Which children have you seen who are successful in their education?

My mom. She couldn't even believe what she was doing. I have poor learning ability, I am slow to learn everything, and my comprehension is not very good.

What I learned in elementary school was very simple, but I almost never got a perfect score when most people were able to get a perfect score. Every time, I was left by the teacher to make up for my homework, and when I went home, the aunt who helped cross the road had already gone home. I didn't dare to cross the road alone, crying and crying to my parents **, let them pick me up, a few days ago when talking about the past, my mother asked me with a shocked face, "You also had someone to help cross the road at that time?"

How come I don't remember? "Mom, wasn't I left behind by the teacher, and they would have gone home long ago when I came out," but every time I came home from the exam, my mother never scolded me once. She even said, it's okay, the test is good, just don't be wrong next time.

Several times, I sadly asked her if I was really stupid. She said, "You know what? The larger the pot, the slower the boiling water.

Their pot is small, so it opens quickly. But your pot is big, you have to boil it slowly. You may not be as good as others now, but you will do better than others in the future!

It's a textbook education! She encouraged me like that, and she always encouraged me. And then eventually, I was admitted to the National People's Congress.

The reputation of the National People's Congress is not as good as that of Qingbei, but it is also a very powerful school. Anyway, fifteen years ago, I would never have thought that I would be admitted to such a school, and even my parents would not believe it. But I did, and I gave myself a very good starting point with my mother's encouragement.

Mom did a lot of really great things, but I think that's the best thing my mom did. ‍‍

The sleeper is only two floors, so there are four bunks in a small cubicle, I am the upper bunk, and the upper bunk opposite me is an old lady about 60 years old with her little granddaughter. There is no requirement to change the bunks, even if the two lower bunks are young and middle-aged women and male college students who are going to college (the best group of people in the whole society), the lights are turned off early, the children can't sleep, and the grandmother is coaxing softly, the central idea is 1) I have to take a plane tomorrow so I have to have a good rest 2) Don't disturb others, the grandparents and grandchildren get up very early, but I don't know if I get up for a long time; Everyone woke up and started to wash, and grandma began to meet her daughter ** who was far away in Canada, and also let her granddaughter meet her mother who was about to meet. Among them, I heard her daughter who had the temper of a "Northeast tigress" complain about how hard her work was, and the old lady enlightened her very gently, but when her daughter complained that her husband was looking for a job here with a lower salary than herself, the old lady was directly angry, she said

How can you think that? If you think about it, xx used to live a good life in Beijing, everything was good at work, you said you wanted to immigrate, and people went out with you without saying a word, and now people are a little unsatisfactory at work, you are sorry for others, how can you still complain? Marriage is a matter of two people, and you can't listen to everything, how can you think that?

Her daughter sneered, "I don't say anything in front of him, isn't it complaining to you?" "Old lady:

You shouldn't think like that, not to mention that life is like this, one moment he walks in front of you and one moment you walk in front of him, you have to be considerate and tolerant of each other, right? "Wow, I was so touched to hear it at the time, this is the gentlest old lady I have seen in my 26 years of living in the Northeast. ‍‍

I went to a wedding and sat at the same table with two parents with small children. One of them stared at a plate of food and ate it violently, and the others would stare at it as soon as they turned the table, and their mother watched the whole time, smiling apologetically and rightfully at their tablemates. The table finally turned around, and the other child sat a little farther away, and after taking a bite, he wanted to eat, but the turntable had already turned away.

The child whispered, "Mommy, I still want to eat that." The mother smiled slightly, "Baby, is this dish delicious?" "It's delicious.

But this dish was invited by my aunt (bride) to all of us, wouldn't it be good if we all gave it to you alone? The baby thought for a while and said a little loudly, "But my brother ate a lot by himself just now." Another mom made an embarrassed face.

The mother smiled and said, "My brother's mother hasn't taught my brother this truth, so the baby will tell my brother, okay?" The little boy raised his head with a sense of responsibility, and said righteously to the child who was holding the turntable

My aunt invited us to eat these dishes, so we all want to eat them together! The mother smiled and broke her son's hand.

I watched "Train to Busan" with my dad. After reading it, I said, in fact, the executive who killed a lot of people is also quite pitiful, although he has done a lot of bad things, but from his point of view, he also asked others to send him home when he was a child, and he became the selfish person he is today. My dad listened to me, and then told me seriously, sometimes after being deceived and pitted, he decided to be hard-hearted and learn to be indifferent, which is understandable.

But don't use the excuse that you protect your interests to cover up your own natural selfishness and indifference, learning to be kind is always your own business. ‍

The niece was crying in the living room, and everyone couldn't do anything about the two or three-year-old little Lori. I saw that my dad took a glass of water unhurriedly, patted her, drank saliva first, and then couldn't cry when his voice was hoarse. My niece was a little confused, but she still drank a sip of water, my dad saw it, praised it, and if you cry, you have to drink water, otherwise you won't be able to cry after a while, the gains outweigh the losses, the niece nodded, continued to cry, cried for a while, wiped her tears, drank saliva, and my dad went to cook.

After a while, the drama spirit felt bored and stopped crying. ‍‍

On the subway, a grandmother was saying bad things about the child's mother to her five- or six-year-old grandson, and she was spending money indiscriminately, regardless of her family or something. The little boy listened for a while and said, "Grandma, Mommy has shortcomings, and she won't know until you tell her."

Grandma said, "I still tell her? Silly boy, how can you say this in front of her!

The little boy continued: "Mother said, if you can't say it in front of people, don't say it behind your back, otherwise you won't be a gentleman in the open." The people in the subway laughed when they heard this, and the child's grandmother looked embarrassed. ‍‍

Children who are successful in educating will be polite and sensible and know what to do and what not to do.

I watched Huang Lei's daughter Duoduo in "Where Are You Going, Dad" before, and I felt that Duoduo was really very sensible, still so young, but she understood a lot.

Not necessarily, as long as you give your child the best education, you will definitely succeed, as long as you do your best, as for whether the child succeeds, that is, depending on the child's degree of effort is different from person to person.

Give your child the best education, this may not necessarily be successful, but the probability of success is relatively large. So it still depends on the child's own learning ability. If he is a person who loves to learn, then a good education will definitely be more successful.

As long as the best education is given to the child, it does not ensure the ultimate success, because this is a manifestation of comprehensive quality, in addition to grades, more also needs the formation of a person's good character and behavioral habits, so success is not achieved overnight.

Prague, a British physicist, was very poor when he was a child, but with his unremitting pursuit of his dreams and tenacious efforts, he finally achieved a lot. And the poor years he experienced became the motivation to move forward in the future.

When he was in school, his parents could not buy him beautiful clothes and comfortable shoes because his family's economic conditions were too poor, and he was often ragged and dragged a pair of shabby leather shoes that did not match his feet. But as a young Prague, he never felt inferior because of poverty, and he never complained that his family could not provide him with superior living conditions. The oversized leather shoes looked ridiculous on his feet, but he didn't feel inferior to them.

On the contrary, he cherishes these shoes immensely because they give him unlimited motivation.

It turned out that the shoes were sent to him by his father. The family was poor, and he couldn't buy him a pair of comfortable and sturdy shoes, even if the old leather shoes were still his father's. Despite his father's guilt, he gave his son great hope, unparalleled encouragement, and strong emotional support.

In a letter to him, the father wrote: "...Son, I'm so sorry, but I hope that in another year or two, my leather shoes will no longer be big for you to wear on your feet. ......I hope that once you have achieved something, I will be proud that my son has worked hard to succeed in my torn shoes.

This letter of profound meaning and full of hope has been like an invisible force, pushing Prague forward on the rugged mountain road of science.

The most successful education for a child is one that best helps a child grow and develop. Here are some of the factors that are often considered to be successful education:

Nurture your child's interests: Let your child know about their interests and hobbies and help them discover their talents.

Strengthen your child's self-confidence: Help your child identify his strengths and give praise and encouragement when appropriate to boost his or her self-confidence.

Cultivate independence: Encourage children to think and solve problems independently, and help them learn to solve problems independently.

Provide a balanced education: Provide a balanced education that includes academic programs, athletic activities, arts classes, and social skills, among others.

Focus on your child's emotions: Help your child understand their emotions and thoughts and provide them with appropriate support.

Develop a sense of responsibility: Help your child understand his responsibilities and obligations, and give praise and encouragement when appropriate to enhance his sense of responsibility.

Impact of the learning environment: Create a safe, friendly and stimulating learning environment for children to help them reach their highest potential.

How to solve the problems of children who are tired of school and do not want to go to school, rebellious and disobedient to discipline, addicted to games, and poor academic performance?

In order to be able to educate children well, please parents and friends, be sure to spend a few minutes to read it.

It turns out that my child has a few questions:

1. The child's original academic performance was actually good, but suddenly his grades dropped sharply; often find excuses to skip school and not go to school, even so serious that they want to drop out of school;

2. Coping with studying, not writing homework, taking learning as a painful thing, and going to tutorial classes before will not help;

3. You have to do whatever you want, without any moderation, rebellious and disobedient to discipline, often working against your parents, and running away from home because of your temper;

4. Children are obsessed with mobile phones, addicted to online games, and are nauseous, dizzy, grumpy and even hysterical at the mention of learning;

Especially during the holidays, the addiction to mobile games is more serious, and I don't write homework or study!

As a mother, I try my best to lead my child to the right path, but my child is still obsessed!

Seeing that the child is rebellious and tired of school, does not like to study, and yells at me, I can only do it in a hurry!

Faced with the fact that my child's grades were at the bottom of the class and grade, I invited a lot of teachers, but the child still didn't study well, and I was half angry!

The door is closed when the child comes home, and we speak less than ten words a month, and I am especially worried that the child will go to the extreme point that I can't control it!

The child's problems are getting worse and worse, and I am so anxious that I can't sleep every night.

I can't afford to delay my child's problems! If something goes wrong, you have to deal with it immediately!

Parents are the first teachers of children, good family style and tutoring will make children grow up healthily in this good environment, so such education of children should not be very bad, to give children upward, and then children are full of positive energy environment, so that children have a good environment to grow well, so that educating children is one of the ways to succeed.

Second, parents should educate their children to know gratitude, and let their children be kind people at the beginning, so the children themselves are the key to kindness, and give them how to be grateful to the society and their parents, so it should be one of the ways to succeed in education.

Third, it is necessary to educate children to have reverence for the law, have their own restraint ability, have self-control ability, and be able to control themselves, especially when they are alone, they can restrain themselves, control themselves, and have the law to restrain themselves with morality.

Fourth, we should educate children to love the collective, love labor, have the spirit of teamwork and cooperation, not to read a book, not to be too capricious, not too willful, not to abuse the child, let the child know that unity and cooperation is the secret of success, so that the child will have success, success may be one of the reasons for success.

In short, there are many examples of successful family education, which are nothing more than moral constraints and legal constraints, so that children know that there is awe, let children know that they are kind, and then children know that they lose gratitude, and let children know that unity and cooperation, the child will be easy to succeed.