, because children are different from adults.
Parents should teach their children not to blindly abuse their children, but to tell them whether they are doing it right. Parents should reason with their children, tell their children what kind of punishment they will receive if they do not complete things, and let their children look forward to the future, such an educational method is the most correct, do not hurt the feelings between children and themselves, parents should understand that children have what they like to do, parents should support their children, and let their children do what they like to do.
If parents want to get along well with their children, they must first learn to let go of their parents' shelves, and let go of their parents' shelves, so that children will feel that their parents understand them very well. Children will be very willing to get along with their parents, regard their parents as their friends, and parents must learn to stand in the child's education to reason with their children, so that children will be more receptive to their parents' ideas.
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When educating children, parents must set an example for their children, set a particularly good example for their children, and achieve deep communication with their children.
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It is often said that interlacing is like separating mountains. When we comment on a matter, we often stand on our own standpoint, and without in-depth and impossible to understand the laws of a certain industry, the development situation, or the causes and consequences of a certain event, and the specific situation, it is inevitable that it will be unfair and wrong.
Based on this situation, as long as it is a matter of principle or right and wrong, we should be humble and tolerant, and we should continue to learn, enrich and improve ourselves, and tolerate others. Especially when it comes to educating children.
Therefore, whether it is a teacher, an expert or a parent, when educating children, they can look at problems from the perspective of children, understand children, treat children's learning and growth, and children's growth may be less troublesome; Parents will also be less anxious; The social and educational environment will be much better.
Looking at children's education from the perspective of children, treating children's education should be what education should pursue.
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It should stand from the perspective of family, guardians, parents, family relations, and society.
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When educating children, you should stand on the child's education to talk to the child, so that the child is more acceptable, do not stand in the position of an adult to talk to the child, you must learn to understand the child, tolerate the child.
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Of course, we should talk to the child from the child's point of view, so that the child can listen to it, and this kind of education will be meaningful.
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The first thing is to maintain the same height with the child, and we must respect the child's thoughts and thoughts, and do not give the child a sense of domineering.
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On the whole, few parents now look at the problem from the perspective of their children, and many parents have a strong subjectivity when educating their children and impose their will on their children. This leads to conflicts, sometimes prominent and acute, between parents and children. And it's not uncommon for parents to not look at the problem from their children's point of view, and I think many parents have a similar situation to a greater or lesser extent.
If this is the case, should parents reflect on themselves? <>
1. Why don't parents look at the problem from the perspective of their children?
I have found that many parents do not see the problem from their child's point of view unintentionally. They don't even realize that they are not looking at things from the child's point of view. Because many parents have good intentions, they feel that they are doing so much for the good of their children.
So they unconsciously see their thoughts as children's thoughts, which causes them to do a lot of unconscious behavior. Like many parents, regardless of whether their children like it or not, they send their children to extracurricular interest classes to learn piano calligraphy. In fact, the child does not really like it in his heart, and the parents feel that it will be helpful to the child in the future, so they force the child to learn this.
Second, parents should change their concepts and consider problems from the perspective of their children<> if parents' starting points are good, then to a certain extent, it is worth affirming. But in the long run, parents should still change their concept of education and consider problems from the perspective of their children. Because as children get older, their own subjective thoughts also become more mature, and they have their own opinions on some things.
At this time, parents can no longer impose their own concepts on their children, if you impose your own concepts on children at this time, children will also resist. In addition, children are prone to becoming rebellious when they reach adolescence, so parents need to consider the problem from the child's perspective to understand their true inner thoughts. In this way, the relationship with the child can be fundamentally improved and the degree of harmony in the family can be enhanced.
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