What should I do if my boyfriend has a woman in his office who is very close to him?

Updated on workplace 2024-08-01
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Love is based on the mutual trust and understanding of two people, and once one party loses trust and understanding of the other, then the relationship is difficult to last. Since your boyfriend is the one he told you about, it means that he didn't do anything unfortunate, otherwise how dare he say it, it's better that you don't know. I'm a man, and from my point of view you should trust him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Be sure not to do what the people on the second floor say.

    Only those who don't have quality will do that.

    You can try to make friends with that woman.

    Ask your boyfriend to ask her out for dinner or something.

    You have to show her that she's just an ordinary colleague of your boyfriend, or at most an ordinary friend.

    Remember, don't call your boyfriend too ugly. Otherwise, it will have the opposite effect.

    Men like to be loved and pampered, but absolutely no man will like his girlfriend and make himself very shameless in front of his colleagues and friends.

    Wishing you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No one doesn't like beautiful girls, these keys must be grasped!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Divide it. Since he has the first, there will be a second. Now that you are not married, what if something like this happens again after you get married?

    That's when things weren't so simple. I hope you think clearly. Also, if he promises that he will be devoted to you after he gets married, you should also think twice.

    I think he may not have the same feelings for you now, let it go when it's time to let go. What is yours is yours after all, and what is not yours can never be yours.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Alas, it seems that your relationship is very weak, let's divide it, there are many good men, if you are reluctant to be together, similar things will happen in the future, because your boyfriend is very attentive, hehe.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't break up hastily.

    After all, it's not easy for you to be together for so long. Give your boyfriend another chance.

    Talk to him calmly again, talk about it, and explain it clearly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since he has already met his parents, he should be responsible for his own behavior, you have been together for three years, he is like this, this person is not very reliable. Don't believe in what stress, everything is an excuse. You have to look at his actions next, if he cares about you, this kind of thing will not happen at all, even if he admits his mistake and regrets it, if he cares about you, he should immediately cut off contact with that woman, if not, you have to keep him in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After a long time, there will be feelings, don't worry too much.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are her confidante, but it is generally impossible to develop to a deeper level!

    If you have an idea for her, you can hint that if you refuse, stop it. If you accept it, you can continue to try, step by step, and don't end up with no friends!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Maybe she's used to this kind of relationship with you, maybe she likes you herself, and she doesn't know.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Are you male or female, and the age of you and the other person?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's nothing, just treat you as a friend, don't think about it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You are good confidants. No problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think in this case, you should care more about your boyfriend, such as shushing the cold and asking for warmth, cooking more delicious food, etc., depending on the situation between you, and make him obviously feel that you care about him more than usual. But it doesn't say why, and then he will feel guilty (if he really has an idea), make him feel like it's still you, and you can also find a way to bring him some freshness!!

    Noisy is the most unwise choice, because the most annoying thing for a man is that a woman is always noisy, if you are always noisy, first he will feel that you don't trust him anymore, and then he will feel that there is no need to maintain this relationship, and eventually leave you. So try to avoid noise, many feelings that could have been salvaged are ruined because of women's troubles, be cautious!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1.Clearly let your husband understand that if you take into account the feelings of a third person in the love world, love will not last long because it is crowded!

    2。A man who takes care of women other than his wife or relatives does not mean how kind he is, but he can't resist a man who is ambiguous, undetermined and irresponsible.

    3.As for what the girl thinks? I'm telling you, she just wants to prove to your husband that she's still attractive, and it doesn't matter to her whether you want to get married or not.

    4.It's best to hold your husband tight, if he still has ideas and opinions that estimate her feelings, sooner or later there will be a story.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I saw the answer below, I felt very angry... Maybe it's because of your personality... If that happens, I won't make a "bun" · The key to this matter is your boyfriend... So start with him... Why is it that when he's out there having an affair with a colleague, you can do that to make him feel safe?

    The more you do that, the more proud he becomes... On the contrary, he is unscrupulous, and he thinks that she is young, and he is afraid of hurting her, so he is not afraid of hurting you?!

    All you have to do now is cold treatment·· Don't make a fuss...

    You give him two choices, or let him say cruel things to the ambiguous party in front of you... **Don't answer the text message and don't reply to it, or you'll flash people... He looked at it himself, and he didn't give up... If you don't come to be ruthless, he won't be clear...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm going to teach you a way to show that you don't care too much about how they develop and let them develop, but you just say something consciously or unconsciously, don't mess things up.

    lest you lose what you shouldn't lose.

    If he is like this now, I think he will be more proud if you are a little older, at that time, you have no capital to care, so at the moment you let him know well, it is too much, you know what to do. Let him lose it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You talk to the girl, see what she says, you sue her, she hurt him, night.

    DAO influence.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now many men eat what is in this bowl and look at what is in this pot.

    Seeing a girl with good looks and conditions, she is unwilling to give up, so she does one thing in front of her face.

    You should make it clear in front of him, and let him call the ** to explain to the woman in front of you.

    Otherwise, you are the one who is angry. Or grab their handles.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think it's a bit of a problem, depending on how you deal with it, it's better to observe more, men like to be chased by women, and they think that as long as they don't take the initiative, it's not his problem.

    On issues of principle, we must take a tough stance and not give in.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can first calm down and make him more clear, see what his attitude is towards this woman, if there is really an ambiguous plot, then it's best to break up, if it's just that the woman is interesting to your boyfriend, then you can ask your boyfriend to explain to him directly that he already has a girlfriend, and the relationship is very good, I think such a 1 say 1 like a girl who wants to face will no longer interfere with your door, if it doesn't work then you will come to the end, such as you go to their company to explain your relationship with your boyfriend, or accuse her face-to-face, But it's best not to do that, because it will also hurt your boyfriend's self-esteem...

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although I don't know if they have a special relationship, it's better to pay attention, otherwise the nine-year relationship will fall short. Let her boyfriend tell her that she is ready to get married if she has a girlfriend, and often ring the alarm bell for her boyfriend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The fact that he didn't quarrel with you means that he still cares about you! He also deleted text messages and call logs to not want you to get angry after seeing it! Treat your boyfriend well and pay more attention! Take it one step at a time! Don't wronged him!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should be happy with your colleagues, but what you said is that you should beware of accidents, but you can communicate with your boyfriend calmly and ask about the situation. It is they that become normal relationships and put you at ease.

    Have a nice day!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be rational, try to ask that sister out to talk, understand her thoughts, know yourself and know each other to win a hundred battles, in fact, E thinks that love is also a war, and, don't doubt him too much, suspect him, for so long, it will make both parties very disgusted.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You should be asked to make your boyfriend have a statement to that woman, what are you afraid of hurting her, you are the one who will hurt her.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then you find a man to have an affair and see how he reacts!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Believe in your love and treat this as a pre-marital test.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe I was too anxious before marriage, he used to chase you, so now I also want to experience the feeling of being chased.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hehe, you and the woman make it clear, or you two get married, and your partner will have a mistress.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Have a showdown with him, or he leaves the girl. Either he leaves you, and the two-legged man is not trustworthy, and when he is broken, he will be broken.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The easiest way is to say that you can't do it, your sister has to do it, my sister has to wait for me to meet or anything, you just say that you feel uncomfortable, and it is uncomfortable to say that your sister is also uncomfortable.

    And then for me like your boyfriend, pass a sentence, "Dude, men don't like beautiful women, men like fresh women, but buddy, if you call him two boats, he will inevitably be drowned, you should understand?"

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I don't think your boyfriend is sincere in his treatment of this relationship, at least he can find a time to talk to your boyfriend calmly.

    If he really can't put it down.

    I suggest you leave.

    It's good for both sides.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Sometimes don't overthink it. In fact, two people should be tolerant and understanding of each other, communicate more, reduce suspicion, and use them well

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's easy to do, you also find a person like your brother, so that you can see what he thinks.

    If he is a man who loves you, he will not be indifferent.

    Don't make trouble, if you make a fuss, it will become unreasonable, and making trouble is equivalent to pushing your sweetheart out with your own hands, and you must be calm

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think it should be figured out. If you don't tell the truth, will you have peace of mind? You can't get married if you don't figure it out!!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    When you ask this question, it means that you don't really believe it in your heart.

    He, it's so obvious, girls, the key points, there is no pure brother and sibling relationship between boys and girls, this kind of boy does not break up and still stays for the New Year? Any relationship between brother and sister under the guise of being ambiguous, the landlord's boyfriend is a good idea to fight, and both sides want it? Love is inherently selfish, how can you tolerate your lover wanting to treat other members of the opposite sex like you?

    Who is his girlfriend in the end, don't you have any points in your heart, the landlord is angry, why bother to wronged himself, I hope every good girl can have a good boy to match.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Good... I'm sticking with you.. Hang on...

    Belch.. How old are the two of you?? Do you have any intention of getting married, you have been apart for a long time...

    I don't know what your boyfriend's life was like during your absence... Rattle.. Isn't it outside, what? . .

    What's that... Afterwards, he said something that still didn't break through, "Look at your boyfriend... It's like conquering you ... For pleasure ...

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Don't force yourself. Love is two-sided, and if he respects you, he will wait for you to be ready.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    We've known each other for a year now, and we should know each other well. The next step should be to talk about marriage, if there is no such plan, there is no need to have a more "deep" relationship. said:

    All love that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan. "I don't think that's a rough one.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It didn't develop to the point where it was ready to get married. You'd better take it easy. In case you don't get married in the end, no matter how generous your husband is, he will be very entangled.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Understandably, don't push yourself since you don't want to.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's a man's instinct, so to speak, nothing. You have to hold on, or you'll regret it in the end!

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This kind of thing is still thought about Graduation is the first time and it's a bit traditional, I think you better calm down and think about whether you like him or not, I suggest you don't hand over the first time so easily, otherwise you will regret it.

  45. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You fit back in time to the minds of modern young people unlike the modern era! Very simple things are complicated by you.

    Men around like this will get tired of you.

  46. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It's normal for men to be like this, and some men value these very much, but it's better to be cautious when you've just known each other for a year and it's your first love.

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